Watching/Being Watched

[DudeOfLife]

Not sure if this is really a "How To" question but what the hey. Me and my wonderful G/F have been talking alot about our exhabitionist/voyeristic interests. The idea of being in a sexually charged and open enviornment is so exciting. We both would love to watch other couples in intamate situations. Also we both think it would be quite an experience to be watched as well. Unforunatly we seem to have no outlet for these things. Neither of us really like the idea of doing this with friends due to the wierdness factor that could arise later on. So we were thinking about a swingers club. Now we really arent too keen on the idea of full swapping. I know swing clubs usually have rules that let you decide who what where and when things happen, but I dont know if they cater to people with our interests. So I guess my question in the end is, how do we get ourselves into situations like those stated previously? Hmmmmm guess that turned out to be a "How To" question afterall.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

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[DudeOfLife]

That certainly is a good point dragon. Watching porn is stimulating to us both, so it naturally follows that seeing it in real life would be all the more intriguing.

 

[Zeldas slave]

Hey Dude, why don't you and your lady go for it in the back of your car?

Park somewhere that is well known to courting couples and pretty soon, someone will probably sneak up and peek at you as you make out!

As for watching others........I'm working on an idea for that!

Regards
Zeldas Slave

 

[ont_escpl]

You could try going cam2cam with a cpl.

 

[Zeldas slave]

Hey ont-escpl, that's an idea............zero chance of getting caught too! See, ol' Zeldas Slave never had that option when he was younger! Technology rules!

Zeldas Slave

 

[Parklife]

Depending on where you live, there may be a sex club. Not quite the same as a swinger's club but swinging most likely occurs there to.

In San Francisco, there's a club called the Power Exchange. I've never been but from what I've heard, you can go there and watch or be watched having sex. Granted, people may ask to join but there's no pressure to include others in your fun.

http://www.powerexchange.com/couples.html

Do a search for sex clubs in your (or the nearest) large city.

Park~

 

[Chuckwrox]

I'd be happy to watch! Give me a call.

 

[Lust Engine]

Admittedly this kind of thing turns me on to no end. I think it'd be so hot to be able to stroll about & see other couples engaged in all sorts of sex acts. And if I and my female friend wanted to join in the fray we could. I think the thought of showing off for other people as well as having others so unabashed in front of me would be amazing.

Maybe one day....


just maybe....

 

[pogogirl]

Why don't you guys go to the swinggers club and talk with another couple and ask if it is ok that you guys watch them and they watch you and tell them you don't want a full swap. It shouldn't be a problem for them and if they can't just accept that then ask the next couple you are interested in. I am sure in no time you will find a couple who can help you with this fantasy. If you asked me and my partner at the time to just have sex in the same room as you and your girlfriend I wouldn't mind. It would just make me happy knowing I am helping some people live out their fantasy. Who knows mabey you and your girlfriend will get so turned on you actually end up doing a full swap. I am thiniking as a single girl myself about joining a swingers club. Hope my advice was of some help to you.

 

[DudeOfLife]

Well there seems to be alot of good advice floating around here. We both thank you for your thoughts. We have concidered just up and going to a swingers club, but there are two inherent problems with that. Firstly, we are a young couple, Im 23 and shes 20. From what I can gather, the general demographic for these clubs is roughly 35+. Not to sound too picky, but I think that could be an issue for us. Not that we have anything against people older than ourselves. But we may not be taken as seriously as peers would. Secondly, being that she is only 20 we have another snag. It seems that all these clubs have a strickt 21 and over only policy. So at least for a few more months we are out of luck.

Someone brought up the idea of camming. That sounds like a great first step. But again we run into hangups. It appears that most of the time, if one attempts to cam, the only people around are an ocean of overly horny guys, not couples, or even too many females for that matter. sigh,,,,,, So my next thought was maybe we could meet a couple or female online and develope a friendship that could lead to a bit of camming. But unfortunatly that has been a task that has only yeilded frustration. Either they are fake, think we are, or are just hiding somewhere. Ahh well. Any Lit folk interested?

 

[ApplesMcgee]

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[Imi]

I say you start posting in the Amateur Pic Forum first. The inherent problem doing it in a car is that you don't know where you're going to wind up. You know that somewhere, out there, someone might have you up on a priceless.com site and those pics might come back to bite you.

So why am I recommending the Amateur Pic Forum? Because you control what you post and I find that the posters in that forum are incredibly wonderful, supportive and respectful. I think a lot of the lurkers are too. I would not recommend posting your faces and keep the background as generic as possible, but then go for it. The feedback will be there almost immediately and then keep going.

I would recommend PMing Oz_Raven and Oz_Akasha, Ran57 and NicholasGreek, Hongluobo and Gusty Wind and luvrgurl and turboguy. They are all exhibitionist couples on the Pic forum. They can probably give you pointers and advice.

edited cause I forgot to include JamesG5 and PoutyKitten in that list.

 

[Zeldas slave]

Hi Powrdragon, I think this was the place you were talking about.

www.redclouds.com

Regards
Zeldas Slave

 

[Zeldas slave]

Whoops, sorry about the misspelling powrdragn

Zeldas Slave

 

[Lust Engine]

Why don't you guys go to the swinggers club and talk with another couple and ask if it is ok that you guys watch them and they watch you and tell them you don't want a full swap. It shouldn't be a problem for them and if they can't just accept that then ask the next couple you are interested in. I am sure in no time you will find a couple who can help you with this fantasy. If you asked me and my partner at the time to just have sex in the same room as you and your girlfriend I wouldn't mind. It would just make me happy knowing I am helping some people live out their fantasy. Who knows mabey you and your girlfriend will get so turned on you actually end up doing a full swap. I am thiniking as a single girl myself about joining a swingers club. Hope my advice was of some help to you.

Wow...you are brave! While I'm sure you're not totally unique, I've never heard of single women joining a swingers club but I'm sure you'd be the hit of the place.

The thought of just being around all that sex is kind of thrilling and a major turn on.

 

[DudeOfLife]

Well thats some more great advice. We have posted some pics already on the forum. Mostly they are all of my gf. Im not nearly as photogenic as her. Not that Im all that shabby, but just havent really conciderd posting too many of just me. And to that, we have had some great positive feedbakc. Although they were for the most part all from men. I like the camming idea alot, but I guess we are just a little shy about iniating it. Shes game for whatever but I just dont know how to approach a fellow lit member and say "Hi, wanna watch us fuck?" ;p

THat being said. Any couples viewing this thread interested in a little camming? It would be great to work something out where we could chat on yahoo. 2 young, horny people here waiting for your PM.

 

[DudeOfLife]

RedClouds? that sounds very familiar, is it a pay site?

 

[realguyusa]

Not sure if this is really a "How To" question but what the hey. Me and my wonderful G/F have been talking alot about our exhabitionist/voyeristic interests. The idea of being in a sexually charged and open enviornment is so exciting. We both would love to watch other couples in intamate situations. Also we both think it would be quite an experience to be watched as well. Unforunatly we seem to have no outlet for these things. Neither of us really like the idea of doing this with friends due to the wierdness factor that could arise later on. So we were thinking about a swingers club. Now we really arent too keen on the idea of full swapping. I know swing clubs usually have rules that let you decide who what where and when things happen, but I dont know if they cater to people with our interests. So I guess my question in the end is, how do we get ourselves into situations like those stated previously? Hmmmmm guess that turned out to be a "How To" question afterall.

Go to an "on premises" swing club. Make sure it is one that doesn't allow single males. Let your G/F decide what happens once you get there. You both might like it. If you don't, just leave. And do not forget the golden rule of swinging: "the lady always makes the decisions."

 

[Lust Engine]

Admittedly what's hotter than looking over and seeing your hot companion getting it on?

Yowza!

 

[Imi]

THat being said. Any couples viewing this thread interested in a little camming? It would be great to work something out where we could chat on yahoo. 2 young, horny people here waiting for your PM.

You might also want to place a personal to this effect in that forum.

As for you, you might be surprised at the ladies who respond to your thread. Granted there aren't as many of us, men do tend to be more visual, but more than one guy has found out he's appealing by posting.

And you might get some feedback when you post TOGETHER. You know?

 

[Melesse]

Me and my gf have been discussing this too.

We've posted in the Amatuer pic Forum, and we got a cam recently to try something like that. Unfortunately, the cam was a bad experience, the software it came with was buggy, and the picture quality was terrible.

We're looking into another Cam, any suggestions?

And what is Redcloud like? I looked through the tour of course, and it's not very expensive, but is anyone here a member? Do they host your cam for you, or do you have to find a potentially porn-friendly host as well? Are there rooms set up for couples to meet couples (ie chat?)? I'm just looking for more info

And DudeofLife, if we get a Cam we might be interested in playing. I love pics and my digital cam, but sometimes in the heat of the moment it's a pain in the ass lol.

Melesse

 

[ApplesMcgee]

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[Zeldas slave]

Hi Dudeoflife and Melisse. I'm a member of Redclouds, but as I remember they don't actually have Webcam facilities!

However, please don't take my word for it! Why not E-Mail Igor and the guys at Redclouds and ask them whether they do offer a Webcam facility? webmaster@redclouds.com

I think there are chat rooms - but if not, you can get in touch through Bulletin Boards like on Literotica.

I hope you find what you are looking for and I only wish I could join you in this - but sadly, my girlfriend just isn't into sharing! :-( <VBG>

Regards
Zeldas Slave

 

[ldlarry52]

I, too, like the idea of being watched and watching. I would suggest some on line adult contact sites or there are magazines you can get at adult book stores that advertise for what you are seeking.

Probally, most of the people you will find there are looking to exchange partners as well. You will have to read the adds carefully and make sure the other couple understands what you want.

Also, you could make your own porn film and show it to others. I'd be careful about exchanging or loaning. Keep control of the video.

When staying at a motel leave the drapes slightly open and the lights on. Some one may pass by and watch your show.

Hope you this helps, LDLarry52