Was it highly insensitive of me......

[Avery_Chisholm]

broke new years' resolution 2002 already am fighting a losing battle, am posting 2 keep from calling/emailing my lover i sent him a very unflattering email yesterday afternoon stating that he could just put my christmas pressie in the mail along with a note, given that I don't take any presidents in his life given that we were suppose 2 get 2gether 2 different nites' where for fun he thought it would highly amusing 2 stand me up....
am I right in sticking 2 my principles
and B WHY does it HURT so very MUCH i feel like somebody just TORE my HEART out
HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL

 

[koalabear]

NO........3rd time is a charm. maybe you'll shit can him after that.

 

[April]

You have to keep doing it until you know that you've had enough of him. Only then will you find the strength of will to end it.

Been there.

 

[Mistress]

You have to keep doing it until you know that you've had enough of him. Only then will you find the strength of will to end it.

Been there.

Nods, understanding....

 

[Wiggles]

It probably hurts because he hurt your feelings. You're standing up for yourself, that's a good thing to do.
Instead of obsessing over him you could find something constuctive to do. Not to say that the board isn't constructive, but it doesn't relax you or keep you very busy.

Clean the house from top to bottom. Take a long bath with candles and a cd playing. Read a little.

I think you were right for standing up for your principles.
It's natural to feel bad. But time heals all wounds if you give it some space.

 

[daughter]

Avery, nothing sucks like being

mistreated. Oh, I could there on this one. I'm with everyone else, stand up and don't even think about apologizing or feeling bad about doing something that is good for you.

I kept getting dumped on and couldn't figure out why. Maybe it kept happening because I kept taking it?

Alone hurts only till you realize you're no longer being mistreated and you're changing your radar for the better. Mr. treatyouright will hone in. Don't worry when. Trust it'll happen.

I enjoy the freedom of doing what I want without having to consider someone else. How about a movie and dinner solo? It's always been very enjoyable for me.

Whatever you do, remember you have friends that support you. Mine saw me through.

Peace,

daughter

 

[Laurel]

Re: Avery, nothing sucks like being

I kept getting dumped on and couldn't figure out why. Maybe it kept happening because I kept taking it?

So much said, with such economy of words.

 

[Neotragii]

No apologies necessary, he is intentionally playing with you feelings. Where do you go from here? I don't know. Is this a one time thing or does it happen often? Up to you to decide if it's worth persuing.

 

[Jazzy2]

let me get this straight

that we were suppose 2 get 2gether 2 different nites' where for fun he thought it would highly amusing 2 stand me up....
am I right in sticking 2 my principles
and B WHY does it HURT so very MUCH i feel like somebody just TORE my HEART out
HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL

He dogs you thinks it funny, and you're wondering why you feel like shit?

Work with me here. Dump his stupid ass, and when he calls and he will call tell 'im he cain't even smell it.

Go eat, get drunk. Do whatever you gotta do, but move on! you write like you're young. Gurl, gettin' a man ain't hard. Findin' one worth havin' means you gotta have the gumption to know your own worth.

jazzy2

 

[eepy]

you write like you're young. Gurl, gettin' a man ain't hard. Findin' one worth havin' means you gotta have the gumption to know your own worth.

jazzy2

Agreed. But knowing your own worth, what you need in life and in your partner... that can be very tough. Looks like it's time for some serious soul-searching, hmm?

 

[Hamletmaschine]

If misery loves company...

... then I'm with you Avery.

Virtually the same thing has been happening with me and the woman I've been involved with...

Not a very merry x-mas or happy new year this time around, is it?

And, Daughter, thank you for the sage advice (even tho' it wasn't meant for me). All us jilted lovers need to be reminded of these things during the dark time....

~H~