wanting to try a threesome MMF

[Gamecock78]

46 MM PA....have had the fantasy of seeing my wife of 21 yrs with another man for a loooong time. I have discussed this with my wife and she is excited by the idea but the reality is not something she wants .. A little role play seems ok but after she says no..not for real. We are very open sexually but my wife was a virgin when we met. So she has not been withanyone else ever.
Im sure others have faced this and some have overcome the issues. Does anyone male or female have any advice?

 

[BigGuyPA44]

Just a suggestion!

Yea, cherish that woman! and try to find someone exactly in the same boat and invite me over for a drink ;-))

Really...sounds like you have a keeper too!

B

 

[Native Alien]

find another couple to play with.........

okay, okay, it was just a suggestion...........

 

[Gamecock78]

Im not sure what you mean keeper but I do love her and thats the root of the fantasy her doing a guy for me while i watch and enjoy.....

 

[Guest]

Gamecock, I'd be more than happy to join you both for wild times.
I am 28, clean and discreet.

 

[ExtacyCouple]

I too share the same fantasy but have had the pleasure of living it out. My best advice is don't try to hard to make it happen but rather put yourself in situations where it could happen. In other words get her shit faced drunk and invite a buddie over (just kidding). Really though, go out have fun and incurage her while your out to flirt with other guys or point out ther guys checking her out, but no pressure. Just keep it part of your fantasy life until she can't take it any more.

Good luck!

 

[Ukin]

I too share the same fantasy but have had the pleasure of living it out. My best advice is don't try to hard to make it happen but rather put yourself in situations where it could happen. In other words get her shit faced drunk and invite a buddie over (just kidding). Really though, go out have fun and incurage her while your out to flirt with other guys or point out ther guys checking her out, but no pressure. Just keep it part of your fantasy life until she can't take it any more.

Good luck!

I agree with the above. I was more fortunate...my ex girlfriend wanted to do it... and ffm too...which we did..but I have had others who fancied the idea and with a little cohersion and a feew bottles of bubbly, a hotel (NICE hotel)...it can happen. Starts of with the flashing a little leg...thigh..breasts (sounds like a turkey lol)..and she will soon warm up. BUT..like above said..DON'T RUSH her into it.

Have fun mate!

 

[SexyChele]

46 MM PA....have had the fantasy of seeing my wife of 21 yrs with another man for a loooong time. I have discussed this with my wife and she is excited by the idea but the reality is not something she wants .. A little role play seems ok but after she says no..not for real. We are very open sexually but my wife was a virgin when we met. So she has not been withanyone else ever.
Im sure others have faced this and some have overcome the issues. Does anyone male or female have any advice?

Have you tried finding out exactly why she backs off from reality? There are several different reasons a woman might. She might be shy. Maybe a little inhibited around another person. She might also realize that sometimes fantasies are best left as fantasies. Also, she might be thinking of you, have you considered that? It is one thing to fantacize about your spouse with another person, and can be a very different (and difficult) reality. She might be thinking the relationship she has with you might suffer in some way.

Here is what I would suggest: try going into a chatroom with her. Have her log in as herself - it will only take a few seconds before she is hit on - and see if she is willing to cyber with another man while you are "watching". No, I know it isn't the same thing. However, she might find out that 1. another man can be interesting and fun, and 2. she may realize just how excited you get.

Also, it will speak volumes as to how you will react to her reacting to another man's attention.

And, if either one of you becomes uncomfortable, simply exit out of the room.

 

[AardRiven]

I agree with SexyChele.

What sounds great as fantasy, and what it might feel like AFTER in reality are sometimes two totally different things.

 

[Madame Manga]

Oh, watch out. A woman who came to your marriage a virgin probably had a good personal reason to do so. I wasn't a virgin when I married, and I still can't imagine actually fucking another man, for my husband's pleasure or otherwise. Your wife's attitude should tip you off that you are crossing her line.

She may have religious objections as well as personal ones. Just because your husband asked you to do it doesn't make the act any less adultery. Don't push her. As a matter of fact, just drop it and count your blessings before you blow your marriage out of the water. Any man who told me "If you love me, you'll do it," would sleep in the garage for a month. At the very least.

I mean, hell, what if she had a fantasy of seeing you get butt-fucked by another man (assuming you are not into that)? How would you feel if she kept nagging you to pick up some guy in a bar?

MM

 

[BigGuyPA44]

Keeper

Im not sure what you mean keeper but I do love her and thats the root of the fantasy her doing a guy for me while i watch and enjoy.....

A "keeper" is a s fishing term...one that you keep and don't throw back into the water to be caught by someone else LOL .
Where in PA are you? I travel all over PA and would love to meet you too and flirt with her if you'd like that as fuel for the fantasy...and will draw the line where ever you'd say so ;-))

B