Wanted: older male for friendship, conversation, phonesex

[pusskat]

I'm 40, happily married, a career professional, childfree, a world traveler, with lots of hobbies and interests. I'd like to email/IM/talk on the phone with someone who's older (my age and upwards). What turns me on is genuine, wide-ranging, substantive conversation about everything under the sun -- intellectual seduction. My husband is my soulmate, but I do still love a bit of fun over email, in IM, and/or on the phone.

My interests are travel, reading, writing (blogging, some short fiction, poetry), swimming and movies. What turns me on is for a man to like and appreciate the same things I do, and have complementary interests, as well as the same world view. I'm politically liberal, a humanist, a Democrat, a feminist, and also fairly but not overly cynical about human nature. Yet I love to laugh at people's foibles and blunders, too, since we all make them. None of us are going to get out of life alive, so we might as well make the best of it while we're here, and live, love, laugh and learn, and forgive one another. Life is too short to do a job you hate or to hold grudges.

Anyway. Here's to casting my bread upon the waters, and hoping for the best. Thanks to any and all reading this -- cheers to you, to us all, to life!

 

[Lone_Wanderer]

I'm a touch younger (30), but good luck in your search

 

[achingyearning]

I think you might be a dream come true

I'm 40, happily married, a career professional, childfree, a world traveler, with lots of hobbies and interests. I'd like to email/IM/talk on the phone with someone who's older (my age and upwards). What turns me on is genuine, wide-ranging, substantive conversation about everything under the sun -- intellectual seduction. My husband is my soulmate, but I do still love a bit of fun over email, in IM, and/or on the phone.

My interests are travel, reading, writing (blogging, some short fiction, poetry), swimming and movies. What turns me on is for a man to like and appreciate the same things I do, and have complementary interests, as well as the same world view. I'm politically liberal, a humanist, a Democrat, a feminist, and also fairly but not overly cynical about human nature. Yet I love to laugh at people's foibles and blunders, too, since we all make them. None of us are going to get out of life alive, so we might as well make the best of it while we're here, and live, love, laugh and learn, and forgive one another. Life is too short to do a job you hate or to hold grudges.

Anyway. Here's to casting my bread upon the waters, and hoping for the best. Thanks to any and all reading this -- cheers to you, to us all, to life!

So I'm a guy who is older than you by a fair amount and my belief is that the brain is the best sex organ of all... I have a wonderfully rich fantasy life and I love to imagine so many different scenarios that feature seduction and pleasure...

I love to pleasure a woman... and I want to pleasure your mind... and kiss and lick and touch... please let me know if you want to try this with me... I live close to NYC and I have yahoo IM...

soft kisses on the inside of your thighs...... and butterfly touches with my figertips....

 

[hotpup]

Advice

I'm 40, happily married, a career professional, childfree, a world traveler, with lots of hobbies and interests. I'd like to email/IM/talk on the phone with someone who's older (my age and upwards). What turns me on is genuine, wide-ranging, substantive conversation about everything under the sun -- intellectual seduction. My husband is my soulmate, but I do still love a bit of fun over email, in IM, and/or on the phone.

My interests are travel, reading, writing (blogging, some short fiction, poetry), swimming and movies. What turns me on is for a man to like and appreciate the same things I do, and have complementary interests, as well as the same world view. I'm politically liberal, a humanist, a Democrat, a feminist, and also fairly but not overly cynical about human nature. Yet I love to laugh at people's foibles and blunders, too, since we all make them. None of us are going to get out of life alive, so we might as well make the best of it while we're here, and live, love, laugh and learn, and forgive one another. Life is too short to do a job you hate or to hold grudges.

Anyway. Here's to casting my bread upon the waters, and hoping for the best. Thanks to any and all reading this -- cheers to you, to us all, to life!

It would be helpful for any guy interested if you opened private Messaging or shared your IM information.
Good Luck in the search as I was luck in the search as I found a wonderful lady here.

 

[BenDover4]

I'm 40, happily married, a career professional, childfree, a world traveler, with lots of hobbies and interests. I'd like to email/IM/talk on the phone with someone who's older (my age and upwards). What turns me on is genuine, wide-ranging, substantive conversation about everything under the sun -- intellectual seduction. My husband is my soulmate, but I do still love a bit of fun over email, in IM, and/or on the phone.

My interests are travel, reading, writing (blogging, some short fiction, poetry), swimming and movies. What turns me on is for a man to like and appreciate the same things I do, and have complementary interests, as well as the same world view. I'm politically liberal, a humanist, a Democrat, a feminist, and also fairly but not overly cynical about human nature. Yet I love to laugh at people's foibles and blunders, too, since we all make them. None of us are going to get out of life alive, so we might as well make the best of it while we're here, and live, love, laugh and learn, and forgive one another. Life is too short to do a job you hate or to hold grudges.

Anyway. Here's to casting my bread upon the waters, and hoping for the best. Thanks to any and all reading this -- cheers to you, to us all, to life!

I too would contact you if your PM system was activated...

 

[lovebored]

Hello
I too am in a similar situation. I have a great sole partner. I do however lack the mind intense conversations. If you are interested please send me an PM. Even though we are a country apart I am sure I can still wet your appetite.

 

[bigman131]

If you enjoy laughing at peoples blunders being a Democrat you must make yourself hysterical every day

 

[oldersouthozman]

from OZ

Hi Pusskat,
I am older (maybe TOO much older?) at 59.
I am from Australia (so timing cam be a pain!).

i am married but love to spend time here chatting and "enjoying" life.

I would love to hook up some time (yahoo??)..after all "nothing ventured, nothing gained" .

 

[robertmn]

gone fishin

 

[sloan]

Please PM me- I know what you would like, I think- sloan

 

[HardPants]

hi

I am only 31 but I would love to chat with an OLDER woman about the same things and more.

 

[merlinx]

Hello Pusskat ...

would love to get to know you better .. I am also a married male in my 50's and have travelled widely since my student days, including a memorable back packing trip across asia and europe along the 'hippie trail' back in the day !
also well educated and living in canada .. send me a pm and let me know if you want to take this further ... ;-)

 

[sincere_guy]

Would Like To Hear More About You

Hi Pusskat,

I'm a happily married man in my 50's who is interested in having an online friend for stimulating conversation that evokes a response from both the mind and body.

As a Technology professional with a high stress job it's important for me to escape that world and talk with someone who enjoys talking about many different things. The friend I seek must have a good sense of humor and have a good idea of what they want and need from someone in this online world.

Life is too short and time is a precious commodidy so it doesn't make sense to waste any of it when there is not a strong connection. Need to share my time with someone who is willing to give as well as they get.

Need to have fun and unwind after a hard day, so I'm not looking for a deep emotional relationship. I do need to achieve a certain level of comfort with a woman before launching into anything more...

I also enjoying traveling, and my favorite hobby is photography.

Send me a PM telling me the most important things I need to know about you and want you want with an online friend. and let's see if we have enough common experience and interest to make it worthwhile.

 

[broadfjord]

you are a surprisingly a lot like me. i'm in california too......u near san francisco.........i would have sent yo a Pm............but you don't accept them.............the word 'geuine' in your profile caught my attention...............send me a message....i'd liek to talk...........

 

[jhe1950]

I'm 40, happily married, a career professional, childfree, a world traveler, with lots of hobbies and interests. I'd like to email/IM/talk on the phone with someone who's older (my age and upwards). What turns me on is genuine, wide-ranging, substantive conversation about everything under the sun -- intellectual seduction. My husband is my soulmate, but I do still love a bit of fun over email, in IM, and/or on the phone.

My interests are travel, reading, writing (blogging, some short fiction, poetry), swimming and movies. What turns me on is for a man to like and appreciate the same things I do, and have complementary interests, as well as the same world view. I'm politically liberal, a humanist, a Democrat, a feminist, and also fairly but not overly cynical about human nature. Yet I love to laugh at people's foibles and blunders, too, since we all make them. None of us are going to get out of life alive, so we might as well make the best of it while we're here, and live, love, laugh and learn, and forgive one another. Life is too short to do a job you hate or to hold grudges.

Anyway. Here's to casting my bread upon the waters, and hoping for the best. Thanks to any and all reading this -- cheers to you, to us all, to life!

40 and a great command of the English Language. I am older. I am widowed, but I was married for nearly 30 years. I do email, instant message, and occasionally talk coherently on the phone. I did wonder, however now that we approach the rather grey season of light here in the midwest, if you might not settle for irreverant cloudy conversations broaching all subjects under a blanket of clouds?

I love movies, have travelled two of the seven seas crewing a schooner, and seen Europe at the kind behest of Uncle Sam. I write sporadically, read in voracious spurts, and have absolutely no talent when it comes to poetry. I swim, and have on occasion done so for quite some distance, but only because the boat sank. I'm apolitical, some say amoral, but hey they don't like having fun out of life... Anyway, I was once told that I was a good friend but had little use for mankind in general...I laugh at the foibles of people, but mostly my own.

And while you're casting bread on the water, here's hoping the Mallards and not the carp retrieve it...

 

[teacher_man]

Well, how provocative, PussKat, and what a broad range of responses you got, to which you can add this one more.

I'd like to throw my bread on the waters, too -- into your general vicinity, I hope. I'm 51, married, a high school teacher. I'm very verbal and a good listener, which in the world of phone sex are both good traits, I have found.

I haven't had phone sex in years, not since what I call the heyday of Yahoo! Chat. I miss it. I miss flirting when I know flirting is okay and could lead to more. In the non-chat world, it's hard to know when someone will be offput by a married man flirting, so when I do flirt, it's as though I'm poking fun. And the other person pokes back, and we go our separate ways. I miss having a secret place I can go, away from spouse, whom I love and couldn't imagine living without. Little secrets are important to me. I'm not sure if that makes me maladjusted (Dr. Phil would certainly think so), but I don't care. I'm happy, spouse is happy, kids are happy -- all's well in our home.

A few times I have strayed in real-space, but have no regrets. It's not something I'm looking for now, but it's also not something I would turn away from. You're too far from me for that to be a possibility even if you were open to it; I mention it only to let you know a little more about who I am. I don't know. It seemed to be relevant. You decide.

Yes, you should turn on your PMs! Regardless, hope to hear from you soon.

 

[KIDYNAMITE11]

older male for chat i am ready

hi older hazleton male loves to chat on all topics and like meeting new friendswith diffrenent interests, kidynamite1@yahoo.com adn =on yahoo im as kidynamite11

 

[imharmless69]

I'm 40, happily married, a career professional, childfree, a world traveler, with lots of hobbies and interests. I'd like to email/IM/talk on the phone with someone who's older (my age and upwards). What turns me on is genuine, wide-ranging, substantive conversation about everything under the sun -- intellectual seduction. My husband is my soulmate, but I do still love a bit of fun over email, in IM, and/or on the phone.

My interests are travel, reading, writing (blogging, some short fiction, poetry), swimming and movies. What turns me on is for a man to like and appreciate the same things I do, and have complementary interests, as well as the same world view. I'm politically liberal, a humanist, a Democrat, a feminist, and also fairly but not overly cynical about human nature. Yet I love to laugh at people's foibles and blunders, too, since we all make them. None of us are going to get out of life alive, so we might as well make the best of it while we're here, and live, love, laugh and learn, and forgive one another. Life is too short to do a job you hate or to hold grudges.

Anyway. Here's to casting my bread upon the waters, and hoping for the best. Thanks to any and all reading this -- cheers to you, to us all, to life!

How does a man go about seducing such a fascinating woman with words in a forum?

 

[mass_ejection]

Look no farther, I am the man you are looking for!

I'm 40, happily married, a career professional, childfree, a world traveler, with lots of hobbies and interests. I'd like to email/IM/talk on the phone with someone who's older (my age and upwards). What turns me on is genuine, wide-ranging, substantive conversation about everything under the sun -- intellectual seduction. My husband is my soulmate, but I do still love a bit of fun over email, in IM, and/or on the phone.

My interests are travel, reading, writing (blogging, some short fiction, poetry), swimming and movies. What turns me on is for a man to like and appreciate the same things I do, and have complementary interests, as well as the same world view. I'm politically liberal, a humanist, a Democrat, a feminist, and also fairly but not overly cynical about human nature. Yet I love to laugh at people's foibles and blunders, too, since we all make them. None of us are going to get out of life alive, so we might as well make the best of it while we're here, and live, love, laugh and learn, and forgive one another. Life is too short to do a job you hate or to hold grudges.

Anyway. Here's to casting my bread upon the waters, and hoping for the best. Thanks to any and all reading this -- cheers to you, to us all, to life!

Hello pusskat, I'm 46, also married (almost 25 years), well educated, I have two grown children, and like yourself, have many interests & hobbies. I too, enjoy having stimulating and intelligent conversation and as you said, " about everything under the sun." What turns me off is what I call "plastic people", you know the type that from the outside seem genuine, open and honest, but in reality are shallow, petty and closed minded.

My interests are along the same lines as yourself, traveling, reading, movies, enjoying the great outdoors. I would like to be more specific about myself, but there just is not enough space here in this post. So if you would like to know more about me send me an e-mail and I will tell you all about myself, OK.

 

[sookie80]

Wow. Good luck pusscat. I never thought I'd feel nostalgic when I think of yahoo chat teacher man.

 

[Dave-2223]

41 yo married guy in Montana here. No way to contact you so send me a message if your interested.

 

[oh55guy]

56,m,Ohio feel free to IM me anytime with info for yahoo, aim, msn, etc.....

 

[dad001]

Hi

We share some interests in reading and communication.....read my post in what you are craving.

I am 48 married Male

Dad

 

[Grifters]

At 37 I never thought I would be too young for a request, this makes me smile
good luck in your search