want to Try something new
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millieteases
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Anal? How about tying her up? Or one of you just lies there, cooperative but passive. The other touches, strokes, kisses, etc. If the passive one reacts s/he loses.
Or, how about new locations? Camping? A nudist resort? A drive in? (There are still a few around.)
Or, read a story, act it out.
Or, how about new locations? Camping? A nudist resort? A drive in? (There are still a few around.)
Or, read a story, act it out.
millieteases
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Very gently...and maybe if she's doing you first...the spouse likes it, so you might as well.
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"Hey, how about trying anal?" may work.
infinity706
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Well, if there is, I'm in trouble.
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I have to smile when I read these columns sometimes lol. I have to agree with everyone else as F/B's go there is no limit to number as you're just using each other for a purpose, but does she know she's just a fuck buddy and that she has the same privilege of more than just seeing you. Speaking from personal experience I didn't know I was a fuck buddy for quite some time I thought i had a b/f. It didn't last past me finding out i was a fringe benefit friend! lol
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Maybe you should have just gotten some fringe benefit friends of you own? As long as you can handle it and do it safely, sex with more than one person has some major upsides. 
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OP, if you want truly helpful ideas, you might want to give people an idea of what you've already done and what you may or may not be interested in. it's kinda hard to suggest "something new" if we have no idea where you're coming from.
And FWIW, I don't know that I could do anal with someone who was a FB or a FwB. That's just not how I'm wired. Other people's mileage may vary, obviously.
And FWIW, I don't know that I could do anal with someone who was a FB or a FwB. That's just not how I'm wired. Other people's mileage may vary, obviously.
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I don't see what difference it would make for anal or any other sex act. As long as it's responsible and safe, it's rather nice. I just don't do it much because most of the interested parties don't have enough sense to be trusted to do it without hurting me.
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infinity, this wouldn't be the first time i've heard someone say sex act [a] entails a different level of intimacy than sex act . i'm surprised this is apparently a new idea to you.
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It's not a new idea to me. I just go by trust needed to consider something safe. Besides, if I went by intimacy, I'd never get to do half of what I'd like because my most intimate special friends are far too vanilla.
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I'd say to your fuck buddy, "I want to try something new, but you don't seem to be into oral. Any suggestions?"
Either she'll say
"I like oral fine. Get licking" or...
"Fuck buddy means FUCK buddy, don't you get that?" or...
"I like oral, but your cock always tastes like other girls' assholes." or...
"I have a massive strap-on, do you want to take turns buttfucking each other?" or...
"No thanks, I'm pretty content with what we've got now." or...
"Who are you, again?" or...
"Now that you mention it, I've always wanted to try...." or...
... she'll say something else, but I honestly think you've got a much better chance of getting her to try something new by talking to her about it instead of us.
Either she'll say
"I like oral fine. Get licking" or...
"Fuck buddy means FUCK buddy, don't you get that?" or...
"I like oral, but your cock always tastes like other girls' assholes." or...
"I have a massive strap-on, do you want to take turns buttfucking each other?" or...
"No thanks, I'm pretty content with what we've got now." or...
"Who are you, again?" or...
"Now that you mention it, I've always wanted to try...." or...
... she'll say something else, but I honestly think you've got a much better chance of getting her to try something new by talking to her about it instead of us.
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C'mon Infinity - I know you are not that dense. The whole point of Eilan's post was that some people may have different standards for certain sex acts. "Safety" for some people may entail much more than physical aspects.
Whether or not that's the case with the F/ b or not, only the op can discover.
