Want to experiment something new...

[sweetiepi25]

But not sure how to go about doing it. A male friend and mine are discussing doing a threesome with him, me and another female. (1) Not sure where to find the other girl and (2) Not sure how to actually do it. Any suggestions???

 

[fgarvb1]

No. Not me; but DAMN, I like the way you think!

 

[beadsforthebear]

Hmm....good question....I hope someone has an answer!

 

[dartagnansmith]

Four is better than 3.....

with two cuples the femailes can start on them while the men settle back and get rested..and once evybody is cool then every one comes together

 

[Eating_Scarlett]

You put an ad in the paper saying something like this:

"Stupid idiot requires even stupider female idiot to participate in sexual activity with Stupid idiot and friend. Ability to handle situations in which nobody knows what to do a must."

Then, you wait.

 

[lovechild27]

LMAO at Scarlet.

Threesomes= bad idea with people your close to. Go out and have some safe as humanly possible casual sex if you want a threesom. No hurt feelings in the morning...no weird tension...

 

[Meat Whistler]

I agree with Lovechild. Too uncomfortable with people you know.

 

[sweetiepi25]

You put an ad in the paper saying something like this:

"Stupid idiot requires even stupider female idiot to participate in sexual activity with Stupid idiot and friend. Ability to handle situations in which nobody knows what to do a must."

Then, you wait.

Well, aren't you a nice one.

Was that really necessary? I didn't think so. Have a LOVELY day.

 

[sweetiepi25]

LMAO at Scarlet.

Threesomes= bad idea with people your close to. Go out and have some safe as humanly possible casual sex if you want a threesom. No hurt feelings in the morning...no weird tension...

That's why it's not with people I'm close to. This guy is not a close friend and that's why we're looking for a female. I doubt we'll even do it anyway. Oh well.

Thought I could get some info here but guess I was wrong.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

LOL@eating

 

[lorddragonwolf]

depends on what part of florida you are in there are a few swinger clubs around.

 

[UEMcGill]

Never say never! The wife and I had been married for 10 years. Not once was the subject of swinging brought up. One night after a night of dancing and a few drinks. with some friends. We ended up back at their place. Before the night was over we had full swing and my wife had her first bi- passive experience.

We talked it over, both were surprised about what had happened. but agreed it was fun. Decided it wasn't a good idea to do it with friends. Now we travel a couple of hours to a larger city, that has clubs. And have had several memorable experiences.

 

[lovechild27]

well a FRIEND usually means someone your close to....not just some John off the street you have talked to once or twice and decide to bone

 

[Noor]

LMAO at Scarlet.

Threesomes= bad idea with people your close to. Go out and have some safe as humanly possible casual sex if you want a threesom. No hurt feelings in the morning...no weird tension...

I strongly disagree! As someone who only has sex with friends, I can't imagine going out and "finding" someone for a threesome. I have been in several threesomes and they were great fun because we were close. If everyone going into it understands the boundaries and is honest about their feelings, everything should be fine.
Have sex when everyone is sober and awake.
However since the poster isn't even a close friend of this guy...
How to do it? Make some good freinds that you feel sexually comfortable with for starters.

 

[Quint]

Ditto Noor on all counts. I would not have enjoyed my experiences with group sex had I not been extremely good friends with the other people involved. The connection was real and meaningful and it was not awkward at all the next morning.

I second the sobriety recommendation as well. I fretted for awhile that the girl had only agreed to it because she was drunk, and I didn't need or deserve that sort of insecurity. Make sure it's something nobody will regret when they're sober by keeping them sober the whole time. Lots of other things bring down inhibitions besides foreign substances.

 

[BoondocksUSA]

threesome input

Think UEMcGill hit on one of the best ideas and suggestions. Most of the clubs you go to will have people who share the same interests as you.

By that I mean that they're not only concerned about the sexual ventures, but in having contact with those who are tested regularly and take the proper precautions when needed. My wife and I have been visiting swing clubs for most of our married life. Most of the people you find there will be understanding, helpful, supportive, and know that the meaning of the words no and stop.

At most we've been to the hosts or hostesses will usually gather the first-timers together and answer questions and will cater to their concerns and needs. Many will also pair up the new couples with more trusted and seasoned couples to help them overcome any other fears they may have.