Want To Be Friends? Confidants? Share Kinks?

redsox75

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I have posted here before and have met some very nice and interesting people. For various reasons we have lost touch. I thought I would give this another shot and see if I could find someone who would be interested in a long term relationship.

First off I am married and not looking to change things at home. I love my wife and family but would like to meet some who would like a little something secret on the side. I know that there are some who will not understand but I also know that there are lot of others who are looking for and in the same situation as I am.

I have read many of the personals on here and have found that there are many people who are like me. A lot of this will sound cliche and I know some of it is, however it is all true.

I am not in a loveless or sexless marriage, most of the time I just don't enjoy the sex with my wife. I will not get into a ton of detail here, but will explain to those who are interested in a real relationship and want to share. Basically the sex at home is just plain and unfulfilling, my wife is not willing to try new things or explore her sexuality. When I try to talk to her about it she either changes the subject or just tells me she is not into it or not interested.

Anyway, if you have read this far and still want to read more and you are thinking of messaging me I guess I should tell you a little about myself and what/who i am looking for. First I am bisexual and closeted, I am 40, work as an IT administrator at an MSP. I love my job and work more than I should be because I enjoy it so much. I still collect comic books, love to read sci-fi/fantasy books, do some MMORPG when times allows. I have read Twilight, The House of Night series and every thing Orson Scott Card and WEB Griffin have written. I am sexually open and have many diverse and varied fantasies and interests. There is very little that turns me off or that i am unwilling to consider.

As for what I am looking for, it is simple someone who will not judge, is open and honest. I want someone who I can bear my soul too, someone self confident with a good sense of humor and wit. Pleae be willing to share yourself with me too, I would like this to be mutually beneficial for both of us. I would like to be able to share our everyday lives as well as our kinks, but most of all I want to be friends.

I don't really care about looks all that much, the only thing I ask is that you take care of yourself and care about your appearance. Age is not an issue for me either. We can communicate here, email, IM, Skype, text, phone and maybe one day geography permitting in real life. I would also like to share pics, G & XXX rated.

So if you are interested contact me via PM and let's get to know each other.

Red Sox Geek
 
Bump

Just a little bump, got one PM from a very nice woman and we had a good time talking but would like to meet others too.
 
Another Bump

Still looking for some new friends, preferably female.
 
You had me...

You really had me until the Red Sox thing. Although, if you're willing to put baseball differences aside, I'd be happy talk further. :)
 
bump bump bump, have other personals out there too but no luck at all
 
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