walking away

[Slinky'sWench]

so tomorrow night is my last night of passion with my 'fuck buddy' and I think I fell in love with him somewhere along the way.

Why does something that was supposed to be a casual, no strings kinda thing suddenly hurt so badly?

 

[alexandraaah]

ouch ouch ouch

Hmmm...sorry bout' that, Slinky. Why is it your last night?

 

[Slinky'sWench]

he found his Miss Right

pathetic aren't I

 

[Tim1]

so tomorrow night is my last night of passion with my 'fuck buddy' and I think I fell in love with him somewhere along the way.

Why does something that was supposed to be a casual, no strings kinda thing suddenly hurt so badly?

You said it yourself......you broke the rule. He WAS your fuck buddy. Now you went and ruined it by falling in love.

You see women do that more then men do. We can fuck, get up, wipe our dicks off on the curtains and leave. You women who want casual sex will have to learn that. Good luck

 

[alexandraaah]

he found his Miss Right

pathetic aren't I

Darlin' I'm not saying you should get your hopes up, but if he's found "Miss Right" and he's spending one last night with you...she'll be "Miss Right out the door" in no time.


Tim...that was awfully sweet.

 

[J.B.]

I'm sorry about that hun...
Don't worry you'll find someone worth your time...

 

[Tim1]

Listen

Darlin' I'm not saying you should get your hopes up, but if he's found "Miss Right" and he's spending one last night with you...she'll be "Miss Right out the door" in no time.


Tim...that was awfully sweet.

Don't get me wrong....I feel for Slinky, however I stand by what i said. IF you want casual sex, you have to be able to get up and walk away. Most women can't do that. The wiping your dick off on the curtains was only to support the notion that in order for it to be casual, you have to be able to say fuck it after you've FUCKED IT.

BTW....I still love your AV and always will.mmmm

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Re: Listen

Don't get me wrong....I feel for Slinky, however I stand by what i said. IF you want casual sex, you have to be able to get up and walk away. Most women can't do that. The wiping your dick off on the curtains was only to support the notion that in order for it to be casual, you have to be able to say fuck it after you've FUCKED IT.

BTW....I still love your AV and always will.mmmm

Geez Tim. I might have worded it differently, but I agree with you once again!

Still hurts like hell though, and I don't think I could ever be casual about it!

Sorry, SW.

 

[alexandraaah]

Re: Listen

Don't get me wrong....I feel for Slinky, however I stand by what i said. IF you want casual sex, you have to be able to get up and walk away. Most women can't do that. The wiping your dick off on the curtains was only to support the notion that in order for it to be casual, you have to be able to say fuck it after you've FUCKED IT.

BTW....I still love your AV and always will.mmmm

I know, I know...it just sounded...harsh.
You're also right, but it doesn't seem or sound fair that feelings are not mutual in cases like this.

By the way...if you ever wipe your dick on my curtains, that means I've actually taken initiative to buy curtains which means I may have grown up....

*writing note to self to shut it*

 

[Siren]

Tim is 100% correct on this

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Yep, sometimes a person comes along and knocks you socks off when you thought you had every thing under control......

Just take a deep breath and walk away.... enjoy the beautiful memories..... but keep them at that.......



*Easier said sometimes*

 

[on_the_verge]

I believe and advocate it as an absence of loss. You don't realize that when you give another your body, you are also giving a part of your inner soul. A woman I met at a bar, who looked like Julian Moore, told me that. when you sleep with another (as a woman) you are seeing that as a potential father, hence the attraction. It depends on your mindset and it can be difficult to walk away from someone that was inside of you and shared a part of yourself. A woman's body and mind is a precious thing, at times. When you sleep with another, you may gather an embrace and the magnitudes of exposing your inner self, beyond the others' that cross your life. Yet, many people come and go, but you must decide if that person is the passenger or the conductor and where the both of you may arrive at the same destination.

I have given my body and soul to many. I feel that a part of me has become them. Like I say, "changing lives, changing mine and changing yours." Isn't it hard to let go of yourself at times? One must decide if they can part with what was shared. After all, we grow and leave some of the past behind to continue forth and allow the experiences to feather moments that may be more promising or fulfilling…

 

[Moridin187]

Re: Re: walking away

...You see women do that more then men do. We can fuck, get up, wipe our dicks off on the curtains and leave...Good luck

Originally posted by Siren
A guy is honest.
he wants a fuck.
and only a fuck....
but guys can love one person
and fuck another.

they have the capacity to compartmentalize emotions.
women cant.

Not all of us...

I'm sorry though, Slinky. These things happen to us sometimes, we develop feelings, not everyone has complete control over theirs.. *hug* Get yourself a pint of chocolate type ice cream, watch some of your favorite movies(none you watched with him though) and try to feel better.

 

[Ree]

Re: Re: Re: walking away

Get yourself a pint of chocolate type ice cream, watch some of your favorite movies(none you watched with him though) and try to feel better.

I agree with Moridin, go get "chipped faced" and have a good cry but then get back in the game. Mr. Right is out there for you too. Your Fuck Buddy may come around and realize your Mrs. Right but I wouldn't hold your breath. No since in putting your life on hold for something that may or may not happen. You are a great person and someone out in RL will realize how great you are and want to keep you all to himself. I hope you start to feel better about the situation. I know it is difficult right now but you are strong you can get passed this. Well wishes and hugs!

 

[Sorsha]

Dont worry, everything will be ok