Waht to do? A Confession

Bobtoad777

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Who would have thought such a thing could happen?

For little over a month now all over this board there has been a Bobtoad777 going around and flriting with every girl who had two fingers that could type a message on this board. Bobtoad even checked out the webpages of those girls who had webpages in hopes of glimpsing an image of one.

Well there is one who caught my attention, it is her who's page I book marked and saved all her picturs for offline meditation. I chased her across the board through thick thread and thin thread. My love gone unrequoited, as if i ever expected what I deemd a simple online crush to ever be returned.

As per expected the more I flirted with her the more my every advance was shot down. I even got up the audacity to find her IM name and tried IM'ing her, only to be declined and refused and even threatened even more than here on the board.

After I had given up all hope, and begin to leave her alone on IM and even on the BB things began to change. She began to chase me through the threads, no not in a flirtacious manner, but in a way hitting every one of my post with a snide comment or two. Then She even began to message me on IM.

Many people said for us to leave each other alone, but we continued on our friendship. One thing lead to another and we eventually committed wonton acts of carnality over IM. After that we became closer and closer discussing each others concerns comforting and encouraging one another. Through out this last month a love has developed, alas it is a seemingly impossible love cause niether her or I can afford to do anything about it, though desperately we want to.

What to do?
 
Like your the only one in that position??? :)

Bob my advice to you is to stay true to her if she is the one that you love.

I am saving every cent I own to get to the States to be with the one that I love (mind you we have been together for a good 5 months now, longer as friends). Make sure that it is what you think it is, trust each other, talk to each other. Make it more than what it seems to others.

You will find a lot of opposition to an online realationship, a lot of "Be Careful" and by some people (Whisper) you DO listen to their views.

Be happy, and beleive me when I say that just as in a real life realtionship you will have hard times too, you will fight, you will scream, you will cry. Be there for each other, and make sure above all else you talk to each other, make it known when one of you isn't happy, or when you are so happy that you could burst with pride to know that they are the one that you love, and that they love you back.

Can you tell I'm going through one of those stages right now? I will sit and write for hours, pouring every piece of love I have into my letters, and when you get a response that is just as loving, you can actually feel your chest swell and that silly stupid grin (you know the one) come across your face.

So Bob and the Mystery Woman, my Luck goes to you. I know that the relationship that I'm in has made me more than happy. So to you both my luck and thought's. :)

Take Care :)
 
Continue to be good friends and companions; deepen your knowledge of each other, and, as Queen Elizabeth I said, learn to be patient and let time pass.

While this is going on, of course, you put the practical part of your mind to acquiring the means to meet in person.
 
Listen to advice, and then promptly ignore it if the advice conflicts with what your heart tells you. Follow your heart, and best of luck to you both.
 
I am in a similar situation, so I sympathize.

Because I'm in the same boat, I don't have any advice -- but RisiaSkye, CreamyLady and Nicole are saying the same things that my heart's telling me. Good luck to you. :)
 
BobToad I wish you the best. Hope your experience ends more happily than mine.
 
I'm going with Expertise on this one, good luck Bobtoad, and I hope it ends up better than mine.
 
I do now. I will defer to my con frere from Carleton County and promise never to flirt with you again.;)

This board is some kinda' matchmaker joint lately.
 
OH no you arent getting out of this one that easy Sexpertise!! Flirt away!! I dont have a ring on my finger!!
 
We guys frome the frozen north (its like 25C here right now) stick together (fuck off with the jokes). Its how we beat the Russians in '72.

I gotcha' back BT Dawg.

*Yes thats what I want to sound like... A "Mac Daddy"...god I wanna' go home*
 
Expertise said:
I do now. I will defer to my con frere from Carleton County and promise never to flirt with you again.;)

This board is some kinda' matchmaker joint lately.

No not really, Havoc and I have been together for about 5 months now, and friends longer, but have only just told everyone because it was becoming obvious, I flirted with him way too much, and people picked up on it.

As far as the flirting goes, Flirt away. It puts more into your relationship (stop laughing babe), jealousy kills, you can't afford to be jealous (will you pick yourself up off the floor, now stop it), and lets face it these two couldn't stop flirting if they tried. :p

Bob and Naked, you really do go well together, so my thoughts and luck are with you. Just remember that everyone here now knows, and some don't except these things well. Good Luck, Be happy. :)

Back to the flirting now people:)
 
Expertise,

You got me curious where are you from and you seem to know a lot about me. email if you dont feel comfortable posting on the bb here
 
Had a (COMPLETELY hetero) MFM threesome one time. Not a fan:( sorry. FMF threesomes are an entirely different matter.

BT you have mail.
 
I bet you could. But i'm already feeling jilted.;)
 
Dunno'.... your sudden departure from the ranks of the uninvolved I guess. I'll get over it.....someday.LOL
 
Ohh NH it was you all along, you I tell you....

*Walks off in to a Harlequin Book Cover back drop*

Just teasing cutie.

I am going to have to smarten up people are gonna' start to talk.;)
 
You see NH, I knew deep down you were in love with the Bobster. :) Now are you going to be the one to make him a man?
 
I'm at work and its 10pm .....FUCK!

I'll fill you in tomorrow BT my loyal minions are wrapping things up here now.

Night.
 
Love is in bloom

So am I allowed to post my congratulations BT? See I knew you two should just give in already...
 
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