Virtual Sex vs In-Person Sex

[strawberryblondebeauty]

I would assume the preferred version of sex is the traditional In-Person experience, however upon talking to some individuals on here, I've found quite a few people prefer sexual activity via the Internet or on the phone.

If that's your preference, why? I'm curious and want to learn more about this.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I strongly prefer masturbating, chatting with another person while I do it...
I am not looking to hook up IRL, and haven't in 10 years...

 

[Stopokochac]

There's no risk of disease or impregnation/having to pay child support. Also, you can explore fantasies that sound hot in your head, but not in real life.
It's easier to get then in real life.
And in real life some people are selfcontious or either climax early or get nervous and can't get aroused.
And online, you can leave a lot of things up to the imagination, while in real life many things can disappoint
Online, you also can't get accused of the R word.

 

[TheGxForum]

No comparison of course real sex in person is the best...

 

[Escierto]

My girl and I have been in a long distance relationship for almost six years. Lot of cam action lol but nothing beats the real thing.

 

[Lifestyle66]

Just an hour ago, I stared down at my P buried in a V as she spasmed with her orgasm. The sensation of her muscles squeezing around the base of my P doesn't happen virtually!

 

[RyanCastle9]

I would assume the preferred version of sex is the traditional In-Person experience, however upon talking to some individuals on here, I've found quite a few people prefer sexual activity via the Internet or on the phone.

If that's your preference, why? I'm curious and want to learn more about this.

I’ve been lucky enough to have explored both with different partners. I used to travel for work every week, and not only did I enjoy virtual fun with my wife. But I made some amazing fiends on sites like Lit too.

Virtual sex can be just as intimate as the real thing, and sometimes the inability to touch each other can make the interaction more intense. I’ve masturbated together with other online friends and it’s been an incredibly close and exhilarating experience. One of the first times was just audio and I came so hard I nearly passed out.

I’m not sure if I had a preference between the two, but I’d be very sorry to loose either.

 

[AG31]

It's a little scary to see that virtual sex is seen as a real option. Has anyone heard about the upcoming crisis facing us when we can't replace our populations?

 

[Britva415]

Has anyone heard about the upcoming crisis facing us when we can't replace our populations?

This sounds awfully close to endorsing compulsory reproduction.

Also, "can't replace our populations" isn't necessarily a bad thing - unless you're actually saying you think we'll extinct ourselves down to zero. The real horror of reproducing below replacement rate is the disappearance of the convenient demographics of the last few generations, such that there are plenty of young people to support the numbers of older people. When that balance shifts, older people will have less subsidies and younger people will still have greater burdens. But we're not going to go extinct.

Unceasing population growth isn't a solution to that, because it brings other problems. Probably worse ones.

 

[Britva415]

Speaking for myself, virtual contacts/channels are just a means to an in-person end. I'm not interested in "virtual sex" at all.

I'm also not interested in reproducing any further, so, I guess all the bad things being predicted are just as much my fault as people who won't have sex in person.

 

[MarionsLover]

I enjoy text based role playing with someone I met on here.
It helps us explore things and satisfy kinks we can't with our spouses.

 

[Noor]

I like phone sex, I always have. I like in person sex too. Online opens up a lot more possibilities than I can meet where I live and without much effort on my part.
Online/phone sex is definitely a lot safer for me in terms of reactions.
It takes a special person who’s known me for awhile to help create a safe environment for me. One of the things that was so cool about Byron was that he started permanently switching to unscented products and detergents pretty early on without my talking to him about it, he also put away his Mahler music too, among other things.
He also worried about his eating things that could cause me anaphylaxis.

 

[Noor]

I enjoy text based role playing with someone I met on here.
It helps us explore things and satisfy kinks we can't with our spouses.

That too

 

[Bigbobnc]

I would assume the preferred version of sex is the traditional In-Person experience, however upon talking to some individuals on here, I've found quite a few people prefer sexual activity via the Internet or on the phone.

If that's your preference, why? I'm curious and want to learn more about this.

Personally I’m super shy in real life, but online I can let more of my inhibitions go, and the sound of someone getting more and more excited as you talk to them is awesome

 

[Noor]

Personally I’m super shy in real life, but online I can let more of my inhibitions go, and the sound of someone getting more and more excited as you talk to them is awesome

True and also many married people use online as a way to explore sometimes cheat with less risk.

 

[AG31]

This sounds awfully close to endorsing compulsory reproduction.

Assuming that stating a problem implies endorsing a particular solution is the road to never facing a problem and never finding a solution.

 

[13Fantasies]

In person

 

[Wisconsin65]

I like phone sex, I always have. I like in person sex too. Online opens up a lot more possibilities than I can meet where I live and without much effort on my part.
Online/phone sex is definitely a lot safer for me in terms of reactions.
It takes a special person who’s known me for awhile to help create a safe environment for me. One of the things that was so cool about Byron was that he started permanently switching to unscented products and detergents pretty early on without my talking to him about it, he also put away his Mahler music too, among other things.
He also worried about his eating things that could cause me anaphylaxis.

Well said

 

[cadman7777]

Both are good......all things being equal in person is best......but I've had a connection before with a woman and the phone sex was better than many of my live sex experiences....just because of the connection. I could totally let go with fantasies and desires with zero judgements.........I couldn't do that with partners in real life

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

I like looking, flirting,fantasizing and even playing along and helping my partner reach climax online or by phone if she is into it. But I wont be touching myself even if aroused... I need actual physical contact to get me there

 

[lets_roll_12]

I agree with most sentiments of an ‘in-person’ sex life being the better of the two options.

However.

When you have been shut-out by your spouse/partner, the option of ‘online’ is maybe a good thing. In my own case, I have made an online relationship with someone in a similar situation and we fill that void of the feeling of being neglected and unwanted by our spouses with our connection. We chat daily; share thoughts, feelings, frustrations; share intimate voice notes and photos; share things that are going on in our lives. We openly share sexual fantasies and enjoy writing and recording these for each other.
Just knowing that someone actually cares about me keeps me centred and moving forward, not falling into a spiral of self doubt and loneliness.