Virginity...

[foxxxyred]

How many people 'held out' til they found someone 'special' to share their first time with? Was it worth it? Any regrets? Or was it the right thing for you??

 

[thesensuallover]

Miss K,
I waited for a special lover, and I did get him. Absolutely no regrets.... actually one of the best experiences of my life thus far. Definitely worth it.

~S

 

[Lord Emu]

I am still a virgin and I want to wait for the right person. I just think that it will make my first time extra special.

 

[lovetoread]

Wish I would have waited. Major regrets......

 

[It'sJustJohn]

My first time was 17 years old with my best friends Mom....the only regret is that I didn't start sooner

 

[Guest]

When I set out as a horny teenager I wasn't waiting for someone special, in fact as with most hormone charged adolescents nearly any female standing up with a pulse would have done, but as things worked out I wasn't to lose my viginity until I was 21. As The Virgin Teenager I felt a bit of a failure, but when I eventually met the girl I first went to bed with I was so grateful things had worked out as they had.

Being aware she was much more experienced than me, and being slightly (well maybe very!) shy I literally slept with her for two and a half months in the same bed with no sex other than some sensual stroking, until (I can remember this so clearly!) one night after I had been working away for a few days it just seemed right and we made love for the first time.

What can I say? As the angst ridden teenager I was mortified to be a virgin even at 19. Now (9 years after the event) I am so glad things worked out as they did. I lost my virginity to a girl I loved, who I trusted completely and who I was to have a 4 year relationship with.

In retrospect I couldn't have asked for a better introduction to sex. She was so gentle, understanding and made me feel so comfortable and easy. Part of it is fate I guess. I could've met a one night stand and pissed it all away, but I really think I was lucky. To have met this girl and had a relationship with her, even if it wasn't for forever, I feel lucky. Too many people lose their virginity to a one night stand and only years later wish it might have been different.

I don't have any regrets.

 

[gbd]

Holding on

I held out until is was 14. She was 15. The most agonizing 14 years of my life.

 

[Guest]

I lost my virginity at 21. It was a onenight stand and the women was 30 something. It was beautiful and womderful. My only regret is that it took so long and that was the last time I saw her. Still dream of her every now and then.

 

[Ayaka]

I have regrets

 

[simplegal77]

I was 21 when I first had sex. I don't regret having sex, but I do regret having sex with HIM because I married him and he turned out abusive. I am divorcing this SOB, but my current boyfriend is a doll and a great playmate. I love sleeping with him all the time.

Waiting to have sex until YOU are ready is good. I am proud that held out as long as I did, because I got to weed out the "love me for me and not my body" people.

I did sleep with a female, but she got scared and ran like hell outta dodge - she had major issues and left me very hurt. I guess she was not eager to embrace her bisexuality. Oh well. I am here to try again and make lots of friends.

 

[Guest]

Still Holding out but It can be bloody hard at times!
just hope its worth it

 

[lovetoread]

Still Holding out but It can be bloody hard at times!
just hope its worth it

It is,just keep holding on! Its easier to be rid of it than to get it back.

 

[celiaKitten]

My first time was H-O-R-R-I-D!!

but it got better

Do what feels right for you - personally - if I had waited any longer - I would have exploded into little Nypho bits

 

[lovetoread]

Do what feels right for you - personally - if I had waited any longer - I would have exploded into little Nypho bits

Ahhh... but you would have made the man you were with very very happy before you blew up....

Sorry after that comment I couldnt resist saying something.....

 

[celiaKitten]

Nah - with my luck - it would have been on my vibrator

 

[Gryphon]

Still Here

I'm 22 and still waiting for the right girl and time, but sometimes it's crazy hard not to just say forget it and find some random one-nighter. Hopefully it'll be worth it.

 

[lovetoread]

Re: Still Here

I'm 22 and still waiting for the right girl and time, but sometimes it's crazy hard not to just say forget it and find some random one-nighter. Hopefully it'll be worth it.

Okay in all honesty its not easy to keep being a virgin,but when you do find that special person in your life, you will understand that the struggle you are going through now will have been worth it. Now mind you I'm not saying wait for marriage,just the right person.

 

[D_port]

Like someone else said my first time was with my buddies mom..a sleep over at age 14,i slept on the couch only to wake up to my draws around my ankles an a very hot women performing oral sex on me,after a few minutes the clothes were gone an this woman took my virginity (i get hot an bothered just thinking about this lady to this day)

 

[lovetoread]

Like someone else said my first time was with my buddies mom..a sleep over at age 14,i slept on the couch only to wake up to my draws around my ankles an a very hot women performing oral sex on me,after a few minutes the clothes were gone an this woman took my virginity (i get hot an bothered just thinking about this lady to this day)

I guess this is a little disturbing to me,could you imagine being a girl and waking up this way with your friends father? Yuck....

 

[feelsgdoit]

my very first time was at the age of 15 with 2 girls who were both older. and I have 2 regrets...one that I didn't know how to appreciate the situation than. number two that I haven't been able to get 2 women together in the 30yrs that followed

 

[Maniac9538]

I understand how it's hard to be a virgin, though for me it's easy...since in my 21 years on this world I have yet to date, I spent most of my HS life as a loner. I got to enjoy it so much I keep it in my career as a military member and still am forced out to do things with my co-workers....another point why is I'm shy and not as good looking as my group of friends...so they pick up the girls and I get ignored.....got so used to it, I normally sit at the bar at the far corner.

 

[binaryvisions]

Never gone through these message boards before.. There's a lot of interesting reading!

As for me, I'm 20 and waiting for the right girl. Waiting gets a little tedious sometimes - occasionally takes effort not to pick up a girl at a party just for sex - but I'm not really concerned with it, and I figure the right girl won't be either.

I see no need to wait for marraige, but on the other hand I see no reason to fuck a random person just to claim the status of "non-virgin"...

I appreciate seeing there are plenty who feel the same way as I do !

 

[AZoutdoors]

Hey Foxxy,

My first time was about 16 years old with a much older woman (19)... She taught me how to feel what a woman is going through when we make love......It was wonderful...Ive been studying women and how to please them since....(now 42).....

 

[JGuy]

I didn't hold out. I lost my virginity to a 38 year old woman when I was 16. I actually later met a young girl that I wished I could have had my first time with instead.

 

[lovetoread]

I didn't hold out. I lost my virginity to a 38 year old woman when I was 16. I actually later met a young girl that I wished I could have had my first time with instead.

Its good to know that its not only women who have regrets.