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[patrick1083]

Hi - I've been perusing this board for awhile and thought I'd join. I really like the supportive environment (it's also hot

I was wondering where the best place would be to ask questions about sexual feelings I'm developing for a family member - is it here or a different forum?

Please advise, many thanks,

Patrick

 

[whomee]

Im new here too. But I would suggest staying away from your family members. It will never end well....

 

[SweetErika]

Hi - I've been perusing this board for awhile and thought I'd join. I really like the supportive environment (it's also hot

I was wondering where the best place would be to ask questions about sexual feelings I'm developing for a family member - is it here or a different forum?

Please advise, many thanks,

Patrick

Welcome, Patrick.

It depends on what kind of response you're looking for, I think.

If you're looking for honest answers and advice, post here in How To.

If you're seeking validation, to talk about the hawtness of the idea with people who fantasize about incest, advice that may or may not be real, etc., I'd suggest posting in The Playground, and specifically in the great big "Incest is Best" thread (googling 'site:forum.literotica.com "incest is best" ' should take you right to it) over there.

If you have a thick skin and/or desire for humiliation, try the General Board.

If you want to roleplay your fantasy, you might want to try the Sexual Roleplaying forum or find someone on Personals.

Basically, being sexually attracted to a family member is fine if you're going to keep your actions in the fantasy realm, but as whomee said, acting on those feelings in real life will almost always end in disaster. Lots of people have incest feelings/fantasies, but very few act on them because they know it's likely to hurt people and relationships.

 

[emap]

What she said.

Though I have to add an adendum, going into the General Board area, otherwise known as the GB is something of a recipe for disaster. Most of the people in there are simply looking for someone to belittle.

Pretty much a given that no matter what thread you start in there, you will get one or two helpful answers and 4 pages of insults. Not always on you but 4 pages of insults.

As for the incest part, really not a good idea. However if she is legal age and you are legal age and you are hellbent on trying to do it, there is one little teensy bit of advice i have for you. Feel her/him out about it before saying I want you and me in bed as often as possible. If they are going oh my god no way that is sick, leave it in fantasy land. If they go well perhaps with a cute family member, ask if you are cute.

Either way keep two things in mind, being outed will more or less ruin your life forever in that town, more if say the other one is under age at which point you are a criminal and get TV time and the entire nation knows your face. Also, you have to be very very discreet, if your family finds out, you will face more crap than serial killers. You will get it almost worse than Jeffery Dahmer, he was killed, you wouldn't be killed, you would just have no family or friends.

Not saying you can't, it's just really really hard. Almost always way better to leave it in fantasy land.

 

[fire_breeze]

As SweetErika said, you may want to check this thread...

Welcome by the way...

 

[patrick1083]

thank you

thank you all - and yes, there is no need to "feel her out" - I would never act on it. I'm pretty sure I just like the taboo appeal, the act of doing anything would surely be disastrous.

Be all that as it may, it doesn't make the idea any less hot or appealing - the danger and the forbidden nature are just so enticing (in theory)

thanks again

 

[patrick1083]

Im new here too. But I would suggest staying away from your family members. It will never end well....

yeah, I figured so much - I'll have to keep it between me and my thoughts, my sordid, sordid thoughts

 

[SexBandit999]

Hi - I've been perusing this board for awhile and thought I'd join. I really like the supportive environment (it's also hot

I was wondering where the best place would be to ask questions about sexual feelings I'm developing for a family member - is it here or a different forum?

Please advise, many thanks,

Patrick

try out http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=87754&page=001

 

[EjAcKuLaToR]

be careful

Be careful treading forward my friend. I have had a secret desire for a woman who "could be a family member" but isn't really for the last several years. It has never mitigated or gotten any better (lessened). It's just something I long for and have longed for forever that will never probably happen.

My best advice is to focus your love/sexual energy on someone attainable. Take my advice it's not a good situation if you focus on someone unattainable regardless of who it is.

This has lasted way too long for me, my friend. I would highly recommend steering away from it at this early point if I were you. It's too painful to end up in my situation many years later with no satisfaction.

Just my 2cents worth.

 

[alaskabibear]

Be careful treading forward my friend. I have had a secret desire for a woman who "could be a family member" but isn't really for the last several years. It has never mitigated or gotten any better (lessened). It's just something I long for and have longed for forever that will never probably happen.

My best advice is to focus your love/sexual energy on someone attainable. Take my advice it's not a good situation if you focus on someone unattainable regardless of who it is.

This has lasted way too long for me, my friend. I would highly recommend steering away from it at this early point if I were you. It's too painful to end up in my situation many years later with no satisfaction.

Just my 2cents worth.

And a good 2cents worth I might add - what you are describing is an obsession; to occupy or trouble the mind with and idea or emotion to an excessive degree...to haunt. That's what Webster's has to say. Unfortunately, he didn't say how to not do it.

 

[Emmy79]

I recomend the incest is best thread, even if its just fantasy they love to hear about it. They were very good to me, Pm me if you want anytime, as it a subject close to my heart

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Also, you could write a short story about your relative and then submit it to the Lit stories section. They have a whole section on incest that I'm sure you'd enjoy.

Glad you're not planning to act on it, for your own sake.