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Oh we're a fun bunch, but I personally don't think you should seek the advice of others on the decision of whether or not to have sex with someone. That should be left up to you and you alone.
Unless you're looking for someone to do it with, then you're in the right place!
Unless you're looking for someone to do it with, then you're in the right place!
HornyExecutive
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welcome
welcome aboard...the eye opening views you seek can be found here...lots of people with different ideas, that's the cool part!
good luck with your search...and have fun!!!!
welcome aboard...the eye opening views you seek can be found here...lots of people with different ideas, that's the cool part!
good luck with your search...and have fun!!!!
MT_Pitcher
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mary1984 said:
There are a lot of people who can help you learn and there are some who will just play with your head. Listen to em all, and then find a few you can trust and you'll do all right.
Don't stress about it, hell, we're all still learning.
Remember, sex is supposed to be fun!!!!
wildwesty
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Is the guy you are going to have sex with experienced or are you both virgins? If he is new to sex make sure he takes his time. Hopefully though, if he has had sex before, you can rely on him to go slow and make your first time as incredible as it can be. What do you want to know about specifically? We could all tell you a lot of stuff but in the interest of wanting to help...how about you post questions and we will answer them? Good luck.
emmylou69
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My boyfriend was in a serious relationship before me and I heard (yes I know I shouldn't beleive rumours) that she (his ex) was into pretty kinky stuff.
I work as a waitress and often hear girls younger then me talking about sex and how men like them to talk dirty and spank their monkey? I can only guess what that means!!
Another thing I'm quite worried about and again please don't laugh - should I give him a blow job on the first night?
I work as a waitress and often hear girls younger then me talking about sex and how men like them to talk dirty and spank their monkey? I can only guess what that means!!
Another thing I'm quite worried about and again please don't laugh - should I give him a blow job on the first night?
emmylou69
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Hey you guys, Mary is my friend (I'm the one who introduced her) and when she logged on my computer she didn't realise it would take her straight to my log in.
Mary is feeling bad because she thinks she has made herself (and me) look stupid so a few nice words from you all would be nice.
I posted my thread to keep hers near the top.
Mary is feeling bad because she thinks she has made herself (and me) look stupid so a few nice words from you all would be nice.
I posted my thread to keep hers near the top.
wildwesty
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Well if you want to give him head, and make sure you really want to because you want him to feel good, not because you think he expects it, then I say go for it. But if you want to do it just because you think he wants it, maybe you should wait because oral sex, to me, is a very intimate and close thing, or can be. Obviously for you it should be an act of love or close to it. Test the waters though and see how he responds to your hand touching him. If he likes that, take it further if you feel like it. As so many people before me have said, take it slow...and have one hell of a time...or 2 or 3...
winepleasures
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a guy's perspective...
honestly....relax...you will be great...
if he just wants to be with you and the sex is a bonus..then you will be in good shape..
if all he wants is sex and is disappointed, he isn't worth your emotions..
having said that, remember...the allure is sometimes better than the final result. Be mysterious and sensual. take it slow and i guarentee when the time arrives, your instincts will take over.
i could give specific things alot of us men like during bj's and stuff, but i have a feeling that's for another time..
wishing you well...
honestly....relax...you will be great...
if he just wants to be with you and the sex is a bonus..then you will be in good shape..
if all he wants is sex and is disappointed, he isn't worth your emotions..
having said that, remember...the allure is sometimes better than the final result. Be mysterious and sensual. take it slow and i guarentee when the time arrives, your instincts will take over.
i could give specific things alot of us men like during bj's and stuff, but i have a feeling that's for another time..
wishing you well...
Lisa Denton
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mary1984 said:
Perhaps I'm the only one who noticed what I hope is a typo. You want some advice before you do the dead? We are very kinky around here but doing the dead is crossing the line and may even be illegal. I'm sure it is in my state cause I live in Texas where everything is illegal. Anywho, if its a typo, and you meant maybe the DEED, then I feel it is my duty as a woman and a lesbian to suggest you try it first with a girl. If you do it with a guy then he will seem dead just as soon as he is finished, whether you are or not. There is nothing wrong with a penis, its just the dong attached to them that are sometimes assholes. Try them both and see, thats my advice.
wildwesty
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On behalf of every man who thinks with his dick and not his brain...I am sorry. I know there are some really assholes out there fucking everything up for the rest of us but that is something we have to deal with. I hope that your first time will be with a guy who truly appreciates the woman who lays before him. If that is the case, you truly have nothing to worry about.
Lisa Denton
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wildwesty said:
You get points from me wildwesty, I wasn't talking about all guy's and your post shows I wasn't talking about you.
Gothie
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Welcome to Lit, you aren't the only virgin here so relax, I have yet to have a sexual experience of any kind myself and I'm a 21 year old male. When the mood is right, it'll happen, just relax, do/explore the things you want to do, take it slow and savour the moment.
wildwesty
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Lisa Denton said:
Its cool but I have lots of female friends who have been hurt by some jerk..of course they are the ones who keep finding these jerks so there is only so much I can really do. A lot of guys out there really need to grow up though, and women need to realize that they can't change us.
Lisa Denton
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wildwesty said:
I know, and you seem to be one of the ones no woman would want to change. I would suggest you and Mary but after re-reading the posts I realized that she has someone in mind. So Mary forgive my faux pas, much worse than yours, and I hope you have a beautiful, sensual, and erotic first time, with the perfect partner, whether male or female. Also Emmy is quite cool, tell her I said hi.
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