Virgin Free Zone!!!!!!

ozbloke1980

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I just wanna know if I'm the only guy here who doesn't have time for a woman if she were a virgin?
 
Dude, you have got to be the only male that I have ever heard of that would pass up an opportunity to be with a virgin woman. Are you nuts?
 
Oz, can I ask why you don't have time for a virgin?

*wonders if Oz's reasoning is the same as mine, even if we are talking about two different sexes*
 
horndog201 said:
Dude, you have got to be the only male that I have ever heard of that would pass up an opportunity to be with a virgin woman. Are you nuts?
No I'm perfectly sane. It's cuz of my own inexperience. I want women who know what they're doing. That plus I have bugger all time for women like Brittney anyhow.(I think that's self explainitary)
 
but if you had a virgin you could "train" them to be what you want them to be......:D
 
mystic_maiden32 said:
but if you had a virgin you could "train" them to be what you want them to be......:D
Nah I'm the one who needs to be trained. But then again I haven't had any complaints yet.
 
mmm i love to train men

wish you were closer i could give you some great training ;) kisses
 
So, it's not necessarily the virginity you dislike, it's the supposed inexperience that goes with the virginity. Of course, I could be completely wrong but, what if the girl read up on the theory a lot before going into the practical? Would that make a difference?
 
Marsipanne said:
So, it's not necessarily the virginity you dislike, it's the supposed inexperience that goes with the virginity. Of course, I could be completely wrong but, what if the girl read up on the theory a lot before going into the practical? Would that make a difference?
You could say that yes. Thing is if she's over the age of 20 as well there's every chance she's the religious type and such wouldn't put out anyway.
 
When it comes to sex, I say: "I've got ALL the time in the world." I guess I'm just one of those few "patient" guys out here.
 
Re: mmm i love to train men

Originally posted by tightandwet
wish you were closer i could give you some great training ;) kisses

you could train me anytime.... (I can play dumb)
 
My two cents......

ozbloke1980 said:
You could say that yes. Thing is if she's over the age of 20 as well there's every chance she's the religious type and such wouldn't put out anyway.

After reading this, I had to respond. Speaking as a virgin over the age of 20, my choice has nothing to do with religion or the fact that I won't "put out". My choice has to do with regarding the sexual act as something that should be shared between people who care about each other, not just something that you do because you happen to be horny one day. I have not found that special someone yet, so I remain "intact".

So, don't assume that my kind are all deeply religious and destined to join some convent somewhere. We are sexual beings with sexual needs, believe me, I've got needs, wants and desires, but I've also got the willpower and moral background to wait until I found that right one.

And, on the plus side, I'm pretty sure there is some patient guy out there, somewhere, that is willing to be a guinea pig for me.
 
Well said Shy Gal..
If he is the right man, he will rejoice in you learning all there is to know..and to put into practice the theory that you must be getting in here..
love fred
 
Hurrah for virgins over 20! I'm not actually one but I reckon there's a high chance I will be. I definitely believe in waiting for the right person and I see the chances of coming across the kind of guy I like as very low under the age of 20. I think, also, once you're over 20 older guys feel better coming on to you because they don't feel they're cradle snatching. And the chances of older guys being more mature ought to be higher.
 
At 47 years old I have only had one virgin ,years ago that was 21.Once she got it taken away she turned into a little nymph.Like was said earlier by someone.You can train her and that is what I did.I would go to her parents house to pick her up for a date and before we were out of her driveway she would be in my lap sucking my cock.Her Dad even caught us fucking one night in their garage.We would go to the drive-in every weekend all summer long while she was home from college.I don't think I ever watched any of the movies cause we were too busy fucking.I mean this gal Loved dick.I broke up with her and a few years later was in a bar and my buddies said hey let's go to the parking lot,this gal is out there giving head to everyone.We go out and guess who it is.Yep the ex girlfriend.She was a little cum slut could not get enough.Did I do that to her?Hell I don't know but I sure had fun.Now I like the older experienced women the best,that is why I married one ,but I still had to do some training.She was married for twenty years to a dickhead who did not know very much when it came to sex.
 
Well for me it's simply a case of I don't want to go into a perminant relationship as blind as a bat. I have one night stands so I get some practice so to speak. When my Miss Right comes round I want to be knowing what I'm doing.
 
Speaking as someone elses 'miss right'... she wont care if you know what you are doing, providing you know the general idea (this bit goes in that bit sort of stuff) that will be fine.

Us girlies are quite the creative bunch, and if all else fails, we read the manual :) Things get done right, never you worry!
 
Wow, thanks for your posts txshygal04, and SweetSnaffle. Speaking as an over 20 male who has never had sex, I agreed with a lot of what you said, txshygal04. I am not religious at all, but still feel that I have strong values and morals, as well as being understanding and open-minded. And to SweetSnaffle, thanks for relieving some doubts I had about how my first time would go with the lucky (well, I hope she sees herself as lucky) lady.
 
arg...

The key to any sexual relationship is not caring about yourself. In order for it to work, you have to do everything that you can to please the other person. I lost my virginity just 1 week before my 20th birthday, and yes, she was a virgin too, but that is one of the most memorable experiences of my life. And yes, I did care about her and still do. Experience is not always the key. I've read stories on here for years. You would be surprised what you can learn if you just read between the lines.
 
Re: arg...

horndog201 said:
The key to any sexual relationship is not caring about yourself. In order for it to work, you have to do everything that you can to please the other person. I lost my virginity just 1 week before my 20th birthday, and yes, she was a virgin too, but that is one of the most memorable experiences of my life. And yes, I did care about her and still do. Experience is not always the key. I've read stories on here for years. You would be surprised what you can learn if you just read between the lines.

That's exactly what I'm hell bent on. Pleasing the woman. My 1st experience was great too. How many guys can brag about living out one of their fantasies when they did it 4 the 1st time?
 
Ok let me get this straight...

Experienced guys don't want virgin women.
Experienced girls don''t want virgin guys.

So Virgin guys how to stick to virgin girl to learn?


Oh god I am screwed and not in a good way.



Ravin
 
Well the way I see it is if I know what I'm doing chances are I'll be able to please her more, but she has to meet me half way.
 
hm....

Like I said, just worry about pleasing her. If you have the mind set that you are just doing it for her, more than likely, she will have the mindset to please you too, thats if she cares about you at all. So just get in there and have at it!


P.S. Oz, I got to live out one of my fantasies my first time... how odd is it that a black girl tells a white guy that he is too big? hehehe
 
the two partners that i have had were both virgins, the sex witht he first one was awful, the second one was great. However the emotional entanglements that surrounded my second partner when we broke up, about a year an a half after we first had sex together, lead to about three months of head fucking (the negative kind) and I dont want to go thru that again.
Thats just one of the reasons why I'm avoiding virgins, which should be pretty easy to do at my age range now (24). actually, I would like to be wiht an older more experianced woman, some one to show me things ya know.
ah well thats just me.
SL
 
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