Violated trust

[midwestdude]

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[Christobal]

Have you ever had your trust violated on lit? By someone you have chatted with in pm's?
Has anyone ever shared your conversations, or shared pics you have sent, or tried to get you in trouble on lit or on real life?
This is a concern of mine and it makes me hesitant to pm. I worry that someone isn't of age or is who they say they are. Any advice on these kinds of issues?

Just shut up right now. Its the best advice i can give.

 

[midwestdude]

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[Hard_Rom]

don't share personal info, don't just dive in trustingly, you can't see how is on other end, think first pm second

 

[Debbie]

Welcome.

Not everyone is trustworthy here BUT not everyone is untrustworthy either.

I would suggest you take time to get to know some of the people here and trust your gut instincts as to whether you share any personal info with someone.

There are a few people here that have some of my personal info after years of interacting with them. But there are others I wouldn't even trust to hold my man purse with the precious inside.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Christobal]

Welcome.

Not everyone is trustworthy here BUT not everyone is untrustworthy either.

I would suggest you take time to get to know some of the people here and trust your gut instincts as to whether you share any personal info with someone.



There are a few people here that have some of my personal info after years of interacting with them. But there are others I wouldn't even trust to hold my man purse with the precious inside.

Lets get a beverage. You are being sweet. I like that

 

[adrina]

I have not. Here or elsewhere. However I try to be very judicious in who receives any personal or identifiable details about me.

As to the rest, you'll have to go by your instincts. There are no guarantees. In face to face contact or on the net. Talk to them. Don't pony up right away. Give yourselves time to visit and know each other.

Some people are assholes and will betray you regardless. Most are not. Most people are actually pretty decent. If you can spot the assholes and avoid them, you're already ahead of the game.

 

[Disgustipated]

Is this about surprise anal?

 

[midwestdude]

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[Christobal]

I have not. Here or elsewhere. However I try to be very judicious in who receives any personal or identifiable details about me.

As to the rest, you'll have to go by your instincts. There are no guarantees. In face to face contact or on the net. Talk to them. Don't pony up right away. Give yourselves time to visit and know each other.

Some people are assholes and will betray you regardless. Most are not. Most people are actually pretty decent. If you can spot the assholes and avoid them, you're already ahead of the game.[/QUOTE

Whats
odd is people asking for details that would be horrified if you shared theirs

 

[Phelia]

Yes

Fata went and told everyone about that time I was paid to pee on a bed in a Russian hotel room.

 

[lovetoread]

Yes

Fata went and told everyone about that time I was paid to pee on a bed in a Russian hotel room.

i thought the pics did not do you justice

 

[Hard_Rom]

If you go sharing personal stuff on the WWW too soon you are akin to the type who proclaim love after 2nd date or ask to move in within a few months of dating. You now become someone to be on the lookout for and avoid.

 

[Bookishleigh]

I am too distracted by LTR's new av....what was the question?

I pick A.

I think technically it's against the rules to share personal information about another Litster in a public forum including photos, not to say that it doesn't happen. My advice would be don't jump in guns blazing. Take your time. If possible, talk on the phone. Take it slow.

I think you're less likely to find someone here underage - more likely to find someone lying about their relationship status or even gender.

 

[Christobal]

Yes

Fata went and told everyone about that time I was paid to pee on a bed in a Russian hotel room.

I saw the vid.. You were convicing

 

[Ms_Ann]

Have you ever had your trust violated on lit? By someone you have chatted with in pm's?
Has anyone ever shared your conversations, or shared pics you have sent, or tried to get you in trouble on lit or on real life?
This is a concern of mine and it makes me hesitant to pm. I worry that someone isn't of age or is who they say they are. Any advice on these kinds of issues?

No one here is who they say they are, and yes.

 

[Miles]

Have you ever had your trust violated on lit? By someone you have chatted with in pm's?
Has anyone ever shared your conversations, or shared pics you have sent, or tried to get you in trouble on lit or on real life?
This is a concern of mine and it makes me hesitant to pm. I worry that someone isn't of age or is who they say they are. Any advice on these kinds of issues?

I've never heard of anything like that happening here. It's like one big happy family who respect everyone else's privacy. Share away!

 

[Debbie]

I am too distracted by LTR's new av....what was the question?

/QUOTE]

I feel swoony, sexxxy and squishy after seeing her avs delicousness

 

[Floridian]

Have you ever had your trust violated on lit? By someone you have chatted with in pm's?
Has anyone ever shared your conversations, or shared pics you have sent, or tried to get you in trouble on lit or on real life?
This is a concern of mine and it makes me hesitant to pm. I worry that someone isn't of age or is who they say they are. Any advice on these kinds of issues?

https://up3.xhcdn.com/000/141/453/875_1000.gif

That's hilarious!

 

[Christobal]

I am too distracted by LTR's new av....what was the question?

/QUOTE]

I feel swoony, sexxxy and squishy after seeing her avs delicousness

That might be the most erotic thing I have ever heard.

 

[Hard_Rom]

Someone needs to have this one trick pony Floridian banned! Boring!

 

[Christobal]

Someone needs to have this one trick pony Floridian banned! Boring!

My. Mad about something

 

[thør]

Yes

Fata went and told everyone about that time I was paid to pee on a bed in a Russian hotel room.

Hotel Rossiya, twenty steps from St. Basil's?

 

[hashtag46]

Have you ever had your trust violated on lit? By someone you have chatted with in pm's?
Has anyone ever shared your conversations, or shared pics you have sent, or tried to get you in trouble on lit or on real life?
This is a concern of mine and it makes me hesitant to pm. I worry that someone isn't of age or is who they say they are. Any advice on these kinds of issues?

No, but I think that a poster regretted confiding some personal matters to me via pm's, and got a bit anxious that I might reveal them in the forum or to other people.

I'm taking advantage of this to let them know that I would never do that, on the GB or IRL. Even for the mere fact that it would reflect negatively on my character.
Plus I deleted the pm's, and I can barely recall the conversations.