Very important message on aftercare, please read

[dolphinkatrin]

Aftercare is for the weak.
You do not need it to function.

 

[Shankara20]

Thank you and good night.....

 

[LunarKitten]

Aftercare is for the weak.
You do not need it to function.

Sooo...after a long and intense scene, no one needs water or food to bring their bloodsugar levels back up to normal...or else they can get it themselves, because no one needs to make sure you're ok? Hmmm....sounds selfish to me. If you take the time to beat someone black and blue, you can an extra ten minutes to make sure the person you played with is ok and able to function on their own ok.

(Do you also think cleaning the play area you just left, if playing in a public play space, is unnecessary?)

 

[SweetCherry]

I guess I must be weak then. Oh well, shit happens. *shrugs*

 

[dolphinkatrin]

If they need anything, they can get it themselves. They should be able to function normally.

 

[dolphinkatrin]

I guess I must be weak then. Oh well, shit happens. *shrugs*

Well, do you actually need it, or do you just enjoy it?

 

[littlegirlslut]

I guess I must be weak then. Oh well, shit happens. *shrugs*

I agree. And I need it. I actually cannot function just after an intense scene. There are times I've been so disoriented that I haven't known where I was.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Aftercare is for the weak.
You do not need it to function.

click me.... go on..... you know you want to......

 

[Private_Label]

Well, do you actually need it, or do you just enjoy it?

You must be new here. You may not think anyone needs after care. In which case, you are not the Dom for me... if you are one.

 

[dolphinkatrin]

I agree. And I need it. I actually cannot function just after an intense scene. There are times I've been so disoriented that I haven't known where I was.

Jesus, that's pathetic.
What the hell do you do, anyway?

 

[dolphinkatrin]

You must be new here. You may not think anyone needs after care. In which case, you are not the Dom for me... if you are one.

I don't like whiny pussies, so that works out just fine.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Moved to Cafe as in my wildest dreams I could not see this as anything but a fluff thread of nonsense material...certainly not to be taken seriously.

Catalina

 

[dolphinkatrin]

Moved to Cafe as in my wildest dreams I could not see this as anything but a fluff thread of nonsense material...certainly not to be taken seriously.

Catalina

Well, I consider it a BDSM discussion, but do what you will.

 

[littlegirlslut]

Well, I consider it a BDSM discussion, but do what you will.

Have you actually ever participated in any BDSM activity?

*stop feeding the trolls... but it's addicting*

 

[catalina_francisco]

Well, I consider it a BDSM discussion, but do what you will.

Cafe is for BDSM topics too, just not usually very serious ones and given the way this is presented and represented, it seems to be what you intended, or were you just stirring which also means it belongs here.

Catalina

 

[dolphinkatrin]

Have you actually ever participated in any BDSM activity?

*stop feeding the trolls... but it's addicting*

Of course I have. And I've never once needed aftercare.
I know it's hard for you to understand that there are people who do this that aren't total wusses, but there are.

 

[dolphinkatrin]

Cafe is for BDSM topics too, just not usually very serious ones and given the way this is presented and represented, it seems to be what you intended, or were you just stirring which also means it belongs here.

Catalina

I meant for it to be a serious discussion.

 

[Rebellious_Sub]

Aftercare is for the weak.
You do not need it to function.

...Hmmm, this is how to begin a serious discussion? Interesting..

 

[dolphinkatrin]

...Hmmm, this is how to begin a serious discussion? Interesting..

What's wrong with it?

 

[littlegirlslut]

Of course I have. And I've never once needed aftercare.
I know it's hard for you to understand that there are people who do this that aren't total wusses, but there are.

well then stop belittling others.

after being cut or beaten until i bleed yes... i need care...

 

[Rebellious_Sub]

It comes across as something to over look, such as one domineering thought that will be upheld without considering or listening objectively to the other point of view, IMHO.

~RS

 

[dolphinkatrin]

well then stop belittling others.

after being cut or beaten until i bleed yes... i need care...

Why? Take, for example, Aron Ralston.

With no water and as little hope of survival, Aspen mountaineer Aron Ralston, 27, used a pocketknife to amputate his own arm and free himself from a boulder weighing 800-1,000 pounds that fell and trapped him for five days in a remote desert canyon in eastern Utah.

Pinned in a 3-foot wide slot canyon near the Maze District of Canyonlands National Park south of Moab, Utah, Ralston cut through his own arm below the elbow Thursday morning, applying a tourniquet and administering first aid before rigging anchors and fixing a rope to rappel to the bottom of Blue John Canyon and hiking out to meet rescuers.

He sawed off his own arm with a pocketknife and was able to
-give first aid to himself
-rappel to the bottom of a canyon
-and hike to meet rescuers.

If a human is capable of all that, then why aren't you capable of even thinking properly after some sex?

 

[Rebellious_Sub]

well then stop belittling others.

after being cut or beaten until i bleed yes... i need care...

I agree here...

...and another thing, it is recommended, in polite society, when wishing to discuss a topic that you do NOT belittle the opposite opinion for having an opinion. Normally, we discuss in an attempt at understanding.

That's enough out of me for now. Take care all.

~RS

 

[dolphinkatrin]

It comes across as something to over look, such as one domineering thought that will be upheld without considering or listening objectively to the other point of view, IMHO.

~RS

The majority of the people I've encountered seem to be of the opinion that everyone needs aftercare and those who don't give aftercare are "bad doms", so I approach the topic somewhat aggressively.

 

[snowy ciara]

Dear Troll-of-the-Month Club.

We are very disappointed in the quality of our latest trolls. You used to send us quality trolls, that were great fun to slice and dice and then grill over a slow fire. Then you started sending us GB rejects and schizophrenic tarts with more boobs than brains. At least with the Brinnie model, we had fun playing "guess who's got the Brinnie password this week!" Lately, you've been sending us cheezy white supremacists and to add insult to injury, we had to share them with the rest of Lit! But this latest troll is more of a pathetic troll wannabe; a pale imitation of real Troll energy. It's as if you've replaced my morning OJ with orange kool-aid! I suspect the latest twit you sent us is merely a recycled GB reject. It would be stupendous if you sent us a troll worthy of the rapier wit and sarcastic rejoinder the denizens of this forum have become known for.

Thank you for your attention in this matter.