HandFan
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- Jan 15, 2005
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My hubbie and I both enjoy giving each other oral love, but when he's going down he never explores around at all, he just tends to stay right on top of my clit. This sort of drives me crazy because I would love for him to lick all over....if he did that it may even take less time to give me a orgasm then with what he's doing now. I've asked him about it and he says that he feels like he needs to stay right on my clit all the time because he thinks that if he goes off to another area for too long, that he will get tired. That and that he just doesn't think that I respond enough when he has wandered into other areas of my vagina. I have expressed, in great eagerness, how much I would love for him to lick everywhere...so it's not like there is a communication problem. I suspect that he's not being completely truthful with his answer, but that he's afraid of hurting my feelings.
So my questions are....Is there a difference in vaginal favor from one area to another? Could this be part of the problem?
Since I can't exactly go down on myself to find out, I thought I could ask people who have had oral with girls to tell me if this is a possibility. I've tried tasting by dipping my fingers around to see if there is a difference, but I can't really tell that there is. I also eat alot of foods, like fruit, for the sole purpose of making myself taste better and sweeter just for him. This has been a real disappointment to me, but I figure if I understand what the issue could be, that I could probably get over it. He still gets me off, but I know that I would enjoy the whole experience more if I felt like he wasn't afraid of my vaginal juices. Oh well, can't have it all!
So my questions are....Is there a difference in vaginal favor from one area to another? Could this be part of the problem?
Since I can't exactly go down on myself to find out, I thought I could ask people who have had oral with girls to tell me if this is a possibility. I've tried tasting by dipping my fingers around to see if there is a difference, but I can't really tell that there is. I also eat alot of foods, like fruit, for the sole purpose of making myself taste better and sweeter just for him. This has been a real disappointment to me, but I figure if I understand what the issue could be, that I could probably get over it. He still gets me off, but I know that I would enjoy the whole experience more if I felt like he wasn't afraid of my vaginal juices. Oh well, can't have it all!