Use him like an ATM

[Ember_Rocks]

Okay, I meet a new friend on another site and we've been chatting a little bit. He loves a woman that can tease him and use him for his money. This is something new to me, and I'm just not sure how to go about it. Is there a type of role I should take while chatting with him? Any tips at all?

 

[BrazenFellow]

If you feel hesitant starting out, ask him to buy you things you'll both enjoy. Lingerie, for example. Sex toys, so on.

 

[satindesire]

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[Ember_Rocks]

All great suggestions so far, thanks. Any ideas on what I could do during online chats?

 

[ChasingShadowsX]

What an odd fetish. I find something sexy about paying for sex... But I've never actually done it.

 

[satindesire]

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[BrazenFellow]

Satindesire: Ah crap, I'd nearly forgotten about sploshing and vore until I heard the words again. Looks like I'll be celebrating this night as hard as last to try and kill that memory.

Ember_Rocks: I don't know him, so I can't suggest things geared towards him specifically. Using your judgment, decide between being direct and almost demanding - or outright demanding - if you feel that's what he's after. What would work best with me at least, is being more subtle and hinting at things you like. This would give him a false sense of control he may find particularly delightful.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Sounds to me like he wants you to be a but dominant and treat him like he's there for your convenience. There's nothing wrong with doing this but as he's only an online friend, I think you should ask a few questions and get a clear idea of what he can spend on you comfortably. If you bankrupt the guy, there will be repercussions.

You might try posting this in the BDSM Talk forum as the kind of fetish your describing is something that dommes sometimes do to/for subs/slaves.

 

[The Gimp]

I would suspect that he is offering to spend money on you because he enjoys your company, and he is hoping that the gifts will encourage you to keep paying attention to him. I've done that myself on an occasion or two.
It makes him feel good to spend money on you because he likes you, but don't use that to take advantage of him. IF he wants to take you out to dinner, take you on a trip, buy you flowers, or buy you a sex toy then that is cool. Don't let him buy you a car or pay your electric bill, even if he offers to.

 

[satindesire]

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[satindesire]

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[HowMayIPleaseU]

dang... does he have a friend???

 

[fire_breeze]

dang... does he have a friend???

*laugh* I was think the same thing

 

[Ember_Rocks]

Wow!

Thanks for all the replies!

He already has an interest in me, he would be more interested in me if I could treat/use him in this way. I thought it was a different fetish when I first heard it, that's why I wasn't sure how to act, but I'd sure like to learn.

I'm a bit curious as to what vore and sploshing are, I may do a search, but I'm a bit afraid of what I'll find.

And next time we chat, I'll be sure to tell him I know a few ladies if he's got any friends.

 

[BrazenFellow]

Jesus God, don't.

Let me rephrase: Don't on a full stomach.

That's just me though. All power to you and your curiosity.

 

[satindesire]

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[Ember_Rocks]

Thanks satindesire, I think that'll ease my curiosity for the time being. Just glad I didn't decide to google vore before checking that link. I don't need to see that.

Sploshing, well, that's not bad.

 

[satindesire]

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[BrazenFellow]

I just learned something without going blind. All praise to SatinDesire. +1 kink, I suppose. Partner plus whipped cream or sauces, I can be good with that.

Turns out my initial aversion to sploshing came from a misinterpretation. I saw scat play labeled as sploshing.

 

[satindesire]

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[BrazenFellow]

At the risk of sounding cliche: No, thank you.