Thanks to you all who helped me with my dilema. My friend and I are taking it one day at a time since there seems to be a situation developing between him and another girl. I've told him that I'm content to be friends with occassional benefits as long as he is honest with me and does not try to subme in for this other girl. He has said that there is no way he could confuse us. I want him to be happy so if that means me not having sex with him it will be okay but as long as he is free then I guess I'll have to take what I can get.