Unusual fantasy question

[Shadowbender55]

They say that there are many different fantasies out there, but the one I have is unusual, at least to me. Becuase I'm not even sure if it's normal since there doesn't seem to be a lot of it out there.

Often there's the idea or the viewing of men dressed in women's clothes. But what about the opposite end? Where a woman is dresed in guys clothes? Is it an unusual fantasy for that? To have sex with a woman dressed in guys stuff?

Just thought I'd throw that one out on the table and see what the response is.

Try to be gentle on this. ^_^;;;;

 

[alli_cat]

Personally, I find women in men's clothing incredibly sexy, as does my male partner. A woman's curves in a man's suit... yummo I'm quite confident that putting on one of my strap-ons and a work shirt of my mans will never result in a knockback from him

Having said that, I think the reason that the opposite fantasy is more prevalent is that it is is less common and publicly taboo - women wear clothes that are traditionally for men all the time (so if you see it all all the time you don't need to fantasise?).

 

[playwithlezli]

for my sons grad I went shopping at used clothing stores for a mens 3 piece suit to fit my size 8 frame. I wanted to wear something like that for my 1980 grad but somehow ran out of steam...

 

[FallenAngelsSlut]

I agree I find that to be very attractive. A woman in a suit is very steamy, or work shirt with a strap-on I really like seeing a woman smoke a cigar too... i guess i have a fetish for it but not the smutty smoking trashy sites all over the internet. I have read a lot of people on here comment on it and there are quite a few sites on the subject. Some for fun and others more a way of life it seems.

 

[Shadowbender55]

Addditions to the fantasy

Personally, I find women in men's clothing incredibly sexy, as does my male partner. A woman's curves in a man's suit... yummo I'm quite confident that putting on one of my strap-ons and a work shirt of my mans will never result in a knockback from him

Having said that, I think the reason that the opposite fantasy is more prevalent is that it is is less common and publicly taboo - women wear clothes that are traditionally for men all the time (so if you see it all all the time you don't need to fantasise?).

Thank you, it's great to know that I'm not the only one who finds that sexy.

Though the fact that she's wearing men's clothes is only part of the fantasy for me. Underneath it she woudl be wearing sexy lingerie, and she would have really short, almost men's length cut hair.

What can I say, for some reason I find women who have shortly cut hair very sexy

 

[Shadowbender55]

Hmmm.

Fallen Angel,

Well in the fantasy I had in mind she wouldn't be wearing a strap-on exactly. She would just be very tomboyish on the surface (even with shortly cut hair). Yet, underneath it all, she would be wearing very sexy lingerie. It's just something about pulling down her "pants" and finding how much of a woman she is underneath.

 

[Etoile]

You might want to look up "drag king" on Google...you will find a LOT of material there.

 

[Shadowbender55]

You might want to look up "drag king" on Google...you will find a LOT of material there.

I always wondered if there was a term for this, like how "Drag Queen" is for men who dress in women's clothes, but I never thought the converse of it could be applied to this.

So I'll check it out.

Thanks.

 

[Etoile]

I always wondered if there was a term for this, like how "Drag Queen" is for men who dress in women's clothes, but I never thought the converse of it could be applied to this.

So I'll check it out.

Thanks.

There are probably more drag queens than there are drag kings, but the kings are out there and they are HOT.

 

[Shadowbender55]

From what I saw

There are probably more drag queens than there are drag kings, but the kings are out there and they are HOT.

Well, that is true that there are more drag queens than drag kings out there. That is probably because of the fact that in our culture it has become more accepted for a woman to wear pants and all that. But we're still not accepting of a man wearing a skirt/dress.

But if I may, from the drag kings that I've seen, a lot of them had on fake beards and all that. In all honesty, that wasn't something of a turn-on for me.

I geuss its because I'm not gay. *shrug* No surprise there, huh?

 

[Etoile]

Well, that is true that there are more drag queens than drag kings out there. That is probably because of the fact that in our culture it has become more accepted for a woman to wear pants and all that. But we're still not accepting of a man wearing a skirt/dress.

But if I may, from the drag kings that I've seen, a lot of them had on fake beards and all that. In all honesty, that wasn't something of a turn-on for me.

I geuss its because I'm not gay. *shrug* No surprise there, huh?

Not all drag kings wear fake beards, but many do because that makes it easier for them to be seen as male. I agree with you, a woman in male clothing, perhaps presenting a little masculine, is a beautiful thing! But I guess drag kings wear beards for the same reason drag queens wear outlandish wigs...to caricature the gender. Some FTM transmen grow their own facial hair for the same reason, because it's a sign of being male, but that's not quite the same thing as drag kings.

You might want to look up pictures of butch lesbians and butch women, too...that's a woman in man's clothing without necessarily pretending to BE male.

Okay, I'll say it...k.d. lang's publicity photos for her album "Drag" are the hottest thing out there. Highly recommended, but hard to find now, so here's a few:
http://www.coasttocoasttickets.com/images/performers/concerts_kdlang.jpg
http://gapd.com/MusicPhotosJL/kdLang01.jpg
http://www.ohkult.hu/images/bencepix/k-d-lang.jpg
http://www.frankdecaro.com/recipes/photos/kd-lang/kd-7a.jpg
http://www.classicdykes.com/images/kdlang.jpg
http://image.blog.livedoor.jp/hmicrowave/bedf5c21-s.jpg

 

[Shadowbender55]

Not all drag kings wear fake beards, but many do because that makes it easier for them to be seen as male. I agree with you, a woman in male clothing, perhaps presenting a little masculine, is a beautiful thing! But I guess drag kings wear beards for the same reason drag queens wear outlandish wigs...to caricature the gender. Some FTM transmen grow their own facial hair for the same reason, because it's a sign of being male, but that's not quite the same thing as drag kings.

You might want to look up pictures of butch lesbians and butch women, too...that's a woman in man's clothing without necessarily pretending to BE male.

Wow...she's beautiful and butch at the same time. I don't know whether I wanna hang out with her or seduce her.

I knwo that sounds weird coming from a straight guy, but that's what I'm thinking.

 

[PredatorSmile]

They say that there are many different fantasies out there, but the one I have is unusual, at least to me. Becuase I'm not even sure if it's normal since there doesn't seem to be a lot of it out there.

Often there's the idea or the viewing of men dressed in women's clothes. But what about the opposite end? Where a woman is dresed in guys clothes? Is it an unusual fantasy for that? To have sex with a woman dressed in guys stuff?

Just thought I'd throw that one out on the table and see what the response is.

Try to be gentle on this. ^_^;;;;

My boyfriend is bisexual and he loves seeing me in boyish clothes. I'm already a tomboy so, it's like, wicked easy for me to switch around.
Once, he had me dressed up in cowboy clothes. What he made me try wasn't totally my cup of tea back then but he loved it. It was fun, while it lasted, once I got used to it.

 

[Shadowbender55]

My boyfriend is bisexual and he loves seeing me in boyish clothes. I'm already a tomboy so, it's like, wicked easy for me to switch around.
Once, he had me dressed up in cowboy clothes. What he made me try wasn't totally my cup of tea back then but he loved it. It was fun, while it lasted, once I got used to it.

Yeah. That's the kind of thing that I'm talking about.

Though I had been exposed to the "drag king" thing and really they aren't as arousing as what I had in mind, mainly because of how they wear fake beards and mustaches and all that. It doesn't seem much of a turn on to me with that stuff.

 

[venus_can]

its actually fun

They say that there are many different fantasies out there, but the one I have is unusual, at least to me. Becuase I'm not even sure if it's normal since there doesn't seem to be a lot of it out there.

Often there's the idea or the viewing of men dressed in women's clothes. But what about the opposite end? Where a woman is dresed in guys clothes? Is it an unusual fantasy for that? To have sex with a woman dressed in guys stuff?

Just thought I'd throw that one out on the table and see what the response is.

Try to be gentle on this. ^_^;;;;

My bf encouraged to me dress up in men's clothes. We even went out a few times and I remember a few interesting times. I have never worn a fake beard, a mustache once just for fun. I found that very distracting tho' worried that it was going to fall off my face
Drag Kings are definitely HOT...

Venus

 

[Shadowbender55]

My bf encouraged to me dress up in men's clothes. We even went out a few times and I remember a few interesting times. I have never worn a fake beard, a mustache once just for fun. I found that very distracting tho' worried that it was going to fall off my face
Drag Kings are definitely HOT...

Venus

Yeah, I admit that the drag kings are hot, but the thing I don't like about them as I mentioned is that they wear beards and mustaches. I'd like to see a girl dress in a man's suit but wear women's lingerie underneath it all. Know what I mean?

 

[4degrees]

cool topic here.

 

[alli_cat]

Thinking of sexy women in men's clothes, watch the BBC mini-series "Tipping the Velvet"... omg, soooooo hot! Mens suits and hats, with corsets underneath... what could be better?? Just thinking of the Kitty Butler character makes me melt

http://www.bbc.co.uk/drama/tipping/ (You can view clips of the show here, follow the links!)

 

[human_male]

I quite like it. Tomboys and soldiers and things. I don't find women made up like men, and acting like men apealing though. Just me.

 

[playwithlezli]

Thank you, it's great to know that I'm not the only one who finds that sexy.

Though the fact that she's wearing men's clothes is only part of the fantasy for me. Underneath it she woudl be wearing sexy lingerie, and she would have really short, almost men's length cut hair.

What can I say, for some reason I find women who have shortly cut hair very sexy

I have to agree, I totally love that fantasy...but I am usually the one wearing men's clothes, and yes, with something sexy underneath it all!

Gets me wet just thinking about it... :

 

[Shadowbender55]

OH yeah

I have to agree, I totally love that fantasy...but I am usually the one wearing men's clothes, and yes, with something sexy underneath it all!

Gets me wet just thinking about it... :

Oh yeah, I have to agree.

Though the thing about a fantasy is that thinking about it is one thing, but getting someone to do it is something completely different.

 

[playwithlezli]

Oh yeah, I have to agree.

Though the thing about a fantasy is that thinking about it is one thing, but getting someone to do it is something completely different.

I guess my post really wasn't very clear was it! I do dress that way sometimes, I have a pin striped 3 piece suit, white poets shirt so some frilly bits show, then underneath

For example at the end of the month we are going clubbing with some young gay guys-should be fun, but the most fun, undressing for my girlfriend. I will be wearing a pink Victoria Secret push up bra and pink lace boy shorts, maybe some thigh highs too. It is such a turn-on just thinking about it.