Unleasing the Caveman

[FungiUg]

Unleashing the Caveman

This thread is really just a spot for me to relate what actually happens during a session with me.

Yes, I am back off the "wannabe" list and going into action tonight! Yay me! I just wish I was a little more robust -- still, the vodka's willing even if the meat's a bit off. Or something like that.

Anyway, I'm going to post a bit of a description about what happens, thoughts, impressions and so on. Feel free to ask questions.

"Unleasing" - a freudian slip combining unleashing and releasing. That's my story, and I'm sticking to it!

 

[Shadowsdream]

This thread is really just a spot for me to relate what actually happens during a session with me.

Yes, I am back off the "wannabe" list and going into action tonight! Yay me! I just wish I was a little more robust -- still, the vodka's willing even if the meat's a bit off. Or something like that.

Anyway, I'm going to post a bit of a description about what happens, thoughts, impressions and so on. Feel free to ask questions.

Hello FungiUg

I will be following this thread very carefully.

~~smile~~ welcome back to the action!

 

[snowy ciara]

We want all the pervy details, please.. minor pervation on the Lady's Av above

 

[FungiUg]

Preparation

Okay, each Dom is different, okay? I know that, you know that. We're different people. For me, a session involves preparation, and most of it is mental.

The submissive I am meeting tonight is a friend I have chatted to now for around three months. She's been keen, but "otherwise involved", and hasn't been free to play until the last couple of weeks. Unfortunately I have been sick (a chest infection), so I've not really been up to taking advantage of her. I put her off for a week, and I'm still not entirely well -- but hey, I'm gonna do my best anyway.

Now, she's not a virgin by any stretch. But so far she's only had a taste, and wants more. She sees another Dom, who I think of as more of a pure sadist -- he doesn't have sex with her, he just hurts and humiliates her. Which she enjoys! But with me, she'll get a focus on sex.

Anyway, her preparation for this evening involves being freshly showered, a clean shaven cunt, an enema. We're meeting at a cafe to see if we like each other in person, and if so, we'll go on to play. So I've given her two lots of clothing requirements.

For meeting at the cafe, she's to wear a long skirt (it's winter), heels, a blouse, no bra, a jacket. She's to wear her anal plug in her arse, and her vibraballs in her cunt, and a small g-string to help keep that in. I've asked her to have her hair down (she has long naturally red hair.)

For play, I instructed her to bring a see-through top which leaves her tits easily accessable, and a very short skirt that barely covers her butt. She doesn't have stockings (pantihose aren't acceptable), so it will be a bit of a juggle to get the room warmed up before she gets changed and we play. So some time to talk first.

I have several mental briefs (oooh, undies on my head!) that I have been going over in my mind to kind of "direct the scene" before it happens. Firstly, we need to discuss in person how she wants to be integrated with my lover and I as a threesome. While she's not keen on the idea of playing with a woman as such, the idea of being "used" by a woman and "forced" to serve a woman is a huge turn on for her. So we will discuss how to make that a reality. The next session I want to include my lover, so that's an important outcome of tonight.

Another is I am planning to experiment with a combination of spanking and playing with her g-spot, to see if I can get her cumming hard during a spanking. So I've been modelling that in my head, and the best arrangement I can come up with is her lying across my lap, her head to my right, and feet to my left, so I can spank her with my right hand (better power), and massage the inside of her cunt and her g-spot with my left hand.

I'm going to fuck her up the arse. She has been craving a good arse-fucking, and I have been craving someone to arse-fuck. The only tricky bit there is that she has dodgy knees. So I can't have her kneeling and me applying additional weight or pressure onto her knees. I'm thinking her lying on her face, a couple of pillows beneath her hips, while she holds her arse open for me will work. She will be wearing her anal plug for a goodly time ahead of time, so I expect her arse to be nicely stretched ahead of time, ready for fucking. And yes, I am taking lubricant.

Finally, I want to start with a little ritual. I will be teaching her how to stand, how to refer to me (as "Master"), how to present herself to me. But I also have a little ritual that helps set the mood, break the ice, and establish her place of service. It's kinda fun: I call it "serving tea."

Firstly, she makes me a nice hot cup of tea. (Okay, it could be coffee, but for some reason I prefer tea for it. I think because coffee makes my mouth a little bitter for kissing.) Then she will serve me tea, and kneel before me. As I drink my tea, she will ask me if she can suck my cock. So if you can imagine me sitting there, drinking tea as she kneels and deepthroats my cock, you'll get the right image.

When I've finished the tea, I can go on to fuck her face. This is quite different to oral sex. For a start, it actually doesn't feel as good as a woman giving me oral sex. But it's a great feeling of power, and a sexy one at that. It involves me holding her head, and literally shoving my cock down her throat, using my hip thrusts and pushing her head down and up to meet them.

We will probably do other things, but that's the majority of what I have thought through. So I can experiment with what works for her, learn her body and responses, and go from there. It's kind of like a skelleton of the scene prepared to hang the actual experience upon.

I do have some preparation of my own. Firstly, I've found a place where I can hire a motel room at short notice for the evening should we decide to go on and play (which I think is the most likely outcome.) Secondly, I've showered, paying particular attention to my cock (so it tastes good). I'm freshly shaved, because it's better for kissing. And I will be packing my toy bag -- she has some toys that she is bringing, but I will be bringing additional toys such as leather restraints, a blindfold, vibrators, and this great big double dildo that will fill her cunt up very nicely.

And of course, I am wearing my wide leather belt. So I can deliver enough pain for her to find the occasion memorable.

We're meeting in just under two hours, although I'll head out in just over an hour -- travel time. I can aim to get there a bit early so I can park and find the cafe and so on.

So there you go, that's the scene preparation for me.

 

[FungiUg]

Re: Re: Unleasing the Caveman

Hello FungiUg

I will be following this thread very carefully.

~~smile~~ welcome back to the action!

Thank you!

I have been missing it... hence I'm not putting it off yet again even though I'm still not entirely well.

Do feel free to comment -- I'm hoping to spark some 'compare and contrast' on styles. I think it's always great to hear another viewpoint and think "hmmm, maybe I could try that too!"

 

[snowy ciara]

quietly dialing Air New Zealand and inquiring about fares, then crying in my tea at the $$$$

 

[T.H. Oughts]

*Pulls up a chair and offers everyone popcorn as events unfold.*

 

[FungiUg]

I think Rosco and DVS would be proud of me! There's nothing quite like fucking a woman deep and hard up the arse while she chants "I am a cunt" over and over...



On the other hand, being sick does place a limit on the amount I am capable of. Ah well.

 

[FungiUg]

Introductions

We did a lot of talking. That always happens on a first session -- even though we'd talked to each other a fair bit online, there are still things you need to talk to about in person.

A large chunk of it was about limits (of course), and me emphasising that she can at any time say "no" or "stop". I like my partners to be enjoying themselves, and to WANT what is happening, and I made that clear to her. I'm pretty sure that in this case both were true.

For me, being able to talk to someone is a very important thing. If I can't talk to someone, pretty much any interest I might have in them dissapates. D/s play is all about exploring mind and body, and mutual fantasies -- if you can't talk about them, then it's just not going to work! Suffice to say she can talk: she's smart, a little feisty, not at all over-awed by me (this is a good thing), and not at all shy about discussing (quietly) what she wants.

She's managed to find some thigh high fishnets from somewhere, and some open toed black heels to go with them. She was wearing a knee-length woolen coat though, so I didn't get to see much else, but I was looking forward to discovering what lay beneath.

It was fairly obvious that we were both comfortable about going further, so it was off to a motel room!

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Re: Introductions

so it was off to a motel room!

Did I ever mention I'm incharge of all hidden cameras in all hotels in NZ.

 

[FungiUg]

Re: Re: Introductions

Did I ever mention I'm incharge of all hidden cameras in all hotels in NZ.

Geez, so why are you here talking to me when you could be out there watching the action?!!!

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Re: Re: Re: Introductions

Geez, so why are you here talking to me when you could be out there watching the action?!!!

I have a direct feed to my widescreen in the lounge here. I'm in afterglow with you lol

 

[FungiUg]

Limits

Everyone has limits, but in D/s play, it's important to take them into account. So the cute woman I was playing with tonight had several limits (no surprise), but one of them in particular WAS a surprise.

I'm going to skip over the obvious limits (no kids, no animals, no broken bones, etc) and concentrate on those that are uniquely hers.

Firstly, nothing damaging or breaking the skin. She has a health issue where she gets serious infections from broken skin. Since I'm not into breaking skin anyway, that's no problem for me.

Secondly, no serious marks in places people are likely to see. She's a career woman, so this makes a lot of sense. I do like leaving bite marks around the neck, but I can resist the urge and use the underside of her tits and her inner thighs and butt instead. And I'm not really into slapping a woman across the face. So no big deal.

Thirdly, no public displays and no "observers". That's a bit sad, because I have a friend who I think would LOVE to see a demonstration... ah well, at least I can write about it. This also limits what we can do in public or semi-public. Again, not a big deal to work around.

Finally, the one that surprised me. No playing with her clit. Seriously! Apparently she never masturbates, and her clit just doesn't make her feel good. I'll have an interesting conversation with her around that some time, and see if I can find out a little about why that's so. What this does mean is that I can't go for clitoral orgasms, nor can I lick her pussy. As it happens, licking her pussy would have been off the menu for tonight anyway (I'm sick, remember?) And in the future, I'm sure I can manage a little so long as I stay away from her clit. Could be a fun teasing session with a bit of bondage.

A few other odds and sods -- from her description, she's into pain more than I'm into giving it, so I don't have to worry about that. she's craving a good arse fucking (hasn't had it for a while), and I have NO problems with that!!! She's okay with a bit of humiliation, so long as it's part of the scene. she doesn't like calling me "Sir", because it reminds her of being at school -- apparently that is NOT a turn on for her. Even the "Master" thing is a bit dodgy, but I insist on a little. Just enough to stroke my ego.

Some others come up in the later discussion over moving into a threesome and introducing my lover, but I'll cover those later.

 

[FungiUg]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Introductions

I have a direct feed to my widescreen in the lounge here. I'm in afterglow with you lol

Did you enjoy the bit where I started coughing uncontrollably, so we had to call an end to the proceedings?

Actually, I bet one of the parts you enjoyed is where I discussed what we could do as a threesome with my lover...

I have actually been recorded having sex... no joke!

 

[FungiUg]

Play: getting started

It's winter, okay? So the motel room is a little chilly. So first things first, turn on the heater!

And while we're waiting for the room to heat up, I can explore what's beneath her jacket. I tell her to stand in front of me, and we have a bit of a cuddle (we're both a bit tense.) Then I tell her to stand back from me, her hands behind her clasped at the small of her back, her legs slightly apart, her head held high and her tits thrust out.

Her jacket unbuttons down the front, and underneath she's wearing a short red tartan skirt, and a fishnet mesh top. Of course, I'm a guy... so the first thing I notice is that she has gorgeous tits! Somewhere between a C and a D, but round and firm and bouncy... yummy! I have to stop and play with them a little -- easily distracted, huh?

Underneath her tartan skirt she's wearing a black floral g-string. Normally I don't allow panties of any kind, but in this case I specifically asked her to wear them. Why? Because they are helping ensure that the toys in her cunt and her arse don't escape. She's got vibra balls in her cunt (I can see a bit of string), and a huge anal plug! It's massive! A big red jelly thing, probably 5" to 6" long, and a good couple of inches across. No wonder she said "my arse is very full" earlier on when she was trying to walk.

As you may have guessed, I've stopped to check out what's beneath her skirt. I want a closer look though, so I tell her to turn around then bend at the waist and rest her weight on the edge of the bed with her hands. I get a closer look at her arse (very yummy and curvy) and legs. And to admire that huge toy -- this woman is going to have no problems with my cock in her arse!

I also slide my fingers up to her cunt to check her arousal levels. Yep, she's wet. Not drenched (I would be surprised if she were, since it's pretty nerve wracking, and that tends to dry things up), but definately on the excided side.

This is actually a bit of a test, manhandling her like this. Some women believe they are submissive, but what they really want is to be what I call a "pillow princess". They want someone else to do all the work, so they can just lie back and enjoy it. A submissive, on the other hand, wants to serve and will actually be excited when used and overpowered. So an easy way to check is just to physically "check her out" and see how she responds to the attention.

(Just out of interest, another way to do this is to grab a woman at the base of her spine by the hair and push her around. It's not sexual, but it will give you a good indication of whether she's going to submit to you. Of course, if she's not, the massive slap you get across your face will be a dead giveaway.)

Anyway, I explain to her the concept of the opening "tea service" -- she is to make me a cup of tea, and then present it to me. While I drink my tea, she is then to kneel in front of me, and ask me if she may suck my cock. Assuming I say yes (well, duh!) she is then to undo my trousers, take my cock out, and spend the time deepthroating me until I tell her to stop.

She's got all that, and not made any objections. Rather, she's making her way to the kitchenette and asking me how I like my tea. (White, one sugar, strong, in case you ever wondered.) So while she's waiting for the kettle to boil the water, I move over to her and have her place her hands flat on either side of the sink.

(Hmmm... shades of Rosco's sink fuck?)

So we're waiting for the jug to boil, and I've spread her legs and I'm exploring how wet her cunt is again. Two fingers. Pushing them up into her and playing with her g-spot (around the vibra balls). And she's responding nicely... so of course, as soon as the water has boiled, I stop. Time to sit down and wait for the tea to be served!

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

"Pillow Princess". That's a good term for that. About what I'm like when I bottom. I enjoy being blindfolded, not knwing what's coming next, pain or pleasure. Of course, being a masochist, the pain is pleasure of a sort to me.

I'm glad to hear things are going good for you, Fungi. I didn't even know you'd been sick. Not sure whether you'll like it or not, but I'll add you to my prayers.

The clit thing with her is rather strange. I've heard of a few cases of it being painfully sensitive. Did you get a good look at it? How much of a hood does she have? Seriously, if it's painful, she should see a doctor - and another one if she's told nothing can be done about it or to just endure it. I'm going to do a little research on that.

 

[redelicious]

Hey Fungi, I just saw this. I'm so thrilled for you!!!!

 

[niteshade]

Fungi, I am sooo glad you finally found a new playmate!

 

[A Desert Rose]

Like the others, I'm happy for you, pal. And I will be keeping my eye on this thread. Keep us informed. ;-D

 

[Evaleastaristev]

"Pillow Princess". That's a good term for that. About what I'm like when I bottom. I enjoy being blindfolded, not knwing what's coming next, pain or pleasure. Of course, being a masochist, the pain is pleasure of a sort to me.

I'm glad to hear things are going good for you, Fungi. I didn't even know you'd been sick. Not sure whether you'll like it or not, but I'll add you to my prayers.

The clit thing with her is rather strange. I've heard of a few cases of it being painfully sensitive. Did you get a good look at it? How much of a hood does she have? Seriously, if it's painful, she should see a doctor - and another one if she's told nothing can be done about it or to just endure it. I'm going to do a little research on that.

I know that with me personally, if my clit is played with to the point of me cumming, it hurts, and in such a bad way. It might be that she gets to overstimulation insanely quickly when it comes to her clit, 'cause I know that's when mine starts hurting me.

Just a few thoughts.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I enjoyed reading about the obsessive preparations. Very interesting and perverse. It's odd how different we all are...although I have tons of ideas and fantasies; I never make plans like that--I just wing it.

a good thread.

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

I enjoyed reading about the obsessive preparations. Very interesting and perverse. It's odd how different we all are...although I have tons of ideas and fantasies; I never make plans like that--I just wing it.

a good thread.

I tend to run on instinct too. I do sometimes plan out a scene, but then it's still subject to my whims so I often change it.

'Course, whether he knows what the plan is or not is a different story.

 

[incubus'_sub]

I'm really pleased for you Fungi. My Master doesn't come to Lit very often now, but I will make sure he reads your thread. When we were beginning he, too, made careful & thoughtful plans about our scenes. The idea for us has always been for us both to enjoy the play, impossible if you are cold & uncomfortable as we began in winter too.

I am certainly enjoying your story as it unfolds, moreso perhaps because it seems that you share many traits with my Master and the memories of our first encounters are very intense.

Just when were you planning your holiday to Oz ???

 

[FungiUg]

Sad but true

One of the things you risk when you are experimenting and playing with someone new is that it won't work.

My lover and I have been in the situation of playing with someone, and then deciding that she didn't work for us. It's a really hard thing to deal with, because no matter how you put it, the person you turn down is going to take it as a personal attack. When in reality, it's simply that the desires or needs or ways of doing things aren't compatible.

Well, today I am dealing with the aftermath of the reverse. Namely that while I do have a perverse nature, and I like to tease, I'm not really a sadist. And I am in a pre-existing relationship. It seems that neither of these factors work for the woman I played with last night.

She's told me (honestly, and I appreciate that she felt she could be honest with me) that it made her feel like she was prostituting herself, that she doesn't want to be a "sex slut", and that she needs to feel intimidated.

While me being sick would put paid to any intimidation I had planned, the truth is that even when I am well, I'm not a truly evil sadist. I have moments, but my focus is on sex.

So it seems that this won't go any further than the one play session. Which is sad (she was fun to play with, and I would have loved to introduce her to my lover), but that happens.

Ah well.

 

[FungiUg]

Just when were you planning your holiday to Oz ???

Probably early next year. I have sisters and friends in Sydney, and my lover has a brother in Brisbane. I think we're due to visit her brother again, so it will likely be Brisbane in March, or thereabouts. We're also likely to have the boys with us, so it won't be a play trip in that sense.