lacandy
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Shhhhh!! Be wary, wary quiet. I’m hunting unicorns!
That’s right, I’m back at it. Looking for that rare breed on Lit who wants something more…someone who wants that connection. You know what I’m talking about – that feeling that you get when you see that you have a message from them…when the first thing you think of in the morning is that person and the last thing you think of at night is them. Yeah, I’m on a safari for THAT. (And just because you have a “horn” doesn’t make you a unicorn guys
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So, about me? I’ve been here for a bit and have figured out what I want and need (both sexually and relationship wise) in the last year – the hard part is finding it. But I guess that’s what these ads are for, hoping that ONE person somewhere in the ether of the internet will read it and feel that deep down need and desire to reply.
First, the things you should know:
I’m married – that’s not changing anytime in the near future (distant future is another thing – but I’m not looking for the next Mr. Candy, ). Also, in case you don’t post stalk me or have never seen me around…I am a mom first and foremost. My kids ALWAYS come first. I am often running one place or another to support them, but also I think I do a decent job of finding time for others in my life.
The new kink in the plan (not that kind of kink pervs ) is that I’m about to start a full time job…which will definitely limit some of my naughty time, but I will always make time for myself because my needs, desires, and happiness are climbing up the priority list. (Thus this ad)
What I want is someone who will “talk” to me…I need more than a one sentence back and forth. I am smart (at least I think so – but don’t think that I won’t use the “blonde” thing to get out of trouble ) and enjoy talking about lots of things. I want to know about your day, your job, your family…I want someone who stimulates me in more ways than one.
The most important thing that I’m looking for is I want to be your first choice…I don’t want to be a placeholder for “that next newbie” or “the one that you pine for”. I realize that real life always takes priority – honestly, I don’t expect 24/7 contact (though I do have a few abandonment issues that you will have to soothe at the beginning) – but I want something off of here. I don’t think I’m cut out for Litationships.
Oh, and TRUST is the ultimate for me. (See abandonment issues above) It’s the basis for all my fantasies and how far my boundaries stretch. I run to the submissive side, but need that trust to truly allow myself to get to where I ache to be…are you that unicorn to take me there?
That’s right, I’m back at it. Looking for that rare breed on Lit who wants something more…someone who wants that connection. You know what I’m talking about – that feeling that you get when you see that you have a message from them…when the first thing you think of in the morning is that person and the last thing you think of at night is them. Yeah, I’m on a safari for THAT. (And just because you have a “horn” doesn’t make you a unicorn guys
)So, about me? I’ve been here for a bit and have figured out what I want and need (both sexually and relationship wise) in the last year – the hard part is finding it. But I guess that’s what these ads are for, hoping that ONE person somewhere in the ether of the internet will read it and feel that deep down need and desire to reply.
First, the things you should know:
I’m married – that’s not changing anytime in the near future (distant future is another thing – but I’m not looking for the next Mr. Candy,
). Also, in case you don’t post stalk me or have never seen me around…I am a mom first and foremost. My kids ALWAYS come first. I am often running one place or another to support them, but also I think I do a decent job of finding time for others in my life.The new kink in the plan (not that kind of kink pervs
) is that I’m about to start a full time job…which will definitely limit some of my naughty time, but I will always make time for myself because my needs, desires, and happiness are climbing up the priority list. (Thus this ad)What I want is someone who will “talk” to me…I need more than a one sentence back and forth. I am smart (at least I think so – but don’t think that I won’t use the “blonde” thing to get out of trouble
) and enjoy talking about lots of things. I want to know about your day, your job, your family…I want someone who stimulates me in more ways than one.The most important thing that I’m looking for is I want to be your first choice…I don’t want to be a placeholder for “that next newbie” or “the one that you pine for”. I realize that real life always takes priority – honestly, I don’t expect 24/7 contact (though I do have a few abandonment issues that you will have to soothe at the beginning) – but I want something off of here. I don’t think I’m cut out for Litationships.
Oh, and TRUST is the ultimate for me. (See abandonment issues above) It’s the basis for all my fantasies and how far my boundaries stretch. I run to the submissive side, but need that trust to truly allow myself to get to where I ache to be…are you that unicorn to take me there?
