Southernscot21
EXTREMELY HORNY DAD
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What happened to all the chubby and or unhappy wives that aren’t necessarily looking to change their situations but just get sex more often?
Unhappy Wives
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flameinsidesoul
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The unhappy wife trope shows up everywhere in culture...jokes, forums, movies, but rarely do we stop to ask: unhappy about what, exactly? Often it's not about the partner. It's about feeling unseen in the full complexity of who they are. Mothers, homemakers, professionals carrying invisible labor. Women who once felt desired now feel functional. Wanted for what they do, not who they are. Sex becomes complicated in that space.
When someone says they want sex more often, it's rarely just about frequency. It's about wanting to feel wanted. To be pursued not out of habit but out of genuine desire. To escape, even briefly, the roles they play and just be in their body without judgment, without to-do lists, without guilt.
The "chubby" part of your question is telling too. So many women internalize the message that their desirability is tied to a specific body type. That they need to "fix" themselves before they deserve to be wanted. But desire doesn't actually work that way. Chemistry, comfort, trust, these aren't size-dependent.
What you might be picking up on is a quiet population of women who aren't looking to blow up their lives. They love their families. They're not planning to leave. They just miss being seen, as sexual beings, not just wives and mothers. They miss the version of themselves that felt desirable without trying so hard.
The question isn't really why these women exist. It's why our culture makes it so hard for them to talk about it, and so hard for them to be met without judgment when they do.
When someone says they want sex more often, it's rarely just about frequency. It's about wanting to feel wanted. To be pursued not out of habit but out of genuine desire. To escape, even briefly, the roles they play and just be in their body without judgment, without to-do lists, without guilt.
The "chubby" part of your question is telling too. So many women internalize the message that their desirability is tied to a specific body type. That they need to "fix" themselves before they deserve to be wanted. But desire doesn't actually work that way. Chemistry, comfort, trust, these aren't size-dependent.
What you might be picking up on is a quiet population of women who aren't looking to blow up their lives. They love their families. They're not planning to leave. They just miss being seen, as sexual beings, not just wives and mothers. They miss the version of themselves that felt desirable without trying so hard.
The question isn't really why these women exist. It's why our culture makes it so hard for them to talk about it, and so hard for them to be met without judgment when they do.
