Seems there are a lot of unhappily or unsatisfied married fo;ks out there. I believe that is so common today. Too many of us chose a mate that we dont know or really love. Therefore no strength in the marriage. we are all lonely and desperate. Marriage is tuff even in the best of conditions, but without true love it leeds to desires elsewhere. I to have found that to be true even though i love my wife very much. Sometimes, maybe i should say most of the time, i dont understand her. We still keep trying though. I dont think i could truely please a woman anymore as i could have a few years ago, so i wont try to find someone else. She is worth it if i can try to understand her.