Unfulfilled and dissatisfied...

[ALancy83]

*This may be a long one... you’ve been warned!*
I’ve been doing a lot of reflecting on my RL relaronships (both past and present) and I’ve concluded that, while I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a tireless partner pleaser, I tend to feel unfulfilled and dissatisfied with convention.
I’ve come here in the past and have found resolution and freedom in new online relationships or flings (they come in all shapes and sizes — to attempt to label them would be painting with a woefully broad brush).
I find I crave that more than I give credence to. It’s crept into my everyday life, the desire to be pushed and to be continually fulfilled beyond the Safety of a beige romantic relationship.
If you’re looking for something extra, or something of a new thrill in your life, someone with whom you can ignite a new spark, you’re not alone. I’d love to chat with you.

Oh, and the necessaries: 35M, Midwest. Inequal parts witty, intelligent, insatiable and subjectively handsome

 

[Jada59]

I hope you find who you are looking for!

 

[ALancy83]

I hope you find who you are looking for!

Thank you! Much appreciated.

 

[Sampson1983]

Good luck!

I know the feeling. Hope you find her, bro!

 

[ALancy83]

Thank you! Great year in your name too. (Assuming that’s the reference.)

 

[ashesatwork]

arent we all. good luck sweet cheeks.

you sure are handsome

 

[Sampson1983]

1983!

You got that right man! Take it easy.

 

[sangerin]

So are you looking for a friend or more?

 

[ALancy83]

A little bump...

Sometimes things go bump in the daytime too...

 

[nymphMistress]

Tiredness Partner Pleaser?

*This may be a long one... you’ve been warned!*
I’ve been doing a lot of reflecting on my RL relaronships (both past and present) and I’ve concluded that, while I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a tireless partner pleaser, I tend to feel unfulfilled and dissatisfied with convention.
I’ve come here in the past and have found resolution and freedom in new online relationships or flings (they come in all shapes and sizes — to attempt to label them would be painting with a woefully broad brush).
I find I crave that more than I give credence to. It’s crept into my everyday life, the desire to be pushed and to be continually fulfilled beyond the Safety of a beige romantic relationship.
If you’re looking for something extra, or something of a new thrill in your life, someone with whom you can ignite a new spark, you’re not alone. I’d love to chat with you.

Oh, and the necessaries: 35M, Midwest. Inequal parts witty, intelligent, insatiable and subjectively handsome

Yum! Yum! Yumilicious! Looking forward in receiving a email from you and hopefully you are single and not into real kinky situations!

 

[ALancy83]

Bumpity bump bump.

Just a friendly summertime bump!

 

[ALancy83]

A final bump!

I just wanted to thank all of you who’ve responded with words of encouragement and well wishes! The search is everlasting and ongoing in earnest, but I’m grateful that so many of you have reached out and touched base! It’s not always easy to lay oneself bare, but it’s wonderfully comforting knowing I’m not alone!

 

[RightSized]

The search might not take as long as you think. I've been here for about a week and already found someone. All I did was find a few interesting women, browsed their post history, responded to some kindred spirits and very quickly found myself going back and forth with a woman whose marriage, sex life and subsequent urges are in the same place as mine. We threw some quick scenarios to each other, figured out what the other liked and took it from there. We already had our first threesome.

My advice is to you when you think you've found someone is to be less flirty and more vulnerable and honest. Not just about the kind of sex you like but how it feels. Not talking happy, sad or angry. Tell her about that ache in your balls and asshole right before you cum. Get her to tell you how an orgasm feels to her. How much more personal can you get?

Or maybe someone has better advice. Probably a woman.

 

[Booboobear84]

*This may be a long one... you’ve been warned!*
I’ve been doing a lot of reflecting on my RL relaronships (both past and present) and I’ve concluded that, while I wear my heart on my sleeve and am a tireless partner pleaser, I tend to feel unfulfilled and dissatisfied with convention.
I’ve come here in the past and have found resolution and freedom in new online relationships or flings (they come in all shapes and sizes — to attempt to label them would be painting with a woefully broad brush).
I find I crave that more than I give credence to. It’s crept into my everyday life, the desire to be pushed and to be continually fulfilled beyond the Safety of a beige romantic relationship.
If you’re looking for something extra, or something of a new thrill in your life, someone with whom you can ignite a new spark, you’re not alone. I’d love to chat with you.

Oh, and the necessaries: 35M, Midwest. Inequal parts witty, intelligent, insatiable and subjectively handsome

And you don't end sentences with prepositions. You probably don't begin them with coordinating conjunctions either.

 

[ALancy83]

After a prolonged hiatus...

We’re back where we started. I’m still in search of someone who can check off all the boxes. I’ve found I’m less inclined to pursue the lukewarm than I once was, which has led to a longstanding isolation. But if the ends are to justify the means, one must stay the course.
Should my original post spark your interest, I eagerly await your reply...