Unequally yoked

[Blueeyesforyoualr]

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[Jada59]

I think you are doing to much. You seem to think that she's broken and you seem to want to try to fix her.

We all have different sex drives. Mine is high. much higher than most men I know.

You did sum it up at the end. She is old fashioned and a prude. If this is true, that's just how it is and you'll have to accept it.

Some women are into porn. Most are not. Sending it to her won't help. In fact if you send it anonymously, you'll likely scare her.

The best you can do is be honest with her. Tell her how you feel.

Maybe she never liked oral. Some people will do things prior to marriage if they think it will attract you and once married, they won't put any effort into it.

 

[twister947]

Maybe she never liked oral. Some people will do things prior to marriage if they think it will attract you and once married, they won't put any effort into it.
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*nods* Bait and switch. Sucks. Except it doesn't.

 

[NightL]

birthing years

so you have children. How many? Who is the primary carer of your children? Is your wife working full time and then coming home to continue working full time looking after you and the children.

You talk a lot about you and these "amazing" efforts to get her thinking like you do, but maybe you really need to make an effort of understanding your wife.

 

[Knoturnal]

I love sex . I love women, everything about them.

My wife however thinks missionary once a week is a plenty.
And if anything gets in the way, a week later is good enough.

She cums hard every time, why does she not crave it like me.

She takes ambien and zquill that i have laced with a herbal relaxer, yohimbe(more blood to clit for heightened orgasms)
And rum..

I tried sending porn to her email from many anonymous accounts to begin a change of thinking, and she wss looking at first but not now.

When i get my dick in her she is like a teenager..fucks like crazy, now with the herbal help.

But dating, early marriage and birthing years, oral was part of our sexlife. I love eating pussy..

I have subliminals playing 24 7 in our bedroom masked with waves, suggesting more sex and oral just in case it works.

I have had and now have an online friend with online benefits, who love my cock, and sext daily, cumming together often.
But i have an undersexed beautiful woman in my bed.
Wouldn't that be so much better?
She is old fashioned, and a prude..

Having said that..

There is huge improvement in recent months but i want more
Much much more...

Help!

be careful dude.
you shouldn't be saying your giving her drugs and shouldnt be doing it.
besides your mixing two drugs to relax her and help her sleep with yohmbie. Dude read the things they say about yohmbie its not good to use and could give her lot more than more blood to her clit.

if shes not that interested in sex there could be a lot of reasons especially from your post YOU.

Might be better leaving her alone instead of spending time incarcerated for hassling her giving her drugs and doing weird things like having subliminals playing around the house.

You cant change someone and this probably wont change you but its better to go and live your own life if things aren't right than to spend time trying to change her.

Wouldn't that be much better?

 

[Pocketshaver]

this dude is fucked up and cant keep his fantasy story straight

seriously can we NOT get rid of this fucker and his nonsensical fantasy story?

in two posts he goes from loser pussy wimp boy who only gets sex once a week with what is implied to being his girlfriend. To applying drugs to his wife so he can rape her at least once or twice a week.

 

[Zeb_Carter]

She's probably getting some on the side from a neighbor or someone she knew before you. Just saying. Or her hormones are all whacked up.

 

[littlecordelera]

I can't get past the "...i have laced..."

With all due respect, you need to understand that it's not your wife who has a problem.

 

[IsItBad]

35 years of experience in this realm

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you are not going to change her sex drive
if you are extra good to her or do special things for her or buy her things or whatever (ad infinitum) she may have sex with you more often than she would have otherwise
but you will know the entire time.....that's why

if you are horny and need good sex.....go and find a playmate.

i am sorry. it sounds terrible to say. but.....you have to decide what is important to you. you can spend an eternity miserable, depressed, feeling worthless......which is all about YOU and will not affect her much at all.......OR you can go and find someone with a much more similar sex need to yours and be satisfied.

i tried to stay on the high road for years.....but it just literally got worse and worse......finally.....i just gave in and hunted someone to help

and YES.....NEEDLESS TO SAY......there are MANY MANY downsides to cheating......

anyway....that's my 2 cents