Underage characters!

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This is canned text I'm going to start dropping into threads where the 18 rule gets discussed. The hope is that if I do it fast enough, pointless discussion might get shortcutted. This thread is not intended as a ground for argument; and unless you go by Laurel here I'm not interested in your sass concerning this material, though I'm interested in ideas for improving it.

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This is a privately owned site. All of Literotica is owned and moderated by a single person, who goes by Laurel. She makes her livelihood from it. All that gives her the unquestionable and unlimited right to reject or subsequently delete any story, forum post or comment she thinks isn't in the site's best interest. She and she alone gets to decide what that means.

One of the biggest surprises people get on coming here as a writer, is the "18" rule. As the rule is written, no character in a story can be under 18 if they are exposed to sexual situations of any sort.

You are not the first person to ask about this rule. You probably aren't the first person in the last 30 days, which is why some replies you get from other authors may seem grumpy. We see these questions a lot.

The 18 rule, like everything else here, is interpreted and applied by Laurel, and she takes a conservative stance with this one - if she thinks a story is going to encourage people to think about sex with people under 18, she'll generally reject it. That means that it's not enough to state your character is 18. He or (generally) she has to act 18+ as well. In Laurel's opinion, not yours.

Note that this rule isn't in place because of any existing laws. There are few if any countries where a written story describing sex between seventeen years olds is illegal. That's not the point. The argument "but the law says it's legal!" is meaningless here. This is Laurel's site, aka her property, and she's not required to accept stories just because the law doesn't forbid them. This is not a free speech issue because private properties (like Literotica) are not required to allow free speech. The internet *in general* is not a haven for free speech - someone owns those servers you are using, whatever site you go to, and that gives them the right to filter content they don't like. The rules are just more pronounced here than you may be used to.

Note that the rule has nothing to do with pedophilia. Pedophilia is an interest in pre-pubescent children, formally defined as age 12 and younger. The under 18 rule is in response to different concerns - but it should be trivially apparent that an actual pedophile story is beyond unacceptable here, and generally anywhere. You'll be banned from the site if you push for this - at least, that's what I'd do.

Evidence suggests Laurel is firm, but reasonably even-handed, in implementing her interpretation of her "18" rule. If you're here because the story was rejected, you probably weren't singled out and you're definitely not alone. Rewrite your story until it passes muster. Or take it to a site without such rules. Those are your only options.

Because the interpretation of the rule is (apparently) intended to stop stories from making people think about sex with under 18's, there are a few red flags which may cause your story to get extra scrutiny and a higher chance of rejection:

1. characters in High school. Not many people in high school in the US are actually 18. Some authors here feel strongly that any mention of high school is an attempt to imply to the readership that your "18 year old" is really younger, in short that you're speaking in a kind of code and luring people to think about underage characters. Laurel may or may not agree. If you want to write about an 18 year old in high school, you may want to discuss it with Laurel first (use the Private Message mechanism - don't ask in a forum here.)

2. Characters described as having physical characteristics that sound more like 14 than 18. Slight breasts on someone just turned 18, a beard just starting to come in, excessively junivile behaviour - all these are going to look to many people like you're attempting to sneak an underage character in, and are very likely to get a story rejected.

3. Historical setting for stories. Romeo and Juliet is probably not what you'd consider racy filth; but Juliet lost her virginity at fourteen. That story would certainly be rejected here. It has a fine moral message, it was startling but not shocking when it was written, and it's clearly a well crafted story, but none of that matters here. Just because laws about the age of consent have varied quite a bit historically, doesn't mean they vary here.

4. Incest stories. In the real world, incest is almost always tied to underage sexuality and hence is abusive by definition. Despite the fact that the site has an Incest category, stories in that category should never depict incest as it most commonly occurs in the real world. It's largely a fantasy category.

5. Fantasy stories. I once submitted a story about a 6,000 year old succubus; i.e., not underage and not human. It was rejected under the "18" rule because the character, in human form, was described as "not of an age to be married". I didn't even define what the marriage age was - but Laurel decided it was too risky for her site. Take that lesson to heart.

6. First time stories. Statistically speaking, in the US at least, you probably lost your virginity at an age younger than 18. (The average age of first sexual experience was hovering around 17.9 when I last looked). Sorry, you can't write an accurate account of it in that case. You have to change the character's ages. Laurel is likely to look for evidence that you're hinting at younger ages in other ways, so write carefully.

Please note that occasionally an underage story "gets past" Laurel and gets posted. If you see one, report it using the [!] reporting mechanism at the bottom of most pages. Finding such stories doesn't give you permission to write under 18. It gives you an obligation to report it, so people don't get confused about the rules.

Yes, there are a few people here who think the "18" rule is unnecessary and onerous. But that doesn't matter. Authors do not make the rules here. We can't help you convince anyone, least of all Laurel, that the rule is wrong. We know better than to try, so please don't waste time agitating for change. It's not happening.

Good luck, and welcome to Literotica.
 
I lock horns with Laurel over snuff. I don't write snuff, and find it offensive, but Laurel draws the line different from me. Snuff is sexual arousal caused by killing. But Laurel is known to include the murder of mom's lover by dad...if theyre in bed. If they get killed in or near a bed expect trouble.

I look for ways to get around it. In my newest story a witness hears the shouting and screams and gunfire through the wall of her motel room. It awakens her. Maybe Laurel will salute it, maybe not. But I respect her druthers and don't conspire to screw her wishes. I want Laurel to get I'm not her adversary. And if she has troubler with killings in bed. No problem. Maybe we can split the difference at outta sight but not outta mind.

I've made brilliant arguments that box cutters are tools NOT weapons. But I get how box cutters can be weapons.
 
Ah, yes... the quest to end it all.

Good luck with that one.

Ha. No. My plans aren't that grand. The posts abut 18 will never end, even if Lit reorganizes pages to throw the rule in people's faces when they submit. What I'm hoping for is

OP: 18? WTF?
Hands: <canned post>
OP: Oh. Well that sucks. Ok, thanks.

With a resulting 12% reduction in pointless posts in AH. And remember: if we get rid of ALL the useless posts in AH... we can close the forum.
 
Fight having threads on underage on the forum by posting a thread on underage on the forum?
 
Fight having threads on underage on the forum by posting a thread on underage on the forum?

If one person opens this thread and doesn't ask the usual questions, then it did it's job. Maybe it should be a sticky at the top of the page but then again, who reads those? :rolleyes:
 
Fight having threads on underage on the forum by posting a thread on underage on the forum?

I suppose if this thread stays alive it could have that effect, but it's too much to hope for. I'm just going to bomb every new thread on the topic with that same text as early as possible. If I'm away, feel free to copy it or point back to this thread.

As Tx said, it might make a good sticky. But no one's going to look at a sticky. I mean, do you ever read the memos from management at work? No.
 
I gave them a look see when I wrote them.

That must have been a lonely experience.

Anything along the lines of "In the Company Today" or "Policy Change" goes straight into the deleted folder, unopened. For clueless verbosity without impact, you can't top that stuff. On the rare cases I have to open those emails I'm always delighted, positively delighted, to see the grasp of grammar used by the people steering the company. Gives me warm fuzzies all over. Favorite phrase: see the website for more information. No URL of course. We're supposed to intuit which of the thousands of pages he might be referring to.

My experience with corporate websites is a large part of why Lit's pages make me cringe.
 
Some of us apparently had better management than others. But, of course, it's a universal game to complain about anyone but yourself and assume that the "I" is the only one who knows how to do anything right.
 
Ha. No. My plans aren't that grand. The posts abut 18 will never end, even if Lit reorganizes pages to throw the rule in people's faces when they submit. What I'm hoping for is

OP: 18? WTF?
Hands: <canned post>
OP: Oh. Well that sucks. Ok, thanks.

With a resulting 12% reduction in pointless posts in AH. And remember: if we get rid of ALL the useless posts in AH... we can close the forum.

Wanna bet? Someone who thinks that underage should be accepted by all site will argue with everyone about it all. Right up until they get banned. Then they just come back with an alt and different IP and start over again.

Most don't recognize the privacy aspect of the internet. They believe that everything is free or should be. The think that ownership of a site is meaningless and they can do whatever they want on any site out on the web.

So expect a lot of push back on your canned post.
 
Why the "red flags" list? None of these things get your story rejected on their own. Only number two seems even potentially sinister, and even that's a question of context. I don't think we should be trying to frighten writers away from perfectly acceptable content like historical fiction and fantasy stories by calling them "red flags."
 
Wanna bet? Someone who thinks that underage should be accepted by all site will argue with everyone about it all. Right up until they get banned. Then they just come back with an alt and different IP and start over again.

Most don't recognize the privacy aspect of the internet. They believe that everything is free or should be. The think that ownership of a site is meaningless and they can do whatever they want on any site out on the web.

So expect a lot of push back on your canned post.

Um... I don't read every post in AH and I don't have an alt detector, but I haven't seen any evidence that it's the same person asking the same question over and over. And I haven't seen that many arguments. An OP might try to make folk see reason a few times in the same thread (and who's to blame them) but in the end they all seem to shrug and accept the inevitable.

People are free to push back, but they're pushing on a string. Not a single word said in this forum affects Laurel's decisions. They can knock themselves out. Anyone active in this forum for a couple of months must realise that Hope and Change are not found in AH.

Maybe I just run with an unusual crowd, online and otherwise, but so far I've asked quite a few people here when they first gave it up, and so far two out of a few dozens reported an age of 18+. (One was "not yet"). Even dropping the ones who didn't have a choice, the average age for Lit readers at least seems to be well below 18. I genuinely think the average reaction to the "18" rule is "Seriously?"

At least for the under 30 crowd. You're a dinosaur. Maybe it's different in your world. :)
 
An OP might try to make folk see reason a few times in the same thread (and who's to blame them) but in the end they all seem to shrug and accept the inevitable.

Once they been told the reality that no one on the forum can do a damn thing for them and to take it straight to Laurel, anything after that is no longer reasonable.

That, in fact, may be all a forum member needs to tell them rather than all of that discussion you give that not even I finished reading.

By the way, you have no earthly idea what the average sexual anything is for the Lit. readership and no one else does either.
 
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Why the "red flags" list? None of these things get your story rejected on their own. Only number two seems even potentially sinister, and even that's a question of context. I don't think we should be trying to frighten writers away from perfectly acceptable content like historical fiction and fantasy stories by calling them "red flags."

I thought about leaving it out, but if I didn't list them someone else would have brought them up, and I'm trying to reduce churn by covering all the bases in a single post. cf. the current thread on the topic, where there were quite a few posts discussing the idea that High School is a code word.

And part of it is that I'm still annoyed, months later, that a story about a succubus got bounced. I simply didn't see the rejection coming and if I'd known how aggressively Laurel interprets suggestions of underage, I wouldn't have written the story at all. It seems to me to be a public service to warn people that the only factor that matters is what happens in Laurel's gut when she reads. The 18 rule is not a "characters must be 18" rule. It's a "we are in an alternate universe in which nothing that looks or acts under 18 has explicit sexual experiences" rule, and that covers fantasy characters, historical fiction and all the rest. Might as well say so and save people some effort.

It's possible to skirt the rule, and I'll throw that out there in case this thread gets referenced in future. If you're ambiguous enough about ages and don't get in any way graphic about the sex, the story will generally pass muster. See my https://www.literotica.com/s/chosen-ch-01-1 . It's historical fiction plus a healthy dose of fantasy. If you read the whole thing, you'll run across a character that was kidnapped from an orphanage (albeit rather willingly) in Spain in the 1400s. It becomes apparent that she and her kidnapper were enthusiastically intimate, and sometime thereafter it becomes possible to infer she perhaps wasn't 18 at the time. Because, gosh darn it, Spain in the 1400s wasn't exactly concerned about people being 18. But the story passes muster because it's all sufficiently blurry. It can be done. But when in doubt... ask Laurel first.
 
All right, but for every one succubus story that gets kicked there are 100, 200, however many that have no problem at all. The "red flags" list overstates the problem and makes it sound like every story about losing your virginity in 19th century Paris (or whatever) gets put under a microscope and fined.
 
I have no desire to read stories about underage sex in any form. There are so many other stories that can be written that don't involve those underage.
 
By the way, you have no earthly idea what the average sexual anything is for the Lit. readership and no one else does either.

I know what it is for my small but rather consistent sample size. It's nowhere near large enough to tell me what happens with Lit's millions of readers. And it's certainly biased by the fact that most everyone who contacts me is female and under 40 and likes reluctance stories. But acknowledging the biases, I add and divide as well as most people. I will say that the number usually quoted for the US in general, 17.9, isn't any sort of surprise to me, and I suspect it's lower among female literotica readers.

Honestly I don't much care about the averages across all Lit - it's too big a population to be useful. It's predominantly incest readers if I recall, a population I don't care about. The numbers I get tell me want I want to know about a demographic I write for; good enough for me. Not useful to you.

Whether Lit is a cause or an effect of earlier sexual activity is indeterminate. The US government believes that exposure to erotic material triggers earlier sexual activity in teens, or they did in a 2011 study I ran across recently. So maybe. I don't know how to measure that. Maybe we're corruptive influences. Not me of course, but the rest of you sick pervs, sure.
 
While your intentions are good and actually commendable, you need to do some fine tuning of the way you have expressed some things. This one in particular stands out right off the bat:

1. characters in High school. Not many people in high school in the US are actually 18.

That one is begging for people to start arguing with you. Granted most high schoolers might start their senior year as a seventeen-year-old, pure statistics say that by graduation seventy-five to eighty percent (or more) of them have had their eighteenth birthdays whether those birthdays occurred in October or May or one of the months in between.

Do a simple story tag search of "prom" and you get 5,100+ returns. Prom is pretty much considered a high school thing and usually is a late-in-the-year event, so the credibility of a high school senior being eighteen by prom is rarely an issue. As an author, you would still want to clarify it, but the typical setting and situation with a high school prom is more than fitting and believable as an "over eighteen" storyline. Sure, a story may slip by Laurel's eagle eyes here and there, but more than 5,000 times? Nah!

I would rework your caveat about "first-time" stories also. To me, it reads more as "Don't attempt it" than "Just make sure you clearly meet the over eighteen rule."

As an aside to this entire discussion and the one that spawned it, one the most read and highest rated stories of all time in GM is a multiple-chapter one based on a werewolf in high school. Now if an author can successfully combine high school and borderline bestiality with erotica and meet Laurel's standards, then a blanket discouraging of the setting isn't being honest to those who can follow the basic rules. JMNSHO and YMMV ;)

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This is a privately owned site. All of Literotica is owned and moderated by a single person, who goes by Laurel.

Nitpick: yes for the "moderation" bit, but I was under the impression Manu was a co-owner.

One of the biggest surprises people get on coming here as a writer, is the "18" rule. As the rule is written, no character in a story can be under 18 if they are exposed to sexual situations of any sort.

Correct but misleading. While the written rule in the FAQ does indeed say pretty much that, actual moderation is a bit less stringent. You can acknowledge under-18 sex, you just can't go into erotic detail. Something like "My grandmother was an adventurous young lady, she was pregnant and married at fifteen" is OK.

The under 18 rule is in response to different concerns - but it should be trivially apparent that an actual pedophile story is beyond unacceptable here, and generally anywhere. You'll be banned from the site if you push for this - at least, that's what I'd do.

Mixed messaging. You've correctly stated above that it's the site owner/s who set the rules, wandering into "what I'd do" risks undermining that important point.

(Also, some sites and even mainstream publishers do publish "pedophile stories" so the "and generally anywhere" doesn't really hold, regardless of whether it should.)

Because the interpretation of the rule is (apparently) intended to stop stories from making people think about sex with under 18's, there are a few red flags which may cause your story to get extra scrutiny and a higher chance of rejection:

1. characters in High school. ...

3. Historical setting for stories. ...

5. Fantasy stories.

Do we have evidence that these stories attract extra scrutiny?

High school and historical settings certainly do make it easier for authors to violate the age rule, accidentally or on purpose, but I haven't seen anything to suggest that Laurel is any tougher on these stories than she would be with equivalent content in other genres. The rejection you mention for your fantasy seems like a pretty clear-cut issue with that particular story; it's the same principle as not allowing eighteen-year-olds to be described as looking under-age.

6. First time stories. Statistically speaking, in the US at least, you probably lost your virginity at an age younger than 18. (The average age of first sexual experience was hovering around 17.9 when I last looked).

Stats nitpick: no such thing as unqualified "average age of first sexual experience" for a population that includes virgins. Median perhaps? You could do an average for non-virgins, but that will obviously be misleading since

As Tx said, it might make a good sticky. But no one's going to look at a sticky. I mean, do you ever read the memos from management at work? No.

I do, yeah, because I like to know what's going on. (And I nearly missed out on a promotion a few months back because I missed the relevant memo; fortunately somebody else pointed me to it!)
 
OP, I applaud your efforts, but this is the internet. People want everything, and they want it handed to them freely.

To your canned response, its too long, I got bored with it and I agree with you.

A basic answer, like "the owner wants it this way and its her call" maybe quote the rule as its written, and a link to the writing guidelines. Much more and you will loose the troglodytes.
 
Based on suggestions here, I've cleaned up the text a bit. Especially, the misleading text about red flags is replaced with

Because the interpretation of the rule is (apparently) intended to eliminate stories that lead people to imagine sex with underaged characters, it’s important to be very clear and write carefully in certain settings:

I appreciate the feedback.
 
In my world 'no' means 'no.' Its not a Hillary & Bill kind of no where no can mean anything. And I argue for inclusion when no, no exists. I spent many a day in court pounding the reality that no law or no ordinance prohibited anything...that is the absence of a law ordained nothing restrictive. That said, lawyers try to change the definitions of words. Gotta watch them like hawks.

So when Laurel says 'no underage sex' she includes all its parts and properties and potentials.
 
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