Under the Mistletoe

[lacandy]

With the holidays approaching quickly and the days getting colder, I am missing having that "special someone" to keep me warm. And honestly, just hanging out under the mistletoe waiting for the right one is starting to wear thin...

I have met so many great people here who have become great friends, and I love them all to death. But for some reason, the ones that I want to have more than a friends thing happen (you know...*nudge nudge wink wink*) keep me on the other side of that line. But, the ones that I adore as friends seem to want so much more... I am pretty sure that I am the living definition of IRONY.

Okay, getting to this whole "ad thing"... I've been away from Lit for a bit, working on myself and discovering more about me and what I want (not just sexually, but also in my life). First, I am married with kids. My kids have always been and will always be my first priority. If you want to know more about my marriage, I am sure there are threads all over this place that I have commented on. The bottom line is that I am here until my kids are out of school. We are great roommates and parents, but haven't had that "talk" yet to acknowledge the death of the marriage. So there's that.

I am wanting someone that gets me...someone that wants and desires me...someone that makes me laugh...someone that trusts me and that in turn I can trust. I know that this is Lit, and the internet and all. I am not looking for Prince Charming - okay maybe Prince Kinda Charming with a dash of Prince Bend Me Over and Take Me - and understand that real life is important, but expect respect and common courtesies.

I am smart and witty and love to laugh and joke (I have references if needed ). I tend to run to a more submissive side, but don't necessarily consider myself a "sub" because I just can't trust enough to give up that much power (though it's a goal!). I can be sassy and a bit insecure, and need someone who is willing to work through those things with me.

Wow...reading through this, I'm pretty sure I just repelled every man here! Hahaha...but the truth is the truth. So, if you run to the dominant side, like a touch of sass, and are looking for a challenge - I'm your girl!

 

[firefighterscott]

With the holidays approaching quickly and the days getting colder, I am missing having that "special someone" to keep me warm. And honestly, just hanging out under the mistletoe waiting for the right one is starting to wear thin...

I have met so many great people here who have become great friends, and I love them all to death. But for some reason, the ones that I want to have more than a friends thing happen (you know...*nudge nudge wink wink*) keep me on the other side of that line. But, the ones that I adore as friends seem to want so much more... I am pretty sure that I am the living definition of IRONY.

Okay, getting to this whole "ad thing"... I've been away from Lit for a bit, working on myself and discovering more about me and what I want (not just sexually, but also in my life). First, I am married with kids. My kids have always been and will always be my first priority. If you want to know more about my marriage, I am sure there are threads all over this place that I have commented on. The bottom line is that I am here until my kids are out of school. We are great roommates and parents, but haven't had that "talk" yet to acknowledge the death of the marriage. So there's that.

I am wanting someone that gets me...someone that wants and desires me...someone that makes me laugh...someone that trusts me and that in turn I can trust. I know that this is Lit, and the internet and all. I am not looking for Prince Charming - okay maybe Prince Kinda Charming with a dash of Prince Bend Me Over and Take Me - and understand that real life is important, but expect respect and common courtesies.

I am smart and witty and love to laugh and joke (I have references if needed ). I tend to run to a more submissive side, but don't necessarily consider myself a "sub" because I just can't trust enough to give up that much power (though it's a goal!). I can be sassy and a bit insecure, and need someone who is willing to work through those things with me.

Wow...reading through this, I'm pretty sure I just repelled every man here! Hahaha...but the truth is the truth. So, if you run to the dominant side, like a touch of sass, and are looking for a challenge - I'm your girl!

Welcome back. You just said everything that I have wanted in a woman. Being alone for holidays is a awful feeling and it would be great to have a special person to but a smile on my face and show love. I'd love to chat if your interested.

 

[Ed27R]

With the holidays approaching quickly and the days getting colder, I am missing having that "special someone" to keep me warm. And honestly, just hanging out under the mistletoe waiting for the right one is starting to wear thin...

I have met so many great people here who have become great friends, and I love them all to death. But for some reason, the ones that I want to have more than a friends thing happen (you know...*nudge nudge wink wink*) keep me on the other side of that line. But, the ones that I adore as friends seem to want so much more... I am pretty sure that I am the living definition of IRONY.

Okay, getting to this whole "ad thing"... I've been away from Lit for a bit, working on myself and discovering more about me and what I want (not just sexually, but also in my life). First, I am married with kids. My kids have always been and will always be my first priority. If you want to know more about my marriage, I am sure there are threads all over this place that I have commented on. The bottom line is that I am here until my kids are out of school. We are great roommates and parents, but haven't had that "talk" yet to acknowledge the death of the marriage. So there's that.

I am wanting someone that gets me...someone that wants and desires me...someone that makes me laugh...someone that trusts me and that in turn I can trust. I know that this is Lit, and the internet and all. I am not looking for Prince Charming - okay maybe Prince Kinda Charming with a dash of Prince Bend Me Over and Take Me - and understand that real life is important, but expect respect and common courtesies.

I am smart and witty and love to laugh and joke (I have references if needed ). I tend to run to a more submissive side, but don't necessarily consider myself a "sub" because I just can't trust enough to give up that much power (though it's a goal!). I can be sassy and a bit insecure, and need someone who is willing to work through those things with me.

Wow...reading through this, I'm pretty sure I just repelled every man here! Hahaha...but the truth is the truth. So, if you run to the dominant side, like a touch of sass, and are looking for a challenge - I'm your girl!

Wow. Great post! I wish you nothing but success. There has to be at least one of two Prince Kinda Charmings around here up for the challenge.

 

[lacandy]

Just a quick note...I had to do real life. So the PMs will be answered in a bit. Promise. I won't ignore you.

Kiss!!

 

[allstarhockeynutguy1]

Fantastic post, are you on kik? I would love to chat, I'm also married with kids but happy and occasionally like to explore a little more

 

[hotoldrguy]

With the holidays approaching quickly and the days getting colder, I am missing having that "special someone" to keep me warm. And honestly, just hanging out under the mistletoe waiting for the right one is starting to wear thin...

I have met so many great people here who have become great friends, and I love them all to death. But for some reason, the ones that I want to have more than a friends thing happen (you know...*nudge nudge wink wink*) keep me on the other side of that line. But, the ones that I adore as friends seem to want so much more... I am pretty sure that I am the living definition of IRONY.

Okay, getting to this whole "ad thing"... I've been away from Lit for a bit, working on myself and discovering more about me and what I want (not just sexually, but also in my life). First, I am married with kids. My kids have always been and will always be my first priority. If you want to know more about my marriage, I am sure there are threads all over this place that I have commented on. The bottom line is that I am here until my kids are out of school. We are great roommates and parents, but haven't had that "talk" yet to acknowledge the death of the marriage. So there's that.

I am wanting someone that gets me...someone that wants and desires me...someone that makes me laugh...someone that trusts me and that in turn I can trust. I know that this is Lit, and the internet and all. I am not looking for Prince Charming - okay maybe Prince Kinda Charming with a dash of Prince Bend Me Over and Take Me - and understand that real life is important, but expect respect and common courtesies.

I am smart and witty and love to laugh and joke (I have references if needed ). I tend to run to a more submissive side, but don't necessarily consider myself a "sub" because I just can't trust enough to give up that much power (though it's a goal!). I can be sassy and a bit insecure, and need someone who is willing to work through those things with me.

Wow...reading through this, I'm pretty sure I just repelled every man here! Hahaha...but the truth is the truth. So, if you run to the dominant side, like a touch of sass, and are looking for a challenge - I'm your girl!

It is good to see you back posting. I have missed seeing you on the threads. I hope you get all that you desire.

 

[RickTango]

Lacandy

Great to see you back, and under a mistletoe no less.


Smmooches,

So where does one sign up for tryouts?

 

[ab724u]

Lacandy. I must say I understood your post at every aspect. Really the same predicament here. Not sure geographically or timeline impacts, but one never knows without trying or asking, right? So, here I am. Look forward to a reaponse if you schooae to do so. Eirther way, I do hope you find what you are looking for and get that which you deserve for yourself.

 

[lacandy]

Lacandy

Great to see you back, and under a mistletoe no less.


Smmooches,

So where does one sign up for tryouts?

Tryouts for Prince Kinda Charmin will be held privately. Please be prepared to spend some time on the casting couch.

 

[lacandy]

It is good to see you back posting. I have missed seeing you on the threads. I hope you get all that you desire.

Thanks darling! *fingers crossed*

 

[lacandy]

One thing that I forgot to mention is that I am a complete techtard.

I am not on Kik because I tried on time and someone from my real life popped on and said, "HI". I panicked and deleted the app immediately. To this day I don't know if he knew it was me or not.

Skype is a maybe if I can figure it out if we connect.

I am lucky to get any kind of messaging app up and going. (Seriously, I have references for this one too!).

So patience is required for me to get comfortable with something before I put it on my phone again...but I am TOTALLY worth the wait

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Hola, chica...
Sorry you're still having marital strife.
I hope everything works out for you. Good luck with this..lol . Given you're still married you'll have waaaaaaaay better success than I did.. LMAO!

(Hugs) for Christmas and a bump for you .

 

[lacandy]

Hola, chica...
Sorry you're still having marital strife.
I hope everything works out for you. Good luck with this..lol . Given you're still married you'll have waaaaaaaay better success than I did.. LMAO!

(Hugs) for Christmas and a bump for you .

Thanks sweetie.

Life is what it is. We all get through.

Yeah, the real life thing is harder than keeping the online side. I know that you will find your Prince Kinda Charming though because you are awesome!

Big hugs back!