Under Represented Aspects of BDSM Play

[PandemicReader8]

I'm plotting out the remaining chapters of my first story arc and I'm curious, what bits or pieces of BDSM play does the group feel aren't well represented in the category?

 

[EmilyMiller]

I write BDSM, but seldom read it as few authors seem to embrace my highly-consensual and non-humiliating take on it,

Love the Greek strap line BTW .

Em

 

[nice90sguy]

highly-consensual and non-humiliating

Wow, talk about perverted...

 

[EmilyMiller]

Wow, talk about perverted...

I know - sick, right?

I think BDSM is maybe a misnomer for my stuff. More restrained impact play and restrained [group] sex. So B and maybe M, but not so much D and S.

Em

 

[Abdelkaoolomocro]

Trampling, group humiliation

 

[Euphony]

I'm plotting out the remaining chapters of my first story arc and I'm curious, what bits or pieces of BDSM play does the group feel aren't well represented in the category?

Negotiations. Too many partners have all perfectly aligned "green lights" paired with a clairvoyance that would make Professor Xavier blush.

 

[Kumquatqueen]

Negotiation. Aftercare. Safewording.
SM, as opposed to DS.
Any level of realism...

 

[PandemicReader8]

First, excellent, thank you!
Second, bonus points for the comic reference!

 

[Euphony]

Any level of realism...

What, "hey, it could happen" not doing it for you anymore?

 

[EmilyMiller]

Negotiations. Too many partners have all perfectly aligned "green lights" paired with a clairvoyance that would make Professor Xavier blush.

I conceived of a telepathic alien who could discern my limits and go right up to them.

Then the story turned into musings about commitment and consent. And horse sex, mustn’t forget the horse sex.

Em

 

[Jackie.Hikaru]

Negotiation. Aftercare. Safewording.
SM, as opposed to DS.
Any level of realism...

Aftercare imo is very underrepresented and underrated in bdsm lit.
I think it's an amazing moment to showcase the bond between the pair.

 

[EmilyMiller]

Aftercare imo is very underrepresented and underrated in bdsm lit.
I think it's an amazing moment to showcase the bond between the pair.

Agree 100%.

Em

 

[Euphony]

I conceived of a telepathic alien who could discern my limits and go right up to them.

Then the story turned into musings about commitment and consent. And horse sex, mustn’t forget the horse sex.

Em

A horse is a horse, of course, of course,
And no one should schtoop with a horse of course
That is, of course, unless the horse was penned by the famous Mrs. Em.

 

[EmilyMiller]

A horse is a horse, of course, of course,
And no one should schtoop with a horse of course
That is, of course, unless the horse was penned by the famous Mrs. Em.

View attachment 2289616

As this is Lit (and me) it wasn’t an actual horse. Shape-shifting and gender-morphing aliens can be such fun

 

[Euphony]

Aftercare imo is very underrepresented and underrated in bdsm lit.
I think it's an amazing moment to showcase the bond between the pair.

It shouldn't even need an outlier sexual experience but it seems relegated to those types of couplings RN.

It's an easy enough emotional amplifier I don't think complexity (there if you want it but not a floor necessity) is what's icing it out.

Should be featured more in all categories but if BDSM is where we get a foothold, so be it.

 

[Euphony]

Shape-shifting and gender-morphing aliens can be such fun

If you haven't fucked solely by Echolocation, have you ever even really fucked?

 

[EmilyMiller]

If you haven't fucked solely by Echolocation, have you ever even really fucked?

View attachment 2289620

Wow! Did not think of that…

 

[Euphony]

Wow! Did not think of that…

I want my two dollars.

 

[onehitwanda]

what bits or pieces of BDSM play does the group feel aren't well represented in the category?

Tort Law and Vogon poetry.

 

[alohadave]

I want my two dollars.

It's an older reference but it checks out.

 

[PandemicReader8]

Tort Law and Vogon poetry.

I can do Vorlon poetry and Gorean law, if that's acceptable.

 

[onehitwanda]

If you haven't fucked solely by Echolocation, have you ever even really fucked?

Dolphins really are the most deviant little fuckers of the animal kingdom.

https://media.tenor.com/6m-nZtz8yicAAAAC/naughty-dolphin-dolphin-queen.gif

 

[PandemicReader8]

What, "hey, it could happen" not doing it for you anymore?

"Could happen" is a semi-truck to the suspension of disbelief.

 

[Euphony]

Dolphins really are the most deviant little fuckers of the animal kingdom.

https://media.tenor.com/6m-nZtz8yicAAAAC/naughty-dolphin-dolphin-queen.gif

ABSOLUTELY ONE F*CKING .

 

[EmilyMiller]

It's an older reference but it checks out.

Here we go again…

Em