I don't know if this falls in the category of "ultra-sensitive" but my wife does not like her clit to be touch directly. When I am enjoying her sweetness, it is important that I lick and suck all around it, not directly. Keeping her very wet and slippery is also very important.
None of this is a problem. It also results in thunderous orgasms.
I don't know about "ultra" but if I have an orgasm clitorally, it will be very sensitive for the rest of the day. It doesn't even need to be touched anymore and I could get off again. At any rate, it's not so sensitive to the point I can't have it touched! In fact, I love having it touched! LoL. I've had stronger orgasms from clitoral stimulation alone than with vaginal penetration!
WOAH! Tiggs, I have just spent the past 30 minutes trying to come up with the right reply to your post!! Admittedly, I am at a loss for words! (maybe I will just have to take you up on your offer!)
Mr Neb: yes that was what I meant. Thank you SO much for sharing. That really helped a lot! How do you bring her to orgasm though, just by licking and sucking "around" it?
Thanks again...
My current companion has much the same problem as Mr. Neb's wife.....we have solved the problem by using the "surround and suck" method (she calls it) in which I simply never touch her clit at all, except in the very final throes of her orgasm, but only surround it with an open-mouthed "O" and suck in and out in varying rhythms....it works for her and she is not so incredibly sore afterwards (Yes, Tiggs, there are others out there whose clits DO get very, very sensitive after being manipulated, etc.)
You might want to give this a try.....and, of course, I would be remiss if I did not offer my own personal services in the first experiment.
Banging away at the clit with tongue, lips, or any other body part soon results in a temporary deadening of the nerve tissue. Same with the glans on a penis. However, I have gone down on a woman who screamed in little sharp cries the very first time I even touched the tip of my tongue on her pearly clit. This was after some effort on my part licking her petal-like vaginal lips and sucking them gently into my mouth. Perhaps she was simply aroused so much that when I took her hooded clit between my teeth and nibbled she thrashed around the bed--while at the same time closing her legs and pulling my head down for more stimulating pressure on her love button.
OW... ouch!
I am tightly closing my legs just thinking about that!! OW!
My husband read this thread and he is laughing at me agreeing with some of you b/c he claims that I am so sensitive that he can't even get "near" that button, but I don't know b/c I can't ever see what he is doing.
ok, I must say something. I was not endowed with a normal clit. <pout> as it is, my clit is extremely small and extremely sensitive. I love to have my husband go down on me, but when he does, I have to make him stop because he centers himself on my clit. And it hurts. Now regular fnger stimulation doesn't hurt nearly as much, but it doesn't do much either. So mostly I have to use the old G-spot method of getting off.