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[SandDollar78]

I had been here on and off for years - met friends, had longer term connections and short term bursts. Equal parts frustrating and amazing, Literotica has been an excellent sexual outlet for years. A bit back, I pushed it all aside and tried to give the good husband thing a 100% concerted effort.

I'm 43, good looking, smart, and a professional. My wife is the same, but after going to the well multiple times and trying to make it work, I have come to the realization the sexual connection is just never going to get to the heights I seek. I tried, with everything I had.

So I am here. A realist in life, and knowing that on this board are like minded women. Women who have given their husbands their all and just not had all the pieces fit in terms of satisfaction. Such is life. If you're like me, and know that you will not get divorced for a myriad of reasons, then maybe we should talk.

I want adventure, boundary pushing, sharing, and a connection above all. Two people with respect for other's situations (discreetness a necessary), but who click in all the ways that we don't with our significant others.

I have carved out a good life, and am thankful for that - but I want more, I want that missing piece, and that is where you come in. I am looking for a like-minded woman (obviously) - someone intelligent, professional, and knows what they want, while always wanting to be surprised and engaged.

Mentioned above general details - but I would like to find someone open to chat here or on a messenger, and open to voice (Skype, or whatever works). Who knows beyond that, no doors are closed for me, and none are expected to be open either.

If the above resonates, reach out.

 

[SandDollar78]

Sending this one up for the morning people - if interested, I am around today.

 

[LTMMC]

Sending this one up for the morning people - if interested, I am around today.

it seems to me, Sand Dollar, with aims as ambitious as yours, you cannot expect them getting achieved within a few hours.

Don't misunderstand my comment: your aims are fine, but they are more than audacious as I interpret them. Because that woman you search for is a very special gem stone or a unicorn, and you should know that unicorns do not grow on trees.

But you have my sincere wishes for the best of luck for you!

 

[filt]

Unicorns don’t grow on trees?

Trees are shit. I want unicorns and money and a tree provides me neither.

Good luck with the search, Sand Dollar. May the force be with you and all that caper.

 

[jenai88]

I had been here on and off for years - met friends, had longer term connections and short term bursts. Equal parts frustrating and amazing, Literotica has been an excellent sexual outlet for years. A bit back, I pushed it all aside and tried to give the good husband thing a 100% concerted effort.

I'm 43, good looking, smart, and a professional. My wife is the same, but after going to the well multiple times and trying to make it work, I have come to the realization the sexual connection is just never going to get to the heights I seek. I tried, with everything I had.

So I am here. A realist in life...

I want adventure, boundary pushing, sharing, and a connection above all. Two people with respect for other's situations (discreetness a necessary), but who click in all the ways that we don't with our significant others.

I have carved out a good life, and am thankful for that - but I want more, I want that missing piece.

Wanted to stop in the say I can empathize with your situation. I think there is room for realism in understanding a spouses position on intimacy and respecting their limitations. Moving forward in your determined desires to reach for the connection you seek...yearn for ... that matches your innate desires ... that beats to that drummer pulsating within. Life is too short to exist in unfulfillment.

J.