Trying to understand being a sub......

[Angelofsex]

I am new posting here. When I first jump into being a sub, I didn't read anything up on in, just when into it blind. A master I did have once, being not his faught I left him, figuring I wasn't cut out to be a sub.

Well I am reading more, posted in MissTaken's thread in personels and I want to learn more..

Just wanted to introduce myself, and tell you my little time as a sub, before learning anything on it.

 

[MissTaken]

Welcome, angel

You have come to the right place to explore BDSM.

I would suggest you take a look at some of the threads we have up and ask questions as they pop up.

Don't worry about us.

It is mandatory to leave all floggers checked in the lobby!



Have a good time!

 

[Angelofsex]

Welcome, angel

You have come to the right place to explore BDSM.

I would suggest you take a look at some of the threads we have up and ask questions as they pop up.

Don't worry about us.

It is mandatory to leave all floggers checked in the lobby!



Have a good time!

Thank you MissTaken..I shall read the threads.

 

[Ghost's amaris]

Welcome Angelofsex,

I hope you find everything helpful and people helpful. I have so far.

I hope to read more of your thoughts and maybe learn from questions you ask as well as learning from what knowledge you already have.

Ghost's amaris

 

[artful]

I am new posting here. When I first jump into being a sub, I didn't read anything up on in, just when into it blind. A master I did have once, being not his faught I left him, figuring I wasn't cut out to be a sub.

Well I am reading more, posted in MissTaken's thread in personels and I want to learn more..

Just wanted to introduce myself, and tell you my little time as a sub, before learning anything on it.

For those who don't know her,...let me make a statement that I rarely make. Angel is my lifelong friend,...I can say that easily. Why ? You might ask,...because I *KNOW* her.-'Nuff said!

Welcome to the Forum baby,...it is where you will find MANY answers to the questions you have.

 

[Angelofsex]

Re: Re: Trying to understand being a sub......

For those who don't know her,...let me make a statement that I rarely make. Angel is my lifelong friend,...I can say that easily. Why ? You might ask,...because I *KNOW* her.-'Nuff said!

Welcome to the Forum baby,...it is where you will find MANY answers to the questions you have.

Thank you Sir for the welcome. ( As a friend, thank you art, I feel I will learn alot as I go along)

 

[Angelofsex]

Welcome Angelofsex,

I hope you find everything helpful and people helpful. I have so far.

I hope to read more of your thoughts and maybe learn from questions you ask as well as learning from what knowledge you already have.

Ghost's amaris

Thank you very much....In time I will know who I shall address in the right way.....Questions I will have.

 

[~Dream~]

Hi there SexySis!!

Much love to you as you continue on your Journey through submission,it is a wonderful path that we are on sweety ,full of lots of nice surprises and I love you very much and hope you find lots of helpful info that you seek sweety,as Master said we know Angel very well and she is one of the sweetest people in all of Literotica,I owe my happiness I feel in my heart today to her,for it was her who introduced me to my Master,I'll always love her for that as well as tons of other things including her honest ,open,caring ,SINCERE,heart... ~ Welcome love!!! x12

Your Sis,~Dream~

 

[artful]

Angel

We have no protocols of addressment in this Forum,...please call me Art,...and all others by their ID,...or a shortened form of it. There are NO needs for Sirs, Madames, Mistresses, Masters, or any such thing.

 

[Angelofsex]

Re: Angel

We have no protocols of addressment in this Forum,...please call me Art,...and all others by their ID,...or a shortened form of it. There are NO needs for Sirs, Madames, Mistresses, Masters, or any such thing.

Well now I learn something now......thanks Art.

 

[Angelofsex]

Re: Hi there SexySis!!

Much love to you as you continue on your Journey through submission,it is a wonderful path that we are on sweety ,full of lots of nice surprises and I love you very much and hope you find lots of helpful info that you seek sweety,as Master said we know Angel very well and she is one of the sweetest people in all of Literotica,I owe my happiness I feel in my heart today to her,for it was her who introduced me to my Master,I'll always love her for that as well as tons of other things including her honest ,open,caring ,SINCERE,heart... ~ Welcome love!!! x12

Your Sis,~Dream~

Dream my sister, I love you very much. Thank you for the love, the warmth, and wonderful welcome.You know my true feelings for you and art.

 

[Desdemona]

Welcome Angel. Good luck on your journey. We're all learning together. I'm des.

 

[Angelofsex]

Welcome Angel. Good luck on your journey. We're all learning together. I'm des.

Hi des, nice to meet you.....Thank you for your welcome.

 

[plzur her]

I am new posting here. When I first jump into being a sub, I didn't read anything up on in, just when into it blind. A master I did have once, being not his faught I left him, figuring I wasn't cut out to be a sub.

Well I am reading more, posted in MissTaken's thread in personels and I want to learn more..

Just wanted to introduce myself, and tell you my little time as a sub, before learning anything on it.

Dropped you a PM. Let me know if you want to chat more!

 

[SexyChele]

Angel! Welcome! I truly am glad that you found your way here. Ask away or simply comment on what you read. I do think you will make friends here very easily.

 

[Angelofsex]

Re: Re: Trying to understand being a sub......

Dropped you a PM. Let me know if you want to chat more!

Thank you plzur her very much.

 

[Angelofsex]

Angel! Welcome! I truly am glad that you found your way here. Ask away or simply comment on what you read. I do think you will make friends here very easily.

Chele thank you hon very much......glad I came here too......All ready feel lucky here with the friends I have here , and the ones I will meet.

 

[Mr Wolf]

Hi Angel, glad to see you have found your way over here. Now you can see for yourself that we don't bite, well not unless asked to!!!

 

[cellis]

Hi Angel!

I was wondering when you would make your way over here...

Welcome!

 

[Angelofsex]

Hi Angel, glad to see you have found your way over here. Now you can see for yourself that we don't bite, well not unless asked to!!!

Thank you Mr Wolf, well biting may be good. I am glad to be here.

 

[Angelofsex]

Hi Angel!

I was wondering when you would make your way over here...

Welcome!

Thank you cellis for the nice welcome.

 

[moonstruck3774]

Hi Angel,
Thanks for your post. I 'peeked' in on your thread and hopeing to maybe pick up some information myself. I too am newly meeting my 'sub' self and hope to learn from folks here and meet and greet other subs and Doms.

 

[Red Menace]

Oh yay! More victi... I mean subbies.

Hiya and welcome. You can call me Red.

 

[~Dream~]

Red:

I SAW that post!! lol Welcome Moon ,hope you find the info you are seeking,I have currently been exploring the web myself as well as this forum for more information on BDSM.... Hope my Angel Sis is getting Her questions answered also?

ya know I am here for you sweety..

 

[artful]

I found MissT's post on another thread,...

...but I thought,...what the hey,...it belongs here also. I hope you don't mind me copying and pasting it here MissT.

I think that once we find D/s, we find ourselves so drawn to it, needing it ,
longing to experience it that we want to move forward with a steam roller.

Patience is key.
As with any relationship, any kind of relationship, it takes time and energy to find
the right partner, whether in D/s , vanilla, business or friendship.

Castlrealm has a great article on patience.

I would suggest anyone looking for a Dom/me or sub:

A) YOU must know yourself first. What are your needs and desires? What do you
bring ot a potential partner? This requires questions and answers, research into
the lifestyle. Making friends in the lifestyle who can help guide you can be most
helpful. This forum has been great for htat for many.

B) YOu must trust yourself FIRST. Too many stories, my own included, have hit
on the issue of misplaced trust. I realize now it was my judgment that was
skewed and can't blame the fools who stepped on my trust.

C) Be real. What are the parameters to your search? Are you looking for on line
relationships? Real time? If real time, can you relocate? What abotu things like
employment and kids? Consider the whole picture, not just your drive to have that
special someone, but can it work in the real multi dimensional world?

D) Peruse ads. Get comfie with a personals site or forum. When you feel you can
recognize the players from the serious seekers, then stick a TOE in ! Dont' jump in
head first.

E) Patience!!!!!

All good things happen to those who wait.
Or as with Dream, they just happen!

Trying to place that longing on the back burner while you conduct a responsible
search into yourself and then your search for a partner will pay off a hundred fold!

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