Trying to help those new to Bisex

[bi2rivers]

Just a note to the bi curious out there. It's wonderful your thinking about making the move to see how it is with another man. It can be awesome when your both into what the other is but take this to heart. Be very careful when talking to someone. Get to know the person as much as you can. Sadly there are those out there who prey on others and the news is full of people who have been hurt through others who have nothing better to do. I have come close a couple of times. At the last minute they tipped their hand before the meeting took place. I was taught by a very close friend a few years back and have met one other online but only after we chatted for quite some time. Hope this helps in some way and not frightens you off. We only have one life so lets do it right and get some great times out of it. Good luck finding a great and trusting contact!! There ARE trusting people on here!!

 

[blueblaze8503]

I'm new to the bisexual or bicurious side of myself. I haven't yet done anything with another man but I have fantasies about it all the time.. Its gotten to the point to were I'm not having any sort of attraction to women because I'm so side tracked about wanting to be sexual with another man. I live in a small town so I doubt I'll ever actually have the opportunity but I'm hopeful!

 

[bi2rivers]

small towns

Small towns can be extra tough to meet someone with the same interests. It's so very important to be discreet and careful or you could be ruined but at the same time you may be surprised who might be there also. I found a Dr. in town on a chat program once and he had a lot to lose!! We got together a couple times and it was great but he was the exception. Keep looking and you may find someone close.

 

[klippert]

I still thing Squirt dot org is a great way to meet.... if your looking for another man

 

[bi2rivers]

thanks

Now that I have some time off work. Guess I'll check it out. Thanks

 

[wonderingdude]

HI folks.

 

[Stella_Omega]

What about fetlife.com?

 

[sarod]

There was recently a guy I knew, my friends ex lover, who went out and spread aids to 20 or more people on purpose because he was mad that he had gotten aids. He is now in prison for I don't know how many charges of attempted murder and who knows what else, and he will probably die there! Please be very wary of casual sex encounters. I used to want one, but now, I'm thinking of playing it safe! Casual encounters are more than likely going to guarantee Hiv or herpes or whatever else is out there, this is what my friends ex did, was meet people he didn't know, and he purposely condemned them to death because he was angry that he had aids, so he was going to take as many people down with him as he could! My friend stopped the relationship with him about 7 or 8 years ago, so hopefully he doesn't have aids, but I have heard it can lay dormant for years before you show any symptoms. Be careful about any online service that can get you a one night hump and pump! They are strangers with candy, but their candy may be poison! I personally want a straight clean friend who I have known for a while who would be open to casually exchanging bi sexual blows with me while hanging out as friends the rest of the time. Then I would know he was clean, or at least the odds would be greater than hooking it with a stranger. You don't ever know where a strangers penis has been!

I still thing Squirt dot org is a great way to meet.... if your looking for another man

 

[Stella_Omega]

Sarod-- straight men can get AIDS too. Women can get AIDS. Some of the very first deaths were women.

USE CONDOMS. EVEN with your boyfriend. Get both of you tested, WAIT ONE YEAR, get tested again.

Use condoms for BJ's too, for casual sex. Learn to love the smell of latex. Keep yourself safe and you will also keep your fuckbuddies safe.

We've been talking about safe sex for thirty years now, where the hell have you been? We don't want you to die!