try it dry?

[skitch]

There once was a fly crossing a foggy pond. The fly thought to himself, if i drop 6 inches i can fly across the pond out of the fog. There was a frog on a lily pad at the other end of the pond who was watching the fly and thought to himself, "If that fly drops six inches i'm going to have him for supper." A bass was swimming under the frog and thought, "If that fly drops six inches and the frog goes for the fly, I'll eat the frog for supper." A bear was sitting at the edge of the pond and thought, "If that fly drops 6 inches, and the frog goes for the fly, and the bass goes after the frog...I'll eat the bass and have supper." A man was sitting on a stool across the pond and thought, "if that fly drops 6 inches, and the frog eats the fly, the bass eats the frog and the bear eats the frog..I'll shoot the bear and have him for supper." A mouse was just below the man and thought, "if that fly drops 6 inches, the frog goes after the fly, the bass goes after the frog, the bear goes after the bass, and the man shoots the bear...I'll grab the cheese from his sandwich and have supper." A cat had been watching the whole affair, and thought.."if that fly drops 6 inches, the frog eats the fly, the bass eats the frog, the bear eats the bass, the man shoots the bear, and the mouse goes after the cheese..I'll pounce on the mouse and have supper." Well, the fly dropped 6 inches and sure enough the frog ate the fly, the bass at the frog, the bear at the bass, the man shot the bear, the mouse went for the cheese. But as the cat went after the mouse he missed and fell in the pond. The moral for this story....everytime a fly drops 6 inches, you'll get a wet pussy.

this is my first post and I wanted to start with a smile LOL I do however have a question. I'm a 19y/o college guy, and have just recently heard the term 'dry sex' I had to have my new g/f tell me what it was. She's not ready for intercourse yet, but said she'd do dry sex. I was just wondering if anyone else had tried it and what their opinions of it are. Thanks.

 

[Cheyenne]

Am I that old and out of date? Tell me what "dry sex" is and then I'll give you my opinion of it. So far, I don't think I like even the sound of it.

 

[Rasputin]

Cheyenne...I believe it is going through the motions so to speak without taking your clothes off completely. Basically a lot of rubbing and fondling, but no penetration or exchange of bodily fluids...but who knows..I personally would rather have wet sex...the wetter the better!!!

 

[skitch]

LOL yeah it's was Rasputin said. It's basically getting down into just underwear and rubbing together as you would otherwise...i completely agree tho....I think i'd rather have it wet...but hey, i'm not one to try to make her do something she doesn't want to....just wondering if anyone has tried it and if so, what they thought of it...

 

[Flagg]

Oh THAT'S what you mean by "dry sex"!! I was going to suggest you read Still Love but it may not be your cup of tea after all.

 

[Cheyenne]

Nope

Haven't tried it and still don't like the sound of it now that I know what it is.

I'm thinking the chances of that underwear staying on for very long once you start the "rubbing" are slim to none. And if you didn't "plan" for it to happen, there's a lot worse things that can happen to you besides losing your virginity. I'd tell your girlfriend to think again.

 

[Rasputin]

Cheyenne is correct...dry sex should only be considered a form of foreplay...not as alternative for the real thing. The panties just don't seem to want to stay on once things start heating up. And if they don't come off they get pulled to the side and then it is all over I tell ya. But if she is not ready...this is not a good alternative.

 

[Wraith]

I had "dry sex" when I was about 16. Sure it was fun and rather pleasurable but...it leaves you with a feeling of being unfinished and wanting more. It was a first time for both of us and we were afraid that pregnancy might result with "real" sex so we dicided it would be safer.
Fortunatly fear overcame those desires until we both became more comfortable with each other and learned about condums and all that good stuff.
In the end it might just be better to wait...no sence getting worked up over something you can't really have.

 

[Armand]

been there, done that... agree with Wraith

 

[dancinvixen]

dry humping??

umm Skitch????? Are you refering to dry humping??? Cause if not, I would strongly recommend not having dry sex. It hurts just too damn much. It really does, and it doesn't just hurt the woman. The reason a man and a woman fit so well together is because the woman produces fluids, that help the man ease into her body, without those fluids, the man can also get himself injured. (just thought you should know)

 

[skitch]

no worries

dancinvixen....i surely intend on having sex with her while she's wet!! lol i don't like pain that much either and i'm sure she doesn't lol but we were talking about like rubbing and such with only the undergarments on. I totally agree that it'll probably lead to sex, but hey, if she wants to slow the process, that's fine with me. I'll just keep my eye on the prize (er..so to speak) Thanks everyone for their comments....

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

Ok if the term dry sex means going through the motions but no actual intercourse or oral sex what fun is that??????
Anyone?????
I have never heard of this.

Bonnie

 

[dancinvixen]

Bonnie, it's called "dry-humping". Basically, you go through all the motions of having sex, but you leave at least the underwear on. It is supposed to get both parties incredibly turned on. And surprisingly, it really does feel good. Just don't try having actual intercourse dry though. OUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

Thanks for telling me but I think I would pefer the real thing. I don't think I could ontain myself lol

Bonnie

 

[Weinergirl]

I think it's a pretty good alternative when intercourse is a no-no for health reasons (like that sex week waiting period after you have kids); or you're a guilt ridden horny teenage girl(momentary I assure you); or you're an equally horny guy who promised his mother if she let his g/f sleep over they would definitely not have sex in her house. Not on that occassion but several times in several rooms since; we know we're sick blah blah blah.

Actually we've a only dry humped a couple of times lately but it was a teasing/drive each other crazy kind of foreplay thing.
Warning warning warning-sometimes that's just asking for blue balls. Proceed with caution.

Be safe and have fun
that's just what I think...
Wg

 

[*Eve*]

I think I prefer the old fashioned term of humping.