MMM_wms
Really Really Experienced
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- Dec 4, 2019
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What I’ve been missing most, since conjugal sex came to an end in my life, is the tenderness that used to be there “filling the air”, sort of. So when I look for a mail companion now, a similar kind of tenderness is high on my agenda.
Because the mail exchange I search for, is meant to restore some important aspects of my former life. And the mail partner I have in mind is a woman in my kind of situation: longing to give and receive “things” that have disappeared from her life as well.
Exactly how we accomplish this together, is not so important; what matters more is that YOU, a woman with as much longing in your heart as mine, see such a restoration as the primary aim of our mails also. We can impart tenderness on one another by fantasizing about love-making, but we can also do it in myriads of other ways. When you help me forget a worry I had before your mail arrived, I see that as a gesture of tenderness. Same when I brighten up your day with a tune on youtube, for instance.
Of course we have to resonate a bit with each other, otherwise all this will not work. But I claim the amount of harmony we need is not enormous. Curiosity, openness, honesty, intelligence, maybe sapiosexual leanings on both sides, an ability to listen and to express ourselves …. that’s about all we need from one another, IMHO. In addition to sensing each other arousing our libido, of course.
In case my ad touched your soul enough to wet your appetite, you ought to PM me back I believe.
Because the mail exchange I search for, is meant to restore some important aspects of my former life. And the mail partner I have in mind is a woman in my kind of situation: longing to give and receive “things” that have disappeared from her life as well.
Exactly how we accomplish this together, is not so important; what matters more is that YOU, a woman with as much longing in your heart as mine, see such a restoration as the primary aim of our mails also. We can impart tenderness on one another by fantasizing about love-making, but we can also do it in myriads of other ways. When you help me forget a worry I had before your mail arrived, I see that as a gesture of tenderness. Same when I brighten up your day with a tune on youtube, for instance.
Of course we have to resonate a bit with each other, otherwise all this will not work. But I claim the amount of harmony we need is not enormous. Curiosity, openness, honesty, intelligence, maybe sapiosexual leanings on both sides, an ability to listen and to express ourselves …. that’s about all we need from one another, IMHO. In addition to sensing each other arousing our libido, of course.
In case my ad touched your soul enough to wet your appetite, you ought to PM me back I believe.
