Your_enigmatic_escape
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- Aug 2, 2025
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Greetings to the ladies,
It’s been a couple of years since I left lit town, but like many here, daydreams of what could be have brought me back.
Upon reading your first impression may be that I’m shallow, but hear me out, and I hope your opinion will change. I’m looking for a woman who is interested primarily in a mental connection when it comes to me.
Here’s where the opposite comes into play…I desire a physical connection first with the woman I seek. Pretty face and nice legs especially.
I could lie and say “oh yes, nothing but a mental connection for me” but that’s not who I am, I feel you should be aware of that up front.
I also want to assure you of two things:
1) That while the physical is first for me I am extremely interested in your personality and getting to know you. I hope you are friendly, kind, intelligent , and genuinely enjoy conversation along with getting to know me. Again, please note I really do want to get to know you.
2) while I want to be physically attracted to you I want you to understand that I will not, and have not the desire to jump straight into anything “naughty” ….it’s a a turn off, if I don’t feel a connection. Anything worth having is worth the wait. Don’t believe me? Test me.
I’m 50 and married. (Details in my profile) I can’t explain why I have to be visually stimulated before the mental connection comes into play, but it’s just how I’m built. I ask that you don’t let that ruin your opinion of me, I’m respectful, a great listener, and moderately intelligent.
I’m discreet, have had long term friends before, and desire nothing offline. I’m a regular guy stuck in his situation, trying find something nice and make the best of things.
If you would like to experiment and see if opposites can come together here, please send me a DM. Thanks for reading!
It’s been a couple of years since I left lit town, but like many here, daydreams of what could be have brought me back.
Upon reading your first impression may be that I’m shallow, but hear me out, and I hope your opinion will change. I’m looking for a woman who is interested primarily in a mental connection when it comes to me.
Here’s where the opposite comes into play…I desire a physical connection first with the woman I seek. Pretty face and nice legs especially.
I could lie and say “oh yes, nothing but a mental connection for me” but that’s not who I am, I feel you should be aware of that up front.
I also want to assure you of two things:
1) That while the physical is first for me I am extremely interested in your personality and getting to know you. I hope you are friendly, kind, intelligent , and genuinely enjoy conversation along with getting to know me. Again, please note I really do want to get to know you.
2) while I want to be physically attracted to you I want you to understand that I will not, and have not the desire to jump straight into anything “naughty” ….it’s a a turn off, if I don’t feel a connection. Anything worth having is worth the wait. Don’t believe me? Test me.
I’m 50 and married. (Details in my profile) I can’t explain why I have to be visually stimulated before the mental connection comes into play, but it’s just how I’m built. I ask that you don’t let that ruin your opinion of me, I’m respectful, a great listener, and moderately intelligent.
I’m discreet, have had long term friends before, and desire nothing offline. I’m a regular guy stuck in his situation, trying find something nice and make the best of things.If you would like to experiment and see if opposites can come together here, please send me a DM. Thanks for reading!
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