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Why you might not get help from the law or justice system with marital rape, in Christian Land
Anonymous “Biblical Gender Roles” blogger, 2015
7/ 28/ 2015
Argued that Christian husbands needn’t “pay for the milk when they own the cow.” Claimed in a follow-up post he wasn’t advocating for men to “force themselves physically” on their wives, only that they could certainly have sex with them even if they weren’t in the mood. Whatever one would call that. And just in case we weren’t clear, followed it up in July of this year: “t is IMPOSSIBLE Biblically speaking for a man to rape his wife. Abuse? Yes. Rape? No.”
http://jezebel.com/a-brief-overview-of-dudes-who-are-pretty-sure-you-cant-1720562022
Cognitive dissonance of the author that has posted articles on the website,
Biblical Gender Roles
If marital rape is allowed by the Bible, why does he condemn it?
Rape culture of conservative Christian marriages ?
"If BGR says he doesn’t endorse violence or rape, that’s only because moral progress has influenced his thinking to the point where he glimpses, dimly, the awfulness of the belief system he professes. But it hasn’t influenced him enough for him to do the right thing and reject it entirely as the misogynist atrocity it is."
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/daylightatheism/2015/06/marital-rape-in-the-bible/
"Last BGR for a while. His writings just infuriate me even worse than Michael Pearl’s. Here he’s answering the criticism of a Men’s Rights Activist (MRA) over his last piece we quoted here on how to enjoy sex with a wife that will not cooperate the way you like. The MRA man said that BGR and other Christian Beta Men (his words, not mine) failed to use appropriate ‘dread’ in getting sex from their wives. BGR goes on to explain that dread shouldn’t be used, but straight up fear should be used."
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/nolongerquivering/2015/10/quoting-quiverfull-your-wife-should-fear-you/
Rationalizing rape in marriage ?
Biblical Gender Role's advice-
Do not look at your wife's face as you are raping her, and concentrate on your own physical pleasure, because you might to see something that would not match what you want to see ?
He might see something in her face, her eyes, that shows she is experiencing the pain of rape ?
"I know you love your wife, most men love their wives. But sin is ugly. Your beautiful bride’s face becomes ugly during this sinful time that she is grudgingly giving you sex as she grimaces wanting you to “just hurry up and get it over with”.
So like the men who could not look at Medusa’s face otherwise they would be killed, realize that if you look on your wife’s face when she is displaying a sinful attitude toward sex it will kill your sexual pleasure and may actually make it much more difficult for you to achieve the physical connection and release that you need. Again you know you want that emotional connection too, but your wife is the one who is in sinful rebellion against God’s design for sex in your marriage and is refusing to emotionally connect with you."
- Bibical Gender Roles
According to Bibical Gender Roles, a wife should cooperate with her rapist, and fake enjoyment of her rape, in order to make it better for him.
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/nolong...our-body-to-turn-on-or-just-fake-that-orgasm/
gsgs comment-
What really made message clear, that he was committing rape, was when he wrote" if the wife is painfully dry, use artificial lubricant to make rape easier to commit.
http://www.rawstory.com/2015/10/chr...during-sex-to-enjoy-it-even-when-she-resists/
Has he destroyed his wife's natural sexual response so thoroughly, that she remains dry ?
*disgusted to the point of retching*
Anonymous “Biblical Gender Roles” blogger, 2015
7/ 28/ 2015
Argued that Christian husbands needn’t “pay for the milk when they own the cow.” Claimed in a follow-up post he wasn’t advocating for men to “force themselves physically” on their wives, only that they could certainly have sex with them even if they weren’t in the mood. Whatever one would call that. And just in case we weren’t clear, followed it up in July of this year: “t is IMPOSSIBLE Biblically speaking for a man to rape his wife. Abuse? Yes. Rape? No.”
http://jezebel.com/a-brief-overview-of-dudes-who-are-pretty-sure-you-cant-1720562022
Cognitive dissonance of the author that has posted articles on the website,
Biblical Gender Roles
If marital rape is allowed by the Bible, why does he condemn it?
Rape culture of conservative Christian marriages ?
"If BGR says he doesn’t endorse violence or rape, that’s only because moral progress has influenced his thinking to the point where he glimpses, dimly, the awfulness of the belief system he professes. But it hasn’t influenced him enough for him to do the right thing and reject it entirely as the misogynist atrocity it is."
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/daylightatheism/2015/06/marital-rape-in-the-bible/
"Last BGR for a while. His writings just infuriate me even worse than Michael Pearl’s. Here he’s answering the criticism of a Men’s Rights Activist (MRA) over his last piece we quoted here on how to enjoy sex with a wife that will not cooperate the way you like. The MRA man said that BGR and other Christian Beta Men (his words, not mine) failed to use appropriate ‘dread’ in getting sex from their wives. BGR goes on to explain that dread shouldn’t be used, but straight up fear should be used."
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/nolongerquivering/2015/10/quoting-quiverfull-your-wife-should-fear-you/
Rationalizing rape in marriage ?
Biblical Gender Role's advice-
Do not look at your wife's face as you are raping her, and concentrate on your own physical pleasure, because you might to see something that would not match what you want to see ?
He might see something in her face, her eyes, that shows she is experiencing the pain of rape ?
"I know you love your wife, most men love their wives. But sin is ugly. Your beautiful bride’s face becomes ugly during this sinful time that she is grudgingly giving you sex as she grimaces wanting you to “just hurry up and get it over with”.
So like the men who could not look at Medusa’s face otherwise they would be killed, realize that if you look on your wife’s face when she is displaying a sinful attitude toward sex it will kill your sexual pleasure and may actually make it much more difficult for you to achieve the physical connection and release that you need. Again you know you want that emotional connection too, but your wife is the one who is in sinful rebellion against God’s design for sex in your marriage and is refusing to emotionally connect with you."
- Bibical Gender Roles
According to Bibical Gender Roles, a wife should cooperate with her rapist, and fake enjoyment of her rape, in order to make it better for him.
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/nolong...our-body-to-turn-on-or-just-fake-that-orgasm/
gsgs comment-
What really made message clear, that he was committing rape, was when he wrote" if the wife is painfully dry, use artificial lubricant to make rape easier to commit.
http://www.rawstory.com/2015/10/chr...during-sex-to-enjoy-it-even-when-she-resists/
Has he destroyed his wife's natural sexual response so thoroughly, that she remains dry ?
*disgusted to the point of retching*
