Treats

[VelvetDarkness]

Master has recently bitched that I'm crap at showing initiative during sex (not that He'd tolerate it for a moment if I actually did ) Anyway He's arriving on Monday and wants a sexual treat of some description. I've kinda exhausted my current repertoire so here I am. Any ideas?

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

A friend of mine (this is one of her favorite things to do) is to roll a couple Gobstoppers (small jaw breakers - you might not have these in the UK) around her guy's penis while giving him a blow-job. Have you tried anything like that? (Most unique thing I could think of.) Plus, they're candy, so they taste good for you, so you get something out of it.

 

[ecstaticsub]

How about dressing up in some sexy fantasy costume? Then invite him to sit down and give him a strip show? When you have almost everything off and he is hard slowly lower your pussy down on his dick allowing just a half inch in at a time. Squeeze, release bringing him deeper until he can't handle it anymore.

 

[CutieMouse]

You could "show some initiative" and Top him for an evening... not that I expect he'd appreciate it, but bitching about showing a lack of initiative during sex, without specifying that Topping was out of the question, does teach one to be "careful what you ask for..." On that note, I've been wondering lately if plastic zip-ties (for organizing computer cords/etc) would make good CBT tools... they're wicked for breast bondage... owie.
Signed,

The Mouse with a twisted sense of humor

 

[VelvetDarkness]

You could "show some initiative" and Top him for an evening... not that I expect he'd appreciate it, but bitching about showing a lack of initiative during sex, without specifying that Topping was out of the question, does teach one to be "careful what you ask for..." On that note, I've been wondering lately if plastic zip-ties (for organizing computer cords/etc) would make good CBT tools... they're wicked for breast bondage... owie.
Signed,

The Mouse with a twisted sense of humor

I agree completely in principle but have no immediate wish to die quite this young.

What's CBT btw?

 

[CutieMouse]

I agree completely in principle but have no immediate wish to die quite this young.
What's CBT btw?

I didn't think so...

CBT - Cock & Ball "Torture"

Wrap a zip tie around his penis (I'd recommend "teeth" side out), and cinch down... snipping them off might be a bit difficult, though...

 

[WriterDom]

Master has recently bitched that I'm crap at showing initiative during sex (not that He'd tolerate it for a moment if I actually did ) Anyway He's arriving on Monday and wants a sexual treat of some description. I've kinda exhausted my current repertoire so here I am. Any ideas?

Where are you? We could take a picture of my cock in your ass. That's initiative and original.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Across the pond in the UK I'm afraid and I'll also have to refer you back to post #5

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I've done pretty much everysubbything I can think off to his cock. Blow jobs with hot water/ice/champagne or while vibing his balls/perineum. Master's not a fan of ass play and I can't have sugar so jawbreakers are out.

Have done all kinds of massage and general all over body stuff.

Think I might just go out and buy Him a transformer toy. He'll be just as happy.

I find it really hard to take initiative without feeling like I'm taking control.

 

[WriterDom]

Go out early and get a 10" strap on and tell him to take it like a man.

 

[Chicklet]

I didn't think so...

CBT - Cock & Ball "Torture"

Wrap a zip tie around his penis (I'd recommend "teeth" side out), and cinch down... snipping them off might be a bit difficult, though...

One thing I've done in the past that guys seemed to like was a little bit of light cock and ball bondage with a new shoelace. Not as violent as a ziptie, doesn't need to be tight. just a little restriction turns them on

i can't find an instruction on google, but i got it out of 'kinky crafts' originally...

 

[the captians wench]

Gates of hell makes a nice "top toy" as well.

also, something I've been dieing to try with some one: take a string of purls and dip them in water based lube, then wrap the string around his cock and jack him using the purls as a sort of sleeve.

Brushing your teeth or swishing some mint mouth wash just before giving him head is a great trick. You suck a little, then blow on him. Then when you put your mouth back on his dick, your mouth will feel warmer....warmer=very nice.

I like to pounce a top every now and then, mostly just to see what he'll do. Do something like while he's watching tv, strip down then put my naked body straddling his lap facing him, pull his head into my breasts, and rock on his cock. Some times I'll get my head pulled back by my hair and thrown to the floor where I'm fucked until I'm in tears begging to cum. Other times I just get told to move.

 

[RJMasters]

Idea 1

Go and get about 30 dollars in ones....

When he gets there have him sit in a chair and put on something sexy and turn on the music and dance sexily for him, he will have the money and trow one doallr bills at you or place them into your clothing when he likes something you do. Take this as far as you want to include sexually pleasuring yourself while he watches, just be sure to build up to it....

Here is the kicker....after the dancing is done....gather up all the money you made and then go to him and say....that you heard he was a man who gives out spanking for money, one swat for a dollar....then count up the money you have and give it to him and say I will take "X" amount of spanking please...

by the time you have danced for him, and then he gets to spank your ass...he should be hard enough to drill you through the wall.

Idea two.

tell him you are going to fix him the best dinner he's ever had.....but that he has to stay out of the kitchen until you call him to the table when its ready....Set out the dinner only just before calling him....strip naked and climb up onto the table and be the center peice so that he has a perfect view of you. Make sure you to be romantic and include a lighted candle on a plate or holder placed on your tummy.

Then let him decide what he is going to do with you as he sits down and enjoys his meal. I would make sure there is ice in his drink as he might like to use some ice from it to tease you.

Idea three

Get him excited by starting a blow job while he is sitting....and when he is realy getting into it....begin to remind him..."remember when you said I should take more initiative?" He will probably grunt yes....after his response tell him to wait here....

Then go into the bathroom and if your not stripped yet do so quickly and rub coacco or baby oil all over you every where....then walk out glisting all over and say if he wants you he's got to catch you......good if your athletic and have objects you can run around....

Idea four

After he is at your place...tell him you have someone you would like to meet...then go into the bedroom and change and come back and introduce yourself as another person....and act very shy. If he is on the ball he will pick up on it and go along. Tell him that you quite inexpereinced and a bit scaird as you have never done anything like this before....then let him seduce the new innocent you...you could say all doe eyed....almost like your admitting a fault of yours...I have never seen a man's ....you know...thing before...(really play it up)....when he smiles and ask you if you would like to see his....wring your hands and look worried.....almost reluctantly agree to seeing his...when you see it, be amazed like this is the first time you ever seen a man's cock before...and reach for it to touch it and then pull your had back...and then ask can I...? Can I touch it? You get the idea...

Throw in a little role play like this might be a lot of fun...just depends on the two of you.

Idea five

The day before he gets there get a temp tattoo....check out this link and check out the left column where it says how to apply....

Fun temporary tattoos

there might be a place near yu that has them or you can order them. My my won't he be surprised when you take off your clothes and on your lowwer back is a tattoo with his name on it....


There you go....some things to consider or spark your imagination.

 

[subtleone]

Idea 1

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There you go....some things to consider or spark your imagination.

WOw RJ, There's a couple in there I will use even if Velvet doesn't; epecially liking being a table centrepiece

I'm sure you've thought of this already Velvet, but have you an arsenal of his fantasies to hand? Try bringing one into reality /roleplay.

 

[the captians wench]

I LOVE idea 4 RJ


but then that plays into the baby girl act I like to keep up all the time anyway *giggles*

 

[minx1]

ooh RJ number 2 reminds me of one the first tasks my Master gave me. I had to write about a meal I would prepare him, what it would be and how I would serve it. Anyway surfice to say it got quite hot and involved me being a human centerpiece/platter. I would love to do that for real.

 

[HottieMama]

i LOVE #1 and #4...i need to remember both of those for the future!

 

[graceanne]

Idea 1

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There you go....some things to consider or spark your imagination.

Show off.

 

[RJMasters]

Show off.

 

[graceanne]

 

[the_pet]

Where are you? We could take a picture of my cock in your ass. That's initiative and original.

Hilarious LOL

 

[BiBunny]

I never take the initiative, either, but I'd Top the hell out of him for saying that to demonstrate the "be careful what you ask for" principle. But, then, after all, I am a "switchy bitch."

 

[RJMasters]

Idea six

Depending on if he has an scent fetish....

Wet a finger in your womanly juice and place it somewhere on your body. Then he get to try and find the spot. Of course he needs to do this blind folded which makes it interesting for him.

Idea seven

Ask him if he would bring his favorite porno movie with him, if he doesn't have one, stop and get one at the rental shop...put the movie in and then sit down on the coffee table and put a blindfold on yourself and then tell him to do to you everything he sees in the movie. You won't know what's going to happen which is going to make it very exciting, but you will get to hear the sounds they make as he is grabbing you and putting you on all fours and then flipping you over and then around...

Idea eight

A bit zany but could be some good kinky fun if you both make it a joke between you two....get a blow up doll and have it blown up and waiting on the bed when he gets there. Tell him on the way home as your driving about how wanted you to take a litle more initiative....so you called a girlfriend of yours who is very submissive...(lol) And that you invited her to come over so that he can enjoy the both of you. You can say she is kinda of shy and does't talk much but she really like a strong man to take hold of her and bend her in half. Grinz....give her a name...and he is going to laugh when he sees the doll....maybe he will tie you up for tricking him and then fuck the doll in front of you....the whole time you can beg him to fuck you, not...(doll's name)...regardless of how it plays out it will always be a private joke between you two that you can laugh about when her name is mentioned.

Idea nine

Proceed at your own risk here....everyone has a drawer in their kitchen full of cookie cutters, wooden spoons, spatulas basters etc....ask for his help in the kitchen and give him a bag to hold....then pull the drawer out and dump everything into it....then take the bag and fold the top and shake it...and then head to the bed room...he gets to tie you up and then reaches into the bag and pulls something out, and then the challnge is for him to use it in some sexual way on you. (ote you might want to stack the deck in your favor with this one by doing an inventory of the drawer's content before doing this, however that does take away a lot of the fun)

Last idea

Teach him a new sexual technique or buy a book of sexual positions and make a notation on the front cover of the pages of positions that you think would be fun to try. Give it to him as a gift when he gets there at your place. If your are interested I can give you a link to one special sexual technique that you both might really enjoy doing together. You can look at it and show it to him if you like.

Anyways, good luck and have fun. I hope if nothing else will get you to thiking creatively.

~RJ

 

[the_pet]

Idea six

Idea seven

Idea eight

Idea nine

Last idea


Anyways, good luck and have fun. I hope if nothing else will get you to thiking creatively.

~RJ

...quite a bag of tricks you have there


pet

 

[vffan]

You have the *best* ideas RJ!