Transgressing Wives

[John_Vandermeer]

They are incredibly hot. And lets face it, they would not be so without the risk or opportunity of a biological free ride: ie being victim or perpetrator of cuckoldry. But I have observed not all arrangements of transgressing wives are as frequently portrayed.

An MMC’s wife being topped by another man? Common. But an MMC’s wife topping another man, perhaps teasing, humiliating, and denying him, not as much. And that is very hot.

An MMC topping another man’s wife? Also common. But an MMC being topped by another man’s wife, also not as much. Yet also very hot.

Of those four combinations, where do your preferences lie? Do you know why? Which stories do you think are excellent realizations of them?

 

[AwkwardlySet]

If I had to choose it would be any variant where the wife is the predator. That being said, I dislike the cheating/cuckolding aspect of it very much. That theme is quite repulsive to me in all its variants, except for, maybe, fully consensual swinging, which is borderline acceptable for me as a theme of a story.
A tough crowd isn't the only reason to stay away from LW.

 

[lovecraft68]

If I had to choose it would be any variant where the wife is the predator. That being said, I dislike the cheating/cuckolding aspect of it very much. That theme is quite repulsive to me in all its variants, except for, maybe, fully consensual swinging, which is borderline acceptable for me as a theme of a story.
A tough crowd isn't the only reason to stay away from LW.

My style when I have something that fits there is about the worst you can have.

In my stories the wife is not 'cheating' because she made it clear to the husband before marriage she will continue to do who she wants. The husbands in my stories have that submissive aspect of letting her do it, then sitting there with that love it hate it feeling running through them. They're angry she's doing it right in front of them, but at the same time aroused, but can never admit it, even though she's fully aware of it.

I feel as if I toy with a cuck version of CNC at times.

So of course I get lit up big time there, but even when I make it more clear the husband is into it that happens. The real men over there cannot accept even consensual cucking or even sharing where they're part of the action.

You have to kiss way too much ass over there to land a good score, and I'd rather flip them off than make nice.

 

[Lifestyle66]

... But I have observed not all arrangements of transgressing wives are as frequently portrayed.

An MMC’s wife being topped by another man? Common. But an MMC’s wife topping another man, perhaps teasing, humiliating, and denying him, not as much. And that is very hot.

An MMC topping another man’s wife? Also common. But an MMC being topped by another man’s wife, also not as much. Yet also very hot.

Of those four combinations, where do your preferences lie? Do you know why? Which stories do you think are excellent realizations of them?

When writing stories from the MMC POV, I tend to have (and prefer reading) a confident MC sharing/swinging with a strong-willed wife who is in control of her suitors.

I wrote one story for Loving Wives (I focus almost exclusively on that category) over a month ago with the MMC being pursued by the older wife,
"The Cougar's New Toy"
A wife seduces her young boy-toy with facts of life.

It did relatively well in LW at 4.21/129 with 14.8K views. But you'll find near the end it leans into incest.


I've found that many comments in LW tend to "write" their own version of the story, either skipping key details within the story or projecting what they believe the future entails. When told from the husband's MMC POV, many will insist the wife will become a slut/whore, forever after cheating on her husband, making him clean her out after she comes home. They inject their opinions of the wife's intentions and plans.

So, my latest wring efforts are toward telling stories from the wife MFC's POV, where I can provide details her "real" past, her thoughts, and her "real" future intentions.

 

[lovecraft68]

I've found that many comments in LW tend to "write" their own version of the story, either skipping key details within the story or projecting what they believe the future entails.

You are spot on with this observation. They either tell the story from their skewed view or they do the infamous "And then after she does that, the husband grows a pair and..." they go off and running with all the 'justice' that should be meted out.

Not sure if you have run into him, but there is a commentor "Anubelore' who leaves comments so long they could be their own short story.

 

[AwkwardlySet]

I feel as if I toy with a cuck version of CNC at times.

The way you are describing the theme of your stories, it does sound like that. The only question is whether you are writing those themes because you enjoy writing them or because you like poking the crowd in the eye, or both?

 

[lovecraft68]

The way you are describing the theme of your stories, it does sound like that. The only question is whether you are writing those themes because you enjoy writing them or because you like poking the crowd in the eye, or both?

I enjoy them and it's the way I choose to write them

I initially began writing in the BDSM genre, and aspects of it tend to show up in other genres I explore, and I think it shows the most in my version of hot wife cuck which resembles domme/sub.

The fact it trolls the dregs is an added bonus.

 

[SimonDoom]

I enjoy transgressing wife stories a lot, but typically when the husband is a fully informed, willing, active participant. I "get" the appeal of the humiliation aspect, in a way, but it's not my thing. I'm more into the stag-vixen/hot wife dynamic. I also prefer reading about the woman being topped than doing the topping.

 

[Tomh1966]

If I had to choose it would be any variant where the wife is the predator. That being said, I dislike the cheating/cuckolding aspect of it very much. That theme is quite repulsive to me in all its variants, except for, maybe, fully consensual swinging, which is borderline acceptable for me as a theme of a story.
A tough crowd isn't the only reason to stay away from LW.

RE: Avoiding LW. I've come to like some of the insults. Weird I know. Recently had someone extra creative in insulting me. When I first came here I was like, "Oh well. Hurrumph!" I read this recent one and was like, "Oooh. Good one!"

I don't agree, but find it amusing now.

 

[OnlyHappyEndings]

I love reading and writing about transgressing wives. It's fiction, no husbands were harmed in the making.

In my first series ever, 'My Wife Melanie', the husband is not in on it. He hates it, tries to put a stop to it, but involuntarily gets turned on by it. LW fucking hated it. By the end, even some of my defenders were saying I went too far.

It had a happy ending, though, if not ideal. And not a reconciliation-at-any-cost either. Despite the nasty-grams and low ratings, I view that series as a great success. I would totally do it again and I just might.

 

[SimonDoom]

I love reading and writing about transgressing wives. It's fiction, no husbands were harmed in the making.

In my first series ever, 'My Wife Melanie', the husband is not in on it. He hates it, tries to put a stop to it, but involuntarily gets turned on by it. LW fucking hated it. By the end, even some of my defenders were saying I went too far.

It had a happy ending, though, if not ideal. And not a reconciliation-at-any-cost either. Despite the nasty-grams and low ratings, I view that series as a great success. I would totally do it again and I just might.

The most important reader is you. If you please yourself in writing a story, you need no other justification. If some people don't like it or can't handle the cuckoldry, who cares? They chose to read the story. You could not have made it any clearer what the subject was.

 

[OnlyHappyEndings]

The most important reader is you. If you please yourself in writing a story, you need no other justification

"When I write a verse that pleases me, I pay myself, and sing it to myself." -Cyrano

 

[MillieDynamite]

@AwkwardlySet, I've never pictured you as a religious brighter. That's so Christian of you to think of cheating as a mortal sin. I am not throwing shade. I write about cheaters but am not one (despite what some readers claim), and I am a Christian but not in any way, shape, or form, a Phanatic.

If I had to choose it would be any variant where the wife is the predator. That being said, I dislike the cheating/cuckolding aspect of it very much. That theme is quite repulsive to me in all its variants, except for, maybe, fully consensual swinging, which is borderline acceptable for me as a theme of a story.
A tough crowd isn't the only reason to stay away from LW.

 

[AwkwardlySet]

@AwkwardlySet, I've never pictured you as a religious brighter. That's so Christian of you to think of cheating as a mortal sin. I am not throwing shade. I write about cheaters but am not one (despite what some readers claim), and I am a Christian but not in any way, shape, or form, a Phanatic.

Religious? Me?
It couldn't be further from the truth since I consider myself an agnostic. No, my dislike of cheating both in real life and as a kink has nothing to do with religion. I could explain why I dislike it but I don't think it's a big deal. I mean, as long as everything is fully consensual between spouses I don't mind any of it of course, but even then, the kink does nothing for me.

 

[MillieDynamite]

Doesn't do much for me either. I just like writing about it. I like making it sexy and enjoyable. They get off right before the axe falls. Just kidding.

Religious? Me?
It couldn't be further from the truth since I consider myself an agnostic. No, my dislike of cheating both in real life and as a kink has nothing to do with religion. I could explain why I dislike it but I don't think it's a big deal. I mean, as long as everything is fully consensual between spouses I don't mind any of it of course, but even then, the kink does nothing for me.

 

[oneagainst]

An MMC’s wife being topped by another man? Common. But an MMC’s wife topping another man, perhaps teasing, humiliating, and denying him, not as much. And that is very hot.

An MMC topping another man’s wife? Also common. But an MMC being topped by another man’s wife, also not as much. Yet also very hot.

Both of these flipped story lines are an absolute car crash. Therefore, as such would be worth at least a story each! There is so much more character development you could get into both scenarios that I think you'd struggle to put into the "norm" stories, truly transformative. Both would be a lot harder to pull off, but just in pure terms of an author exercise, it craps all over the "write a story about snow" exercises you see in the usual writers groups. "Write a story where a wife cheats on her husband by topping another man, in a way that the reader can understand it from the wife's reasoning and point of view". I believe you were nearly the whole way there with A Wife's Dark Talent, @John_Vandermeer

And, if you really care what the LW readers think, it's worth noting that it's impossible to write to their tastes because there are multiple camps in that category, from BTB to cuck-me-long-time, who are polar opposites in their requirements.