Tranny fantasy

[Marriedguy32]

So last night I was making love to my wife. We are both 32 years old. But all I could think about how I wish it wasn't her under me. How I wish it was some hot, beautiful trans girl. How I could make her feel so much better than my wife. Is that bad? It's getting to the point that all I think about now is someone other than her.

 

[Thick_Dick_Bi8]

Tranny Fantasy Continued

You are not alone in this at all. Married white bi male, 33. This fantasy has become extremely intense for me. Almost every single time I am with my wife sexually, I find myself wishing that my wife in front of me was a girl with a dick. I find that I enjoy and can get away with this fantasy most with her in doggy and me pounding her from behind - imagining that swaying cock under her. I LOVE your fantasy.

 

[Stella_Omega]

At about that age, I began to notice that I couldn't make love to my husband unless I was pretending he was someone else.

Seems to be pretty common. I don't think it's the tranny in particular, it's just that you want to be fucking someone else.

 

[none2_none2]

So last night I was making love to my wife. We are both 32 years old. But all I could think about how I wish it wasn't her under me. How I wish it was some hot, beautiful trans girl. How I could make her feel so much better than my wife. Is that bad? It's getting to the point that all I think about now is someone other than her.

I have to admit that I don't understand your desire at all. What makes you think you an make a "tranny" feel so much better than your wife? If you think it is because you both have penises, you are greatly mistaken. Plenty of guys SUCK at sex with another penis - pun intended.

Note: I looked back over your prior posts before writing here. I really don't understand the obsession with cheating. I'm not trying to be judgemental, but trying to comprehend it. Is your goal to hurt your wife so that you break her heart? Is your goal to make her so mad she beats you up. Do you want her to walk out on you?

I love my partner very much, and his body turns me on even all these years later. Sure I am not blind to other people who turn me on, but one of the bigest reasons I could NEVER stray is that I imagine the look on my partners face. I'm not talking about anger, but hurt and disappointment. I'd rather die than ever do that to him.

Don't get me wrong, he is not "perfect". I can get really pissed at him -- like how to run things, dealing with money matters, getting him to do things that should have been done years ago. I could go on and on. However, you can be furious at someone and still deeply love them.

I've have had experience with deep betrayal in the past. About 15 years ago, I thought I met my soul-mate. For two years we did everything together, said the right things, did the right things, etc. Then one day two years into our relationship, he told me that he had never loved me, but wanted to be good friends. Granted there was no one else involved (no physical nor emotional cheating), but it was the MOST painful thing I ever had happen to me. I didn't handle it well at all, and I couldn't handle being around him at all. He would keep calling and coming around despite my please that he cut all ties with me. In my head his continual contact was a sign that maybe he really did love me. It gave me "false" hope which was VERY tortuous. It was like someone destroying something important to you inch by inch. If something must be destroyed, I'd rather have it destroyed in an instance. Sure there is shock, but then you go on. Now, years later, I think it was more extreme guilt on his part for having led me on that is why he kept bothering me.

Anyway, my point to you is before you ever consider acting on your fantacies, try to understand what it is really about and where it is coming from. It is one thing to be tempted when you see attractive people other than your loved one. It is tempting to want to do something different so that you aren't in a rut. However, it is another thing to obcessivly fantasize specificially about the actual cheating. I don't know you, so as a complete stranger it sounds like you want to hurt her very deeply -- emotionally speaking. Do you really want to be that cruel to her?

If you cannot relate to the consequences with your wife, imagine other people's relations if they did such fantasies. Like what would you feel if you were in a room with your parents and your father announced that he was leaving your mother for her sister, best friend, etc. Or imagine that in that room that your mother told your dad, that you were not his offspring?

Bottom line: Cheating is very serious, so please keep that in mind.

 

[Somehowyou]

Marriedguy32 - I have been tortured with the same urges. I finally had to act on them. I have had a few good experiences but I have had a few disasters. I have found that I like to masturbate about the kinkiest fantasies including transsexulas but the reality is different. At the end of the day I have found that I prefer ordinary sex with a genetic female 1 at a time.

Have you ever considered a transsexual escort? You can search Eros guide for escorts or you can enjoy shemale porn. Some of those Shemale porn stars also escort on the side. Finding a provider that is not a fraud, that has a good attitude can be a challenge.

So I believe that there is nothing wrong with imagining some of these kinky fantasies. You may find the fantasy to be much better than the reality anyway. finding someone to fullfill these desires is like searching for a unicorn.