Toy questions

[jessicasc]

I'm looking for a couple of new toys. I'm looking for something that can fill me, and I can walk around with it in while I am at the house or maybe shopping.

I've tried walking around with one of my dildos in my pussy. The sensation of being filled is nice, but after a few minutes it is not very comfortable, I guess those aren't made of walking around.

I have been thinking ben wa balls for my pussy and a butt plug for my ass. I'm not sure how I feel about the balls, if they would provide stimulation, or if they would fall out (I have three kids so I'm not super tight).

Any suggestions on specific toys to use in my pussy and ass?

 

[Hopeorless1]

As you said before, I imagine a dildo definitely would not be the most comfortable, especially upon sitting down- ouch!!!
I once had a vib that was a g-spot and clitoral stimulator. I imagine it would work great for this.
http://www.google.com/imgres?q=spot...t=36&ndsp=46&ved=1t:429,r:12,s:36&tx=80&ty=47
Something like that


Edited: Of course, I wouldn't leave the vibe on constantly!

 

[SailorJerry]

try this one. I believe that it's waterproof and remote controlled. maybe a bit pricey, tho.

http://we-vibe.com/sites/all/themes/wevibe/iframes/we-vibe-3/gallery/gallery5-600x360.jpg

http://we-vibe.com/we-vibe-3

 

[starider07]

try this one. I believe that it's waterproof and remote controlled. maybe a bit pricey, tho.

http://we-vibe.com/sites/all/themes/wevibe/iframes/we-vibe-3/gallery/gallery5-600x360.jpg

http://we-vibe.com/we-vibe-3

HHmm, that one looks good to try. Do so and report back.

 

[SailorJerry]

HHmm, that one looks good to try. Do so and report back.

Motion seconded !

Jessica, get right 'on' that.

 

[jessicasc]

try this one. I believe that it's waterproof and remote controlled. maybe a bit pricey, tho.

http://we-vibe.com/sites/all/themes/wevibe/iframes/we-vibe-3/gallery/gallery5-600x360.jpg

http://we-vibe.com/we-vibe-3

That looks like a lot of fun, but is probably more than we want to spend, but if someone wanted to send me one as a gift I’d be fine with that. We actually spent a lot on the oyster duo one time (http://www.buttontoys.com/us/Oyster_DUO.html#a24), and I was a bit disappointed as the bullet was a bit small.

Any other ideas out there?

 

[SailorJerry]

That looks like a lot of fun, but is probably more than we want to spend, but if someone wanted to send me one as a gift I’d be fine with that. We actually spent a lot on the oyster duo one time (http://www.buttontoys.com/us/Oyster_DUO.html#a24), and I was a bit disappointed as the bullet was a bit small.

Any other ideas out there?

Another one I find interesting is the OhMiBod, which you hook up to an iPod, and it turns the music into vibration so that you can feel while you listen. I love the concept, but alas likely way to expensive as well.

http://ohmibod.com/wireless-vibrators/freestyle-g.php

 

[SweetErika]

Here's a good recent thread on Ben Wa Balls. I recall doing a fair amount of research to help the OP find the best type.

Here are more threads on the same subject.

FWIW, if you want to exercise your vaginal muscles (which is always a good idea, 3 kids or no kids!), Ben Wa Balls and similar devices that force you to get those muscles working are a great choice. You may or may not find them to be sexually stimulating, but they WILL make you more aware of your vagina and that--along with using your PC muscles--can be very sexy, increase your pleasure, etc. Don't expect them to be like a vibe on your clit, or even one used vaginally. They're much more subtle than that, and it'll probably take you time to work up to wearing them longer-term. Start with a comfortable period of time when you're at home, then work up from there. Eventually you could venture out of the house, but I'd suggest wearing some snug panties, or even pantyhose, just in case they have a tendency to slip out.

Click me for info on butt plugs that are good for extended wear. The BDSM Talk forum specifically has had many of those threads, and there are some really great suggestions if you're willing to look for them. The right plug will probably stay in much easier than anything you put in your vagina, though you will want to remove it periodically so you don't get a major build-up of gas behind it.

Speaking of BDSM Talk, "Suggestions for vaginal and anal toys for extended wear?" (or similar) might be a good thread to start over there, since a lot of people who frequent that forum have experience in this realm. If nothing else, there are a bunch of regulars with great memories and research skills who can likely point you to specific threads on the topic. This is a fine place to ask, too, it's just that I KNOW quite a few of the BDSM regulars have a ton of experience in this area, and I believe you'll get more relevant responses over there.

Best of luck in finding the right toys!

 

[jessicasc]

Erika, thanks for the feedbak and links. You alwys give such good advice.

 

[tkinsc]

I ordered

http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/womens-sex-toys/sp-couture-collection-eclipse-ii-77119.aspx

and

http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-to...ugs/sp-crystal-jellies-anal-stuffer-6095.aspx

Now I just have to wait for them to come in to see how well they feel.

 

[Lord Pmann]

try this one. I believe that it's waterproof and remote controlled. maybe a bit pricey, tho.

http://we-vibe.com/sites/all/themes/wevibe/iframes/we-vibe-3/gallery/gallery5-600x360.jpg

http://we-vibe.com/we-vibe-3

I realize the We Vibe is a little more expensive, but sex toys are like shoes and shouldn't be purchased cheaply. My wife has a handful of sex toys, ranging from $30-300. The high end ones are always noticeably nicer.

The We Vibe is a bit more expensive than some, but the quality is amazing. I would recommend going for quality over quantity. Plus, the We Vibe can be used while having penetrative sex. It's great. We love that one.

 

[cum_cleaner1970]

Have you tried the Venus Penis? Adam and Eve sells it. It's the Venus Butterfly, but with a 4 inch rotating vibrator built in to it. It's wearable, under loose fitting clothes or a skirt. My wife has one, and often wears it around the house, and sometimes when we go out. I love the look on her face when she's trying to order dinner while having an orgasm!

 

[MissMDS]

I have this stainless steel butt plug that is perfect for longer wear.
http://stockroom.com/Jeweled-Anal-Plugs-P3639.aspx

 

[sunandshadow]

I ordered

http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/womens-sex-toys/sp-couture-collection-eclipse-ii-77119.aspx

Hmm, I got a smartballs toy http://img.nobodybuy.com/2010/06/13/xtoychina/0x0_p1282864/smartballs-ben-wa-balls-smart-balls-a.jpg a few years ago and did not like it at all because the neck was not a comfortable size, I hope the shape of the one you ordered works better for you.

 

[TarevaChine]

Have you looked into a [URL="http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/bullet-eggs/sp-wisper-wireless-metallic-bullet-sleeve-81793.aspx"]Wireless Vibrating Egg?[/URL]

Even when your partner is not physically with you, they can still "control" it by sending you a text telling you when to turn it on/off. It does make the work day much more enjoyable.

 

[Rikki_13]

try this one. I believe that it's waterproof and remote controlled. maybe a bit pricey, tho.

http://we-vibe.com/sites/all/themes/wevibe/iframes/we-vibe-3/gallery/gallery5-600x360.jpg

http://we-vibe.com/we-vibe-3

I have one of these and I can't say that I am that impressed with it. THe vibrations are not strong enough to do anything for me, doesn't feel like it fills me up, and if you have to use lube with the material of the toy it gets too slick to change the vibration settings. I feel like I wasted my money on that one.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I have one of these and I can't say that I am that impressed with it. THe vibrations are not strong enough to do anything for me, doesn't feel like it fills me up, and if you have to use lube with the material of the toy it gets too slick to change the vibration settings. I feel like I wasted my money on that one.

My wife and I have this and enjoy it. Do you use it solo or with a partner? I think the allure of these is that you can have clitoral and vaginal stimulation while having sex. I could see that being used as a vibe alone it wouldn't be enough.

 

[sunandshadow]

I have one of these and I can't say that I am that impressed with it. THe vibrations are not strong enough to do anything for me, doesn't feel like it fills me up, and if you have to use lube with the material of the toy it gets too slick to change the vibration settings. I feel like I wasted my money on that one.

Do you have the 3rd gen one? It has a remote with which to change the vibration settings and the features list says the major change they made from the 2nd gen one was to increase the power 40%. Don't think it's designed to fill a woman up, it's designed so a penis can go in alongside it.