Toy question

[Belilica]

Is it safe to share anal toys? I was with him for 2 years and have an IUD so we were having unprotected sex, no fear of disease or anything like that. He asked a few times to borrow it and he's used it with a condom, but what do you think? Is it ok to share with no condom?

Thanks,

Bel

 

[Naughty n Nice]

I would think that so long as you clean it thoroughly with a disinfecting soap it would be fine. You and he have intimate contact, so I wouldn't think that sharing the toys would be any different, so long as they're clean. Go for it and have fun!!!

 

[bratgirlbound]

Well I would think so, I mean I'm sure you are thoroughly washing any toys especially when using them for anal. I know there are detergents made specifically for washing toys that contain antibacterial agents like bleach or peroxide although I always just use plain old dish soap myself. Of course I don't then just leave them sitting in the dish drainer, wouldn't that be a sight when someone dropped by to visit!
The only problem I can think of would be if a jelly dildo started to break down then it might not be as easy to get really clean.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

I just use an antibacterial hand soap to clean my toys. And, I know what you mean by leaving them lying around. It's happened to me more then once. Oh well, just goes to show that I'm human.

 

[bratgirlbound]

my worst leaving 'things lying around' story around ever? when my new box spring broke and i called the furniture store to bring a new one and pick up the old one. well they came right away and picked up the mattress and then the box spring exposing the ropes tied to the corners of my bed frame and my favorite big old pink jelly dildo lying on the floor underneath the bed. once i realized they were there I was laughing too hard to be embarassed.

 

[lorddragonwolf]

my worst leaving 'things lying around' story around ever? when my new box spring broke and i called the furniture store to bring a new one and pick up the old one. well they came right away and picked up the mattress and then the box spring exposing the ropes tied to the corners of my bed frame and my favorite big old pink jelly dildo lying on the floor underneath the bed. once i realized they were there I was laughing too hard to be embarassed.

and we cant wait till you order a new one......

just joking wasnt there..

 

[Naughty n Nice]

I do nails out of my house. I had a client here and I opened a wicker trunk to look for something, and kablam there's a vibe poking out of the trunk. She soothed my embarrassment by telling me about her vibe. Here's where it gets funny....she only has one!!!!! Well i think it's funny, considering how many I have.

 

[Belilica]

Man, those are some good tales. Luckily, I haven't had anything like that happen to me before, although there was something kind of similar. A good friend of mine came over and brough this girl I didn't really know all that well. We flirted on and off during the evening and a third friend of mine joked with her about how I have the best toys in the world. It ended up with the four of us sitting aroud in my bedroom with all my toys, lube, condoms, lingerie and stuff pulled out of the drawers and we were discussing them. The closest thing to sexual that happened was back massages with my self heating edible body oil. It was a riot.

Bel

 

[Native Alien]

Bel,

that does sound like fun, and just imagine, all the fun without the sex. i think that sometimes it is gatherings like the one that you described that help to inform others that are less knowledgeable about what they want.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

no problems here...

We tend to keep our toys away from everyone. We don't have too many problems.

I don't think it would be a big deal to me if some one saw them. However, for her it would probably be a traumatic experience.

PowrDragn

 

[boz]

Re: sanitaryness ..

I was told at the toy shop that silicone is better because it is inert and is less porous so it doesn't have tiny pockets to hold bacteria.

Also, that they should be boiled for 10 minutes (but use lots of water; don't let it touch the pot and melt!) to be clean enough for someone else to use.

On the other hand, basic soap and water cleaning combined with a condom should be enough.

Plus, don't use it anally, then vaginally on the same person without cleaning.