Toy or Slave, what is the difference??

[Keroin]

Of course. After all, _I_ have a D-card.

Membership has its' privileges.

*sticks out tongue*

 

[Stella_Omega]

....

I shall return later when I have a snappy comeback to your insight here.

Harrumph.

No hurry...

*cough*

 

[Homburg]

*sticks out tongue*

What happens if your face freezes like that? I'll tell you what happens, young lady, you will be tasting all sorts of things you do not want to taste! Do you want to taste that scarf over there? Of course you don't. You get that tongue back in your mouth right now.

 

[Keroin]

What happens if your face freezes like that? I'll tell you what happens, young lady, you will be tasting all sorts of things you do not want to taste! Do you want to taste that scarf over there?

*ponders*

 

[Homburg]

*ponders*

Let me know how it tastes.

We both know curiosity will get the better of you.

 

[Keroin]

Let me know how it tastes.

We both know curiosity will get the better of you.

Yes, I suppose we do.

 

[Keroin]

Let me know how it tastes.

Update: It tastes like chicken

 

[Homburg]

*notes it down*

Well then...

 

[Stella_Omega]

*notes it down*

Well then...

This is so cute!
You're sort of flirting... in an avuncular way...

 

[Homburg]

This is so cute!
You're sort of flirting... in an avuncular way...

This is flirting in your book? Really?

Does this mean that I've flirted with you too? Christ, who else have I flirted with?

 

[where]

.....

 

[Keroin]

This is so cute!
You're sort of flirting... in an avuncular way...

It's not flirting until someone mentions duct tape and bats their eyelashes.

 

[Homburg]

It's not flirting until someone mentions duct tape and bats their eyelashes.

I'm not physically capable of batting my eyelashes. It just doesn't work.

 

[Keroin]

I'm not physically capable of batting my eyelashes. It just doesn't work.

Well don't look at me...

OK I can do it but I'm fresh outta duct tape.

 

[Homburg]

Well don't look at me...

OK I can do it but I'm fresh outta duct tape.

Liar. I know you have duct tape.

 

[Keroin]

Liar. I know you have duct tape.

Fuck.


Fine.


*bats eyelashes and suggestively waves roll of duct tape*

Happy?

 

[Homburg]

Yes. Thank you.

 

[NomadLady]

Serious answer, because it was a serious question: I call my new plaything 'my new plaything' on here, partly because it's nobody's business who she is; she isn't on this forum, but on the forum we're both on it's her choice whether to identify herself or not. But the other reason I call her a plaything is to give myself a little emotional distance, because I could very easily fall in love with her and, at this stage in our relationship, I'd rather not do that.

She definitely isn't a slave, and I don't want her to be. I don't own her. She's her own woman. She's feisty, and not easy to dominate; that makes her a challenge (which I enjoy) and makes her submission when it comes all the sweeter. But her submission isn't given once and for all. I expect to have to win it from her every time we play (and probably pretty physically at times).

So I think that one answer both tells you what the difference between a toy and a slave, and tells you very clearly whether a dom can be romantic.

Yes, you are definately a romantic sadist....

 

[NomadLady]

This.

I know that for some people, BDSM is just a way of getting their own personal rocks off, and the other person in the scene is there simply as a masturbation aid. That's fine, if it works for them. It doesn't work for me.

For me, I can't dominate someone without understanding them at a fairly deep level, and when you understand anyone at a deep level, in my experience, you always find something in them to love. But beyond that, I think, the mere fact of someone submitting to me arouses feelings of affection and protection towards them. It won't stop me hurting them or punishing them, but I will seek to protect them against anyone else hurting them.

This is why Literotica and this bulletin board is so appealing to me....because there are men here like Simon.

 

[Stella_Omega]

This is why Literotica and this bulletin board is so appealing to me....because there are men here like Simon.

Yes, Simon expressed that wonderful well.