Toy Advice (Help me Obiwan, you're my only hope.)

[Maggie8]

This is also posted in the How To thread but it was suggested to post it here as well, and actually this may be the more appropriate place... Any suggestions at all are appreciated.


Criteria: a remote controled penis vibrator for my cunt, with some sort of strap harness to hold it in, so that no panties are required. at least 5-6+inches

Optional: Independantly controled remote clit vibrator

Optional: It is probably asking too much for them both to be relatively quiet, but it that is available-great.

I basically want my husband to be able to control arousing me in public...

A lot of the things I have seen only fit one or two parts of the bill. The Vaculoc systems are too much gear, Turbo Wand is not remote, and too much latex, Venus Penis is too small and I am not looking for the anal stimulation most of them add.

If anyone knows of somthing like this, I would be very appreciative. From stories I have read, some descriptions sound like that is what is being used, so maybe it's out there. I have actually purchased some hardware to try to fashion one myself but would still like to know if this already exists?

Thanks again.

 

[Chicklet]

i don't really think that this is the appropriate place. and you were the one that suggested the bdsm forum on your thread in how-to.

just pointing out.

i don't understand why a dildo automatically is "BDSM"

 

[snowy ciara]

Maybe it's the control part? Because her husband will be controlling the devices, not her.

But that's one of my pet peeves too. It seems quite frequently, on the other boards, the slightest inkling of a kink or a fetish raises the "get thee to the bdsm forum!" hue and cry. You can like watersports or whatever and not be into control issues, or control issues without any fetishes at all. I wonder why everything gets stuck under the bdsm umbrella.

 

[babiesmiles]

Cause it is easy for them Snowy !

It allows them to give labels without think about the object of their exam

... it's like when in an office they have the " any other business " file where they put anything they don't know ( or don't like to make an effort to know ) how to classify !

 

[snowy ciara]

It's getting pretty cozy under the umbrella though. edging closer to the more gropable friends under here

 

[babiesmiles]

It's getting pretty cozy under the umbrella though. edging closer to the more gropable friends under here

It is true , isn't it ?

 

[Maggie8]

My apologies, I will remove it if you wish. A major aprt is the control for me hence thinking BDSM. I don;t quite understand the seeming obsession with labels in the BDSM lifestyle (who is a real sub/Dom who is not)-not a flame, just what i have percieved so far.

Another reason for thinking BDSM is there is not an Exhibitionist or toy specific board which this has definite elements of. Someone did suggest posting to more boards.

Also, it seems from stories and posts that people in BDSM have a great many more toys...I was merely going where I percieved the experts were.

Again apologies. I was not trying to pigeon hole anyone...And I have been researching for quite a while and found things that only partially worked.

 

[snowy ciara]

Um, Maggie, I did guess it was the control thing, and I wasn't sniping at you. My query was sincerely meant because frequently (not necessarily in your case) we do see threads where people are wondering why the hell the other boards sent them over. Sometimes I think we do need a catch all sort of fetish board, but then I think Lit's too big already.

 

[shy slave]

In Maggies case it does seem people here may know where to buy what she is looking for.

It does sound like the kind of device that could b used in BDSM play.

She was not suggesting she was into BDSM but just asking for directions about where to find a particular object.

 

[shy slave]

Um, Maggie, I did guess it was the control thing, and I wasn't sniping at you. My query was sincerely meant because frequently (not necessarily in your case) we do see threads where people are wondering why the hell the other boards sent them over. Sometimes I think we do need a catch all sort of fetish board, but then I think Lit's too big already.

I agree with you on this snowy.

It irratates the fuck out of me that people think that BDSM encompasses every fetish known to man and beast.

Several threads in the past few months do not come into Bondage/Domination/Sadism/Sado-Masochism/Submission/Masochism
Yet they still end up here.

I thought the general board was for threads that did not fit anywhere else.

I guess some of the people who are tolerated here would be savaged on the GB, yet we are supposed to be the ones who enjoy inflicting pain

 

[dngrscrvs00]

I think we are getting off Maggie's question here, has anyone seen any of these products in their travels? I'm interested to know myself

 

[Rebellious_Sub]

Ok, whether this is the correct forum or not, I think maybe she is looking for something like this? I am not sure, they have all kinds of toys at this site which I believe she may find suitable at any rate.

http://www.loverslane.com/REMOTE+VENUS+PENIS/cid=106/page_no=1/edp_no=9219/shop.axd/ProductDetails

 

[SirFace]

Let me know whatever you find, that sounds like tons of fun. I want one I can turn on or off with a cell phone. I can "call her up" while shes working. Oh yea.

 

[Exciteher]

Ok, whether this is the correct forum or not, I think maybe she is looking for something like this? I am not sure, they have all kinds of toys at this site which I believe she may find suitable at any rate.

http://www.loverslane.com/REMOTE+VENUS+PENIS/cid=106/page_no=1/edp_no=9219/shop.axd/ProductDetails

I am interested in this also.

And thank you Rebellious_Sub for your helpful and direct answer to the question. The device you kindly gave us a link to seems to be for clitoral and anal stimulation...wondering if it can effectively be modified to be used in the vagina too?? Anyone in a position to know?

Now, to all with all due respect,

Maggie8's question was very simple, she was asking the members of the BDSM board if they had seen or knew where to get a particular bit of gear.

She asked the question with respect, and was specific about what she wanted. The gear she is asking about is not automatically BDSM related, but not much gear used in BDSM I have seen is for that matter! Most is hijacked from elsewhere. However- this specific gear certainly could be ( and may already have been ) applied within a BDSM context. Only way to find out is to ask the question.

Moreover, her stated use for this gear presupposes elemental aspects of restraint ( the environment and mental space in which she submits to the device will bind her ) and control (albeit enforced indirectly and electronically), submission ( to the tortures or anti-tortures of her husband via the device ), discipline ( her ability to endure her submission, her husbands will to enforce her submission) and domination (you do the math). It applys to BDSM regardless of her BDSM experience or how or if she identifies her practice, role or herself using the terminology of the BDSM community.

The gear she is looking for, if it exists at all, appears to be rare. I have looked for it also and not found it.... the link posted above is close but not quite the thing. That being the case, it is very logical to think that by asking as many people as she can that could possibly answer her question--- Maggie8 will have the greatest chance of getting her answer. I see no problem in posing a question like Maggie8' s to the larger lit community. As it relates to the BDSM forum specifically, and despite some of the previous comments, I totally fail to see how it could even remotely (to turn a phrase) be considered inappropriate or off topic.

Maggie8 has posted on the entire Lit site a total of 6 times, myself a bit more. She seemingly has little experience or knowledge of BDSM, I have a great deal.

With a few exceptions, I am both amused and confounded by what I have read on this thread. Seems to me it was a simple question that deserves a relatively friendly and unencumbered answer, if there is one!

And please, I invite you all to consider that not all that have discovered knowledge of the practices in BDSM, or the concepts elucidated within BDSM, gained it in a very direct fashon.

 

[Maggie8]

Thanks everyone. I truly have been looking. Saw someone's reference in another BDSM thread to overstock.com...they have the closest thing I have found so far:

http://stockroom.com/Strap-InStrap-On-Locking-Dildo-Harness-P307.aspx

but still more equipment than I want,-I'd really like to keep other areas exposed as much as possible, and it to feel as close to being naked as possible..(Not to mention expensive-just can't afford to splurge right now unless it's really the right thing, and I'll likely still have to wait.)

Today I started my own version with Nylon straps and metal o-rings. (Hubby thinks I'm obsessed

It's working ok so far but I will likely have to make a few models working out the kinks. I'll post pictures when I get the first one together. Will love getting suggestions.

 

[Private_Label]

This from a company that I like for it's discreetness:
Reach out and touch me

In fact with this one he can call your cell phone from anywhere and have it go off!

 

[Daddyslilpet]

What about something like this? http://www.extremerestraints.com/female-leather-strap-on-harness-wplugs_1296.html

Might be able to rig something with remotes to it

 

[Exciteher]

This from a company that I like for it's discreetness:
Reach out and touch me

In fact with this one he can call your cell phone from anywhere and have it go off!

Now thats interesting...

 

[Maggie8]

I have seen all of those in my search. I realize I may have to resign myself to something else if I buy off the shelf.

-I really don't want anal (at this point)
-I want my monds to be as exposed as possible (clit as well)-the whole area actually--in discussing my desires with my husband about this, being bare under the skirt is part of the eroticism too.
-The vaginal insertion on the Venis Penis and Turbo Wand Latex PAnties are too small (experimented today with a 7+ inch vibrator maybe 1 1/2 inch round, just wearing underwear & jeans to hold in place and it was an incredible feeling having it that deep as I simply moved about the house...it was a pretty powerful one too, which I realize for public use may have to be traded off at some point if it is simply and on/off deal)
-Also told my husband that he may need to be the one to figure out a way to combine 2 independant remote control units into one-he has some electronics background, and considering how many ipod mods there are out there, I'm sure we can come up with something.
-The phone bit would be icing on the cake...mmmmmmm

I may simply be asking too much. (not the first time) Theprototype (version 1.0) is almost done. If it works the way I think it will, there may be a lot of interest for the BDSM board as it will (hopefully) leave the clit entirely on display for various activities. And it could be made if desired to fit an anal plug.

If I ever find, or get this toy finished I will certainly let everyone know how it goes.

 

[FurryFury]

I haven't clicked the links because I just don't feel like it right now. However I could suggest the Doc Johnson 2000. Yes, I know it also has a butt plug BUT it and the vaginal plug can be removed. No, it doesn't vibrate but the vaginal plug is so small I think I could get a remote control something in there like the unit that comes in our remote control panties. I'm not sure if being inserted into a wet place would be good for it but you could try it.

Personally, I'm not into the vaginal thing because there is NO FUCKING WAY I'm coming from that. So I say forget it, despite stories and whatever else media has tried to sell us or ego driven men that "being filled up" will make us come. Yes, yes, I know some of us do come that way, hooray for those lovely lucky souls but NOT me!!! LOL!

Now, what I would like to see is a comfortable clit vibe, that is VERY powerful and will stay in place, while being remote controlled.

Another thing I would LOVE to see is a butt plug with alternating rings of heat and coldness on the shaft. OH YEAH!!!

Yes, I would like to be a toy tester! What thread was that on again?

Fury

 

[SirFace]

I had an interesting fantasy this morning. While turning on my cell phone I noticed the vibrating mode is pretty strong if right against your skin. Its pretty small too and would fit into a pussy fairly easy I would think. So set the cell to vibrate, put it in a condom and tie the end off with a cord (so it doesnt get lost) and pop it in. Then call your number, when ever you like. It would be even better to have her on the hard line phone at the time or even a web cam. Oh boy, Im getting creative or evil.

Anybody ever try this?

 

[Ebonyfire]

I had an interesting fantasy this morning. While turning on my cell phone I noticed the vibrating mode is pretty strong if right against your skin. Its pretty small too and would fit into a pussy fairly easy I would think. So set the cell to vibrate, put it in a condom and tie the end off with a cord (so it doesnt get lost) and pop it in. Then call your number, when ever you like. It would be even better to have her on the hard line phone at the time or even a web cam. Oh boy, Im getting creative or evil.

Anybody ever try this?

Creative and evil. Is that a bad thing? I am so evil I would put it in a condom and stick it up slave's ass!

Eb But that does not make me a bad person]

 

[FurryFury]

A vibrating phone doesn't vibrate enough for me but still could be interesting to experiment with. It would be hell trying to answer it while it was up one's cooch or butt though. I'm just imagining that. LOL!

Fury

 

[lne_iii]

Tagging for later reference.

 

[Maggie8]

Found somethign close....

Have found soemthing that almost completely fits the bill. Have nto been able to try it yet, as we are buying a house and can't justify the expenditure.

http://www.extremerestraints.com/female-butt-plug-and-dildo-harness_1295.html

The prototype sorta worked but I do not have the sewing skills to make it look "finished" yet.

Thought I would put this out for other's enjoyment.

Maggie