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[Illusionz]

Well, my first How To is up. What does everyone think?

 

[msboy8]

Well, my first How To is up. What does everyone think?

It was good to see something that supported women fom a man. I Read and Voted.

 

[SlyKitten]

Funny

I winced here:
"No matter what she tells you, she likes the closeness of being held. It makes her feel more loved."
I tend to arch my back and tilt my hips a lot when manually stimulated and usually need some space. Maybe I'm just claustrophobic...

And winced here:
"Rub her bare clitoris with speed and pressure, allowing her to cum on your hand."
My clitoris is highly sensitive (yeah, every woman's clit is highly sensitive) and I do not like too much pressure on it. The closer I am to my orgasm, the less pressure I want.

I enjoyed your how-to and voted on it.

 

[dcraig]

Funny

I winced here:
"No matter what she tells you, she likes the closeness of being held. It makes her feel more loved."
I tend to arch my back and tilt my hips a lot when manually stimulated and usually need some space. Maybe I'm just claustrophobic...

And winced here:
"Rub her bare clitoris with speed and pressure, allowing her to cum on your hand."
My clitoris is highly sensitive (yeah, every woman's clit is highly sensitive) and I do not like too much pressure on it. The closer I am to my orgasm, the less pressure I want.

I enjoyed your how-to and voted on it.

I would wince also, especially on your second comment. However, very well written, of the females I have come in contact with in such a manner, most preferred the light touch. Unless one is a little masochistic, that I can understand. But to rub firmly or with pressure, (anything more than light pressure), would pose the problem of courseness and causing the sensitive tissue in this area to become raw and sore. Forgive my medical analisis of this, bad habit, I would suppose. lol. I'm certain that's what you meant to begin with. Hope I have not offended anyone.

 

[Illusionz]

Thanks for the response, everyone.

 

[dr_mabeuse]

Funny

I winced here:
"No matter what she tells you, she likes the closeness of being held. It makes her feel more loved."
I tend to arch my back and tilt my hips a lot when manually stimulated and usually need some space. Maybe I'm just claustrophobic...

And winced here:
"Rub her bare clitoris with speed and pressure, allowing her to cum on your hand."
My clitoris is highly sensitive (yeah, every woman's clit is highly sensitive) and I do not like too much pressure on it. The closer I am to my orgasm, the less pressure I want.

It was a nice introduction, but I've got to wonder whether you really checked this out with a lot of women or whether it's just your own individual preference. (I'm assuming you're female.) I think most (or maybe more like half) of the women I know are extremely sensitive there and find too much direct clitoral stimulation downright painful. Even more can't stand to be touched there immediately after orgasm

For a guy, the analogue is having the head of your cock rubbed. A little bit done is very nice, but too much friction quickly becomes extremely painful and totally unerotic.

The most important thing in any kind of love making is keeping the channels of communication open--all the channels, not just what she says or the way she reacts. When it's done right, you connect on a very subtle yet intimate level in which both of you move in concert without even thinking about it, and it's when you get to that point that the real love-making takes place.

Still, the hand-job is sadly neglected, so this is welcome. I just worry that this is too much of the "touch her this/squeeze her that" type of thing that treats women as if they're pieces of machinery.

 

[Staceylovesyou]

I hope more men read this