Here's what I propose we do the first time. We'll meet somewhere on Queen W, go shopping for bras, panties, go back to my place and try them on. Then get clothed and bug the hell out of my boyfriend that we're no longer semi naked. Talk, move into the bedroom. Lock the door on him. Touch each other, undress and play while he stands out side listening to us have fun. We'll eventually invite him in. No rush though. We could go for hours.