FungiUg
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We'd like to collect a list of topics that people would enjoy discussing. The idea is that once a week, someone (possibly our already over-worked and under-paid moderators) will kick off a discussion from the list. If we can collect a good list of topics or questions, then we'll avoid frequent repeats.
So, if there's something you'd like to see discussed on a recurring basis, then by all means add it to the list. The topics can range from serious to light hearted, and they can be topics we've discussed before. In fact, ideal candidates would be topics that seem to come up over and over again.
Here are the list of topics as discussed thus far. Note that I have listed the basic outline of the topic -- you can go through the actual discussions for more details on the listed topic. I have combined related topics where it makes sense.
How about depilation?
Is BDSM abuse?
How to deal with a vanilla partner, or how to turn them kinky?
Breath play?
Bondage for beginners (So you have your pyl tied down to the bed. What happens now?)
Strap ons!
Your whole toy family of questions. Favorite toys, essentials for your toy bag, Toys for the budget minded couple.
BDSM and Disability/Chronic Pain/Illness
When Somehow The Wrong Person Found Out
Gifts for BDSM weddings, anniversaries, birthdays, etc
Making It [BDSM] Work As A Lifestyle
BDSM and the Law (the Legality of BDSM)
Academic Discussion of BDSM (for instance, stats, how it fits with feminism, etc)
Verbal humiliation
How do you keep a long-term BDSM relationship alive? (The complications and advantages of love in a D/s relationship.)
Words of advice to the partner of a kinkster.
How has the feminist movement affected the BSDM.
Rituals, Rules, Contracts, and Collars
Domineering versus Dominating
How do you choose the right partner rather than allow excitement or desperation cloud your perception with every available sub or Dom/me. (How to find a suitable partner?)
BDSM and Spirituality, How Do They Work Together (BDSM and Religion)
Experiences concerning caging, impounding, etc
What kind of training/punishment options other Dom/mes use for those they can't physically interact with for whatever reasons. Back issues, knees, etc.
The role of Monty Python within BDSM.
Mind Control.
BDSM and Children.
Subspace.
Can Francisco be Robin Williams?
Was Aristotle good for his time?
Interrogation scenes... How do you prepare on either end? What sort of things do you watch out for? What are some of the pitfalls? How and why does it turn your crank? What makes a good instrument of interrogation?
Is there always pony play?
Mental health and BDSM.
What are the fundamental differences between male and female subs?
BDSM and Multiple Partners
Are BDSM folk more honest or open minded than non-BDSM folk?
Suspension (specifically including chains): how-to, experiences.
Labels: are they good, bad, indifferent? Do we need them at all?
Pony, doggy and kitty play
Kinky and alone: how to keep yourself sane and amused.
CBT for beginners.
The challenge of submitting to the seemingly impossible... and succeeding!
Submissive block and copying (You've lost that submissive feeling)
Dealing with breakups (social groups, boundaries, head-space, deprogramming)
So, if there's something you'd like to see discussed on a recurring basis, then by all means add it to the list. The topics can range from serious to light hearted, and they can be topics we've discussed before. In fact, ideal candidates would be topics that seem to come up over and over again.
Here are the list of topics as discussed thus far. Note that I have listed the basic outline of the topic -- you can go through the actual discussions for more details on the listed topic. I have combined related topics where it makes sense.
How about depilation?
Is BDSM abuse?
How to deal with a vanilla partner, or how to turn them kinky?
Breath play?
Bondage for beginners (So you have your pyl tied down to the bed. What happens now?)
Strap ons!
Your whole toy family of questions. Favorite toys, essentials for your toy bag, Toys for the budget minded couple.
BDSM and Disability/Chronic Pain/Illness
When Somehow The Wrong Person Found Out
Gifts for BDSM weddings, anniversaries, birthdays, etc
Making It [BDSM] Work As A Lifestyle
BDSM and the Law (the Legality of BDSM)
Academic Discussion of BDSM (for instance, stats, how it fits with feminism, etc)
Verbal humiliation
How do you keep a long-term BDSM relationship alive? (The complications and advantages of love in a D/s relationship.)
Words of advice to the partner of a kinkster.
How has the feminist movement affected the BSDM.
Rituals, Rules, Contracts, and Collars
Domineering versus Dominating
How do you choose the right partner rather than allow excitement or desperation cloud your perception with every available sub or Dom/me. (How to find a suitable partner?)
BDSM and Spirituality, How Do They Work Together (BDSM and Religion)
Experiences concerning caging, impounding, etc
What kind of training/punishment options other Dom/mes use for those they can't physically interact with for whatever reasons. Back issues, knees, etc.
The role of Monty Python within BDSM.
Mind Control.
BDSM and Children.
Subspace.
Can Francisco be Robin Williams?
Was Aristotle good for his time?
Interrogation scenes... How do you prepare on either end? What sort of things do you watch out for? What are some of the pitfalls? How and why does it turn your crank? What makes a good instrument of interrogation?
Is there always pony play?
Mental health and BDSM.
What are the fundamental differences between male and female subs?
BDSM and Multiple Partners
Are BDSM folk more honest or open minded than non-BDSM folk?
Suspension (specifically including chains): how-to, experiences.
Labels: are they good, bad, indifferent? Do we need them at all?
Pony, doggy and kitty play
Kinky and alone: how to keep yourself sane and amused.
CBT for beginners.
The challenge of submitting to the seemingly impossible... and succeeding!
Submissive block and copying (You've lost that submissive feeling)
Dealing with breakups (social groups, boundaries, head-space, deprogramming)
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