"Toothing" for sex?

Cheyenne

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Am I the only one who has never heard of "toothing" before?

http://www.reuters.com/newsArticle.jhtml?type=internetNews&storyID=4858731&section=news

LONDON (Reuters) - British commuters take note -- the respectable person sitting next to you on the train fumbling with their cell phone might be a "toother" looking for sex with a stranger.

"Toothing" is a new craze where strangers on trains, buses, in bars and even supermarkets hook up for illicit meetings using messages sent via the latest in phone technology.

"Toothing is a form of anonymous sex with strangers -- usually on some form of transport or enclosed area such as a conference or training seminar," says the "Beginner's Guide To Toothing" on a Web site dedicated to the pursuit.

It is made possible by Bluetooth technology which allows users to send phone contacts, pictures and messages to other Bluetooth-enabled equipment over a range of about 10 meters (yards).

Users discovered they could send anonymous messages to people they didn't know with Bluetooth equipment, spawning a craze dubbed "bluejacking."

Jon, aka "Toothy Toothing" and the guide's author, explained toothing was born after he was "bluejacked" by an unknown girl while commuting to work in London. After a few days of flirting, she suggested a brief encounter in a station lavatory.

"The meeting wasn't a romantic thing -- it was purely sexual. Barely anything was said," he told Reuters via e-mail.

He said potential toothers begin by sending out a random greeting -- usually "Toothing?."

"If the other party is interested, messages are exchanged until a suitable location is agreed -- usually a public toilet, although there are tales of more adventurous spots such as deserted carriages or staff areas," his guide adds.

TOOTHING ON THE TRAIN

Jon, who's in his 20s and works in finance, estimates there could be tens of thousands of toothers from all sorts of professions and lifestyles. Certainly the Web site's message board is busy"Any toothing on these trains?" asks one poster about services between Cambridge and London, prompting positive responses from "Dannyboy" and "Zeke."
"I'll be around London Bridge mainline station around 9.45 - 10 a.m. tomorrow if anyone's interested...," another poster called "Boi" wrote hopefully.

While some happily recount their successful encounters, others suggest there are a few teething problems with toothing.

"I tried toothing in Tooting (south London) last night... not a device to be found," a frustrated "Snowdog" posted sadly.

Although clearly not what the industry had in mind, toothing may lead operators toward similar, more mainstream projects.

Last month it was reported that a team in Boston had created a service for cell phones called Serendipity, an wireless alternative to online dating.

It allows subscribers to store their personal details and what they want from a partner and when there are enough similarities between two people and they happen to be in the same area, it tells their phones to communicate with each other.

Dario Betti, of the British-based consultancy Ovum, said bluejacking had really taken off, helped by the fact the service was free.

"The element of the unknown, that you are connecting to someone around you that you might not know, it's a novelty factor that is helping it to start," he told Reuters.

If Jon and those who use his forum are right, toothing is certainly livening up life for some bored commuters.

"A lot of my day's taken up with a soul-aching commute into the city, and that just feels like dead time," Jon said.

"Flirting is fun, sex is fun. We're just employing expensive, complex toys to find the most basic form of entertainment."
 
"Toothing" ?? Now the question remains...do 4 out of 5 dentists recommend it, or will the 5th say "aye" as well? :D
 
OK, that confirms it. All people think about is sex. I mean---trying to fit in sex---with strangers, at that---on your way to work because you're bored, well, I'm finally speechless.




:confused:
 
I'm so glad I have no interest in anything like that. It's taking technology way beyond my grasp...

Are you sure this isn't an Onion article, taken mainstream?;)
 
http://www.pervscan.com/archives/000312.php

Toothing
» From the Phone Sex Department
"And now comes 'toothing,' where strangers on trains and buses and at bars and concerts hook up for clandestine sex by text messaging each other with their Bluetooth-enabled cell phones or PDAs... According to the Beginner's Guide to Toothing, the online FAQ written by a man who calls himself Toothy Toothing, toothing is 'a form of anonymous sex with strangers — usually on some form of transport or enclosed area such as a conference or training seminar.... Users 'discover' other computers or phones in the vicinity and then send a speculative message. The usual greeting is: 'Toothing?''" — Wired (US)

PervScan commenter extraordinaire hludens sent in some material on "toothing" a few weeks ago, but now with the appearance of this Wired article toothing will no doubt go mainstream.

What is toothing exactly? Essentially it is the text-messaging equivalent of cruising. People with Bluetooth-enabled devices such as cellphones or PDAs can probe the crowd around them for others with similar devices and also similar illicit urges. What seems to make it work is the anonymity of the initial contact, which allows one to probe the crowd without getting slapped in the face by a complete stranger. (If a target doesn't want to tooth, s/he simply ignores the opening salvo.) Also, Bluetooth wireless only works over a small area, and though to a purely geek mind this might seem like a liability, it's an obvious advantage when cruising. What's the point of trying to pick up somebody only to find out that s/he is half a continent away?

The Wired article portrays toothing as the vice of the commuter, a way to kill the boredom of waiting in stations and riding on trains. It's a commonplace that flirtatious eye contact occurs in these situations, and now toothing basically provides a safe and convenient way of finding out if there is anything behind the meaningful glances.

If you were to bet on the likelihood of technology fads either taking root or disappearing, you would probably do pretty well to bet on toothing becoming an entrenched, albeit illicit, phenomenon. Unlike some other fads, like flash mobs, which were doomed by their own pointlessness, toothing will be driven by lust — and as anyone can tell you, there's no shortage of that around. Invent a car and you simultaneously invent "parking." Invent a new communications device and inevitably you invent toothing or something like it.

In case you're interested — and probably you are, you devils — here is the Toothing FAQ.
http://toothing.proboards28.com/index.cgi
 
Just don't try this near a nursing home. Oh wait, that's called "gumming."
 
Wordless couplings with total strangers, now there's a unique thought. Maybe it will provide a greater motivation to find a cure for AID's and other STD's.:D
 
I'm having a hard time believing that this can be so popular in Britain- maybe some of our U.K. members have heard of it?

"Toothing" isn't even to the level of a One Night Stand where you at least SEE the person and meet them before having sex with them. Sex with a complete stranger? Have these people never heard of STDs? Aids?

Another thought: perhaps toothing will put prostitutes out of business in the future?
 
ksmybuttons said:
I'm so glad I have no interest in anything like that. It's taking technology way beyond my grasp...

Are you sure this isn't an Onion article, taken mainstream?;)

I wasn't sure so I did a google search on "toothing" and was amazed at how many links came up. It's real, much to my surprise.

Then I did a search at Lit on the word "toothing" just to see if I'd missed discussions about it and nothing matched in that search at all. Hence, this thread.

It DOES sound like an Onion article, doesn't it?
 
It's right up there with the bath houses prior to HIV...

I'm glad I'm old and married and monogamous. It sure makes life easier.;)
 
Cheyenne said:
I'm having a hard time believing that this can be so popular in Britain- maybe some of our U.K. members have heard of it?

"Toothing" isn't even to the level of a One Night Stand where you at least SEE the person and meet them before having sex with them. Sex with a complete stranger? Have these people never heard of STDs? Aids?

Another thought: perhaps toothing will put prostitutes out of business in the future?

I know a few of my mates lark around with bluetooth - they sent a message such as you were great last night in a crowded area - if say a lot of people have their bluetooth " on " then the phone might pick up three or four

never heard of people meeting up for illicit sex in toilets though - that is a new one to me
 
Gord said:
I know a few of my mates lark around with bluetooth - they sent a message such as you were great last night in a crowded area - if say a lot of people have their bluetooth " on " then the phone might pick up three or four

never heard of people meeting up for illicit sex in toilets though - that is a new one to me

It all sounds intriguing. Ah, the creative mind.... :D
 
brokenbrainwave said:
My wife tried toothing during a blowjob last night.


I am still clinging to the rafters...

I wondered how long it would take for someone to give this answer. :p
 
I know that the bluetooth flirting thing is getting big with clubbers and on the gay scene, but not so much for just hooking up for sex - mainly just straightforward flirty stuff and random porn thingies.
 
peachykeen said:
I know that the bluetooth flirting thing is getting big with clubbers and on the gay scene, but not so much for just hooking up for sex - mainly just straightforward flirty stuff and random porn thingies.
So I take it you're not one of the charter members? :D


The stuff I read didn't mention the other stuff- just the straight people meeting strangers for sex. I'd find it more likely that it would be just for flirting, etc.
 
Haha...Whatever gives money they will do.

(ksmybuttons, what is the blue thing on the picture?)
 
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