Too Big?

[Bit2Large]

I need an experienced female's point of view. Is there such a thing as too large? Also how big would make you say no way to anal? Lastly, is the fear factor, if any, based on length or width?

 

[Lynxie]

There is most definitely such a thing as too large, at least for some women. It really depends on the individual. Guys are always worried about size, but there are plenty of women out there that are more comfortable with smaller penises. Personally, anything larger than 6" or 7" is just too uncomfortable for me. I'm not a fan of pain. I prefer average width, too - don't care for really thick ones.

But then, there are also lots of women that absolutely love large cocks...the bigger and thicker, the better. To each her own, I suppose

 

[ReadyOne]

Good question!

I wait with bated breath to hear the answers.

 

[SweetErika]

I think there's such a thing as too large. With vaginal, length is more an issue because having your cervix pounded usually is very painful. I haven't met a penis that was too wide though.

For anal, girth is more of an issue. I couldn't give you dimensions on what's too big, but if we're doing everything right and it still hurts, I'd assume it's too big. And, if it's a really tight fit/stretch vaginally, I wouldn't be thrilled about trying anal. For me, fear plays a big part in it. Even the anticipated pain made me hesitant to try with my hubby for years (and he is average).

 

[cloudy]

Yep, there's certainly such a thing as too big. Dated one guy in college that I absolutely couldn't do anything with, no matter how much we tried. And a friend of mine dated him later, and actually asked me if I'd had problems - apparently she was too.

 

[Poussin]

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[77Cobra]

I don't know if I am too big or not.Like was said earlier it depends on the woman.I had a couple of women who I tried for hours to get into and they were just too tight.Yes they were turned on too,as in dripping wet,horny as a jacked off tomcat.The wife complains that sometimes when we get real energetic and do some serious pounding that afterwards she has pains up inside her,but anal sex has been done with her with very little problems as long as I take my time get her ready and very horny.

 

[human_male]

I don't know if I am too big or not.Like was said earlier it depends on the woman.I had a couple of women who I tried for hours to get into and they were just too tight.Yes they were turned on too,as in dripping wet,horny as a jacked off tomcat.The wife complains that sometimes when we get real energetic and do some serious pounding that afterwards she has pains up inside her,but anal sex has been done with her with very little problems as long as I take my time get her ready and very horny.

Why don't you hold the base of your knob so it doesn't go all the way in, so when you're pounding the missus she doesn't get injured.

 

[human_male]

Just to switch the pov to ask the same question about vaginas. I personally love really huge, gaping wide ones. I'd like to meet someone I could put both hands inside and then clap hands.

 

[princess4u]

i've never had a problem with size vaginally - maybe i'm not meeting the right guys

but anally is a different story - imo you can definitely be too large for anal - no matter how much lube and patience you use

 

[princess4u]

Just to switch the pov to ask the same question about vaginas. I personally love really huge, gaping wide ones. I'd like to meet someone I could put both hands inside and then clap hands.

if someone were that gaping, how would you be able to fuck her?

 

[assister49]

I think there's such a thing as too large. With vaginal, length is more an issue because having your cervix pounded usually is very painful. I haven't met a penis that was too wide though.

For anal, girth is more of an issue. I couldn't give you dimensions on what's too big, but if we're doing everything right and it still hurts, I'd assume it's too big. And, if it's a really tight fit/stretch vaginally, I wouldn't be thrilled about trying anal. For me, fear plays a big part in it. Even the anticipated pain made me hesitant to try with my hubby for years (and he is average).

Well said, Erika

 

[wicked woman]

It's all about fit...complementing each other.

 

[cinnamonstick]

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[Poussin]

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[SweetErika]

I haven't had a size problem with any men yet but I'm kind of a size queen. Largest man I was with was 9.5 x 5 inches and we didn't have any problems vaginally or with anal. I think girth would be a problem with anal. Don't know if i would be willing to go larger than 7 inches around. More than that is too much.

This perplexes me...do you actually get out a measuring tape and note the dimensions of your partner? I think we measured length once in fun, but I don't remember what the number was...just that it feels so good and is perfect for me.

 

[Bit2Large]

Follow Up Question

I love watching anal in porn. Particularly a sexy as hell gal taking a huge cock that way. So...is the ability to handle real size aquired or are these girls just meant for porn?

 

[SweetErika]

Re: Follow Up Question

I love watching anal in porn. Particularly a sexy as hell gal taking a huge cock that way. So...is the ability to handle real size aquired or are these girls just meant for porn?

Probably a bit of both, although practice is a much larger part of the equation.

 

[Jaded Jayne]

Being the delicate and petite flower that I am, too big is definitely a problem. I don't understand why men don't believe me. I'm tellin' ya! It's big enough! Besides, you can't have nearly as much fun with a great big one. Honest guys.

jmo

 

[BlueSugar]

I like feeling filled so no size limit for my pussy.

anal due to preferences is out anyway - but there are things that would certainly scare me if it things were different... though, I'm sure if things were different (and they aren't) I'd go for size again as well.

 

[Lady Tango]

Is there such a thing as too large? Probably not if I was fully aroused, but size isn’t important for me.

Also how big would make you say no way to anal? I wouldn’t want to accommodate a guy over 6-7 inches.

Lastly, is the fear factor, if any, based on length or width? Too long and it can hurt my cervix but width I have had no problems just pleasure.

 

[TempWife]

Vaginally, probably not....Anally, yeppers.

 

[freethinkingman]

Not a problem

I don't think I am ever likely to bring fear to a woman about the size of mine!! I like a nice snug fit

 

[handjive]

For us smaller men

Being the delicate and petite flower that I am, too big is definitely a problem. I don't understand why men don't believe me. I'm tellin' ya! It's big enough! Besides, you can't have nearly as much fun with a great big one. Honest guys.

jmo

Thats a bit of a relief.