Tonight my wife transformed me into a Cuckold

[cuckedinmi]

I told her it would be hot if she wrote something degrading on my chest before she left to commemorate this transformation. As you can see, she certainly didn't disappoint me. It's amazing how much life can change over the course of only a week after 8 years of a strictly monogamous and vanilla marriage. As I write this, she is likely having sex with another man. Meanwhile, I'm at home working through a list of domestic duties.

We're giving this a two week trial to see if she likes it--she's still very apprehensive. She hasn't fully embraced the new dynamic yet. I want her to realize how easy life can be with a submissive husband. So for now, I'm giving myself my own orders. Actions speak louder than words, so she's going to come home tomorrow to a home cleaned from top to bottom; every morning she will wake to hot coffee waiting; a warm car started before work; and all domestic duties taken care of.

If anyone has any thoughts about how else to help ease an apprehensive wife into this lifestyle, please share your thoughts.

 

[newcouple1128]

I told her it would be hot if she wrote something degrading on my chest before she left to commemorate this transformation. As you can see, she certainly didn't disappoint me. It's amazing how much life can change over the course of only a week after 8 years of a strictly monogamous and vanilla marriage. As I write this, she is likely having sex with another man. Meanwhile, I'm at home working through a list of domestic duties.

We're giving this a two week trial to see if she likes it--she's still very apprehensive. She hasn't fully embraced the new dynamic yet. I want her to realize how easy life can be with a submissive husband. So for now, I'm giving myself my own orders. Actions speak louder than words, so she's going to come home tomorrow to a home cleaned from top to bottom; every morning she will wake to hot coffee waiting; a warm car started before work; and all domestic duties taken care of.

If anyone has any thoughts about how else to help ease an apprehensive wife into this lifestyle, please share your thoughts.

Congrats, sounds like you two are going to have a bunch of fun in the near future. Hope it all works out for you two!

 

[cuckolddaddy]

esperienfced cuck

If you need any advice I served as a cuck for five years.

 

[cuckedinmi]

Thanks newcouple1128 and cuckolddaddy. Fingers are crossed.

Thought I could put that side of me behind me through sheer willpower... So glad it looks like I may no longer have to do that.

 

[Rockwell12]

What was the process of getting her to try this? Has she ever expressed any interest in swinging etc in the past?
Hope it works out for you. Any jealously or mixed feelings yet?

 

[sidonie45]

Wow. This is all new to me.
My thoughts would be, don't overwhelm her.
Although this is your fantasy being played out, she is the one making the big changes in a short period of time, where by you have been thinking about this for awhile.

 

[willingtobeused]

Sounds like you both will have fun

 

[BareBackRider2]

Any chance she's just gone to stay at a friend's house but will tell you she's done all the nasty things you want her to do when she gets back?

 

[cuckedinmi]

What was the process of getting her to try this? Has she ever expressed any interest in swinging etc in the past?
Hope it works out for you. Any jealously or mixed feelings yet?

Hi Rockwell12,

Honestly, my wife and I have been having trouble with our marriage for the last few years. We have kids, so we've hung it out for the sake of them, but for a variety of reasons both of us were unhappy. When I found out a couple months ago that she was having an emotional affair with another man online, whom she works with, I was at first extremely angry. She told me that she hadn't done anything physical nor would she ever do that, but admitted that she wanted to. This whole thing caught me off guard and my initial reaction was to absorb myself in work to avoid thinking about it. Of course this just pushed us further apart.

I started thinking about how happy my wife had been over those months while talking to this other man. I missed seeing her that way.

Also I started thinking about my chastity fantasy that I'd brought up to her in the past. The last time I brought it up, it didn't go over well at all. In fact, it went spectacularly bad, so I buried the idea pretty deep... but I wondered if she'd be more open to the idea if it meant she had freedom to explore herself sexually with other men. So, I gave the whole chastity thing another go but this time presented it with the cuckold fantasy as well. This honestly is not a fantasy I'd ever had before, but the more I thought about it in this context, the more I was turned on by it. Remarkably, my anger went away completely as soon as I started framing the whole situation in this context.

Well, long story short, I've been in Chastity since Tuesday of last week. She no longer hides the fact that she is sexting, and she is free to explore herself sexually outside of our marriage. Time will tell if this new dynamic will save our marriage, but I'm very hopeful, and for the first time in as long as I can remember, we are both very happy for now.

 

[cuckedinmi]

Wow. This is all new to me.
My thoughts would be, don't overwhelm her.
Although this is your fantasy being played out, she is the one making the big changes in a short period of time, where by you have been thinking about this for awhile.

I hear you sidonie45 and am trying hard to ease her into this gently by constantly asking her how she's feeling about everything. She's mentioned a couple times that if she realized how things would be, she would have agreed to this a long time ago. In fact, when I mentioned that the device I have is pretty cheap and probably escapable/uncomfortable, she seemed very into the idea of me upgrading to something more secure, which will be delivered sometime early Feb:

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[cuckedinmi]

Any chance she's just gone to stay at a friend's house but will tell you she's done all the nasty things you want her to do when she gets back?

She ended up getting home last night at around 1:30am and was glowing. I'm 100% sure she had sex. She was still wearing sexy lingerie under her clothes, and when I mentioned how badly I wanted her her right then, she allowed me to go down on her while in chastity. I could smell the condom. Wow, what a feeling that was!

She also told me about some of the things this man did that really turned her on and expressed interest in seeing him again.